Possible Booking Disasters while trying to maintain privacy

[HeatherMorgan]

I've noticed that there are quite a few gentlemen out there who like to use special phones or separate emails when contacting escorts.
This sounds like a great idea for those who want to keep their activites hidden from family/significant others and avoid worst case scenarios with people who use aggressive marketing of services or start to stalk.

My question for you is this.... are you ever worried about accidentally booking with someone you know from your daily g-rated activites? Friends? Family members? Friends of family members?

I make sure to block the emails/numbers of certain people from other areas of my life so I don't ever end up in a horrible situation.
If guys are using secret numbers and emails... and names... I might not find out till too late.
At best, they'd give me an address I'd recognize and they would write me off as being flaky.
At worst, I'd be SPRINTING IN HEELS to get as far away as I could after saying a few of my favourite expletives aloud.

Would you care if you accidentally booked a date with someone you knew?
How do you extra private dudes avoid this kind of situation?
Do you avoid people who look like people you know already?
Only book in towns where you just moved?

I've been curious for awhile...

 

[donovan12345]

I think that after the initial awkwardness, if the session continued it could/would be more exciting. I'd love it.

 

[Tugela]

Remember, it is not just a case of them having something on you in that situation, its also you having something on them as well. It would be in everyone's interests to keep quite about it.

It would be more awkward if the client turned out to be your brother or father though, I'd love to be a fly on the wall for that conversation!!

 

[HeatherMorgan]

Yeah... no one wants to run into their uncle.

 

[luvsdaty]

Actually did back in the 90's with a girl from back home.She was initially really embarrassed, but afterwards we had quite a few awesome sessions.She only did it for 3 months to get caught up on some bills. I see her from time to time & its always been our little secret

 

[uncleg]

Yeah... no one wants to run into their uncle.

Hey, uncles need love too....................

 

[way.tomuch]

i guess as long as it isnt your sister

 

[twoblues]

I've noticed that there are quite a few gentlemen out there who like to use special phones or separate emails when contacting escorts.
This sounds like a great idea for those who want to keep their activites hidden from family/significant others and avoid worst case scenarios with people who use aggressive marketing of services or start to stalk.

My question for you is this.... are you ever worried about accidentally booking with someone you know from your daily g-rated activites? Friends? Family members? Friends of family members?

I make sure to block the emails/numbers of certain people from other areas of my life so I don't ever end up in a horrible situation.
If guys are using secret numbers and emails... and names... I might not find out till too late.
At best, they'd give me an address I'd recognize and they would write me off as being flaky.
At worst, I'd be SPRINTING IN HEELS to get as far away as I could after saying a few of my favourite expletives aloud.

Would you care if you accidentally booked a date with someone you knew?
How do you extra private dudes avoid this kind of situation?
Do you avoid people who look like people you know already?
Only book in towns where you just moved?

I've been curious for awhile...

Personally, I tend to not book ladies within an age range of people I know. Thankfully (or sadly), I do not know a lot of pretty ladies in my life so it is not something I seriously worry about

 

[ZoeZee]

this happened to me once, it was a guy I went to high school with. I didn't handle it very gracefully. I didn't recognize the name and when I looked through the peephole I didn't recognize him. Just as he was walking in the door, I recognized him and basically shoved him back out and shut the door. I then phoned him to tell him we knew each other. I was so freaked out! He was glad I didn't let him in, but I think I almost gave him a heart attack!

 

[uncleg]

Since most people on here seem to have no problem with their choice of profession/entertainment, why should it be a problem if you run into somebody you know from elsewhere ?????

 

[satinguy]

A great thread Heather,

I think this must be a nightmare for the ladies more than the guys. We have the advantage of partially and in some cases fully seeing the person we are booking with. The Ladies are not so lucky and have no idea who may be on the otherside of the door. I have never faced this situation myself but have often wondered about it. My office building has some very very attractive young ladies working there and i have noticed a large number of ladies in junior positions such as reception, admin, etc parking very pricey luxury cars in our underground parking garage lately. First of all the parking alone is $300 a month and i wonder how they can afford it. second job maybe?

I would hope if i ended up in that situation it would be with one of them and not someone from my family life. I would assume the lady would be just as worried as me and maybe we could talk it out. Whether or not to go through with the session is another story but discretion is supppose to be part of the hobby so why not. Your secret, her secret everything should be fine. Now if it is your sister-law, wife best friend, that is another story. What would i do if i showed up at a place and it was my good freinds wife? I definitely wouldn't go through with it but would i tell my good freind? I don't know but i would want to know myself.

This is a very interesting question and i look forward to hearing other thoughts. Again, nice work Heather.

 

[MikeyFox]

I saw an ad once that I thought was an ex girlfriend on mine. Face in the ad was fuzzed out but I thought I could tell through it. I booked the appointment with her in some ways hoping it wasn't her because she was such a look alike I thought it would be great. Although about 25% of me wanted it to actually be her, because I always wanted to bang her one more time...

I wasn't overly concerned with it being her if it was. I was pretty certain had it been it would have remained our secret.

 

[Unpossible]

Yeah... no one wants to run into their uncle.

...or Dad! :fear:

 

[treveller]

I think it would be great to find out someone I know is a pro. It would give us more to share as friends and more to do as professional aquaintientences. If it makes her uncomfortable then I have no problem with a simple "NO" and we go on from there.

 

[JamieA]

Some of the situations that I've read about (some from old threads on this board) or stories that SPs have told me include:

A gal at the Swedish Touch didn't head out to the line-up when a potential client came in because it was her uncle, it apparently freaked her out and it was the main reason for her decision to retire from the business.

A guy booked a session through an agency, upon arrival at the agencies incall, the SP was the guy's girlfriend! The two didn't know about each others extracuricular activities so of course they were furious with each other.

An SP noticed that her dad visiting from out of town was calling her WORK number, I think the story was that she answered, disguised her voice as best as she could and told him she was all booked up or not available.

A guy entered a phone number of his cousin that he hasn't seen for ages while at a family reunion, and realizes that the number entered was already on the phone, he's pretty sure that his cousin is an SP that he has called before but never booked with.

An SP mentioned that her neighbour booked with her (session was not at one of their homes), she went through with the session, but she seemed to regret it since she described him as a creepy nosy neighbour type.

An SP mentioned that a guy she was acquainted with was wanting to date her (he didn't know she was an SP) ended up booking with her because she is the body type she likes, they went through with the session, she explained to him that while being an SP, she doesn't partake in regular dating.

In the early days of this hobby, I was quite sure based on the pics, say 75% sure, that an SP was an acquaintance of mine, I called her one time and the voice seemed to be a match as well, so then I was 95% sure, I never booked with her, but she was a gorgeous gal with great boobs and I always wondering what it would have been like to be with her.

 

[Monet]

didn't understand your questions.
:doh:

 

[gasman]

never had this happen but would guess both have just as much to lose so no biggey

 

[uncleg]