that’s quite an allegation, particularly as she follows up suggesting otherwise.luv-em-n-lv-em said:I don't follow. Please specify (using quotes ideally) which posts constitute harassment. Maybe amongst all the words in here there is something that makes this true, but if so I missed it.rollerboy said:Isabelle has already emphatically and publically stated that she feels harassed and hounded by OTBn.
since it’s such a serious allegation… as I recall, she/I have only ever interacted in two threads:
– one she deleted. In that thread I made a single post, a single sentence that suggested she unfavourably coloured her commentary by phrasing it around a rape reference… that’s it, in its entirety. Shortly after in that thread another poster carried on and in much greater pointed detail questioned/challenged her about what she had stated. She then deleted the thread.
– the second thread is still around & intact… accordingly, any harassment aspects should be easy to find and present.
btw: the quote reference to “the seeing how this plays out” was about the dynamics being played out vis-à-vis “one board versus the other” – nothing to do with an individual. The incorrectly quoted comment is quite clear/succinct; not sure why someone would want to use it in another way.
as for the rest: as many around here I’ve had a few incarnations - I’ve been around since the beginning but as relationships change, I’ve had long extended periods of absence… maybe 8 months being the longest away at a single point. When I have left I’ve asked my current handle/posts to be deleted – simply thinking “that’s it”. In those earlier periods I was more active in participating in Perb forums other than the Lounge – at this stage I’m very much less inclined to want to read/post reviews… YMMV seems ever prominent. If it costs me monetarily… c’est la vie. Today, yes my posting interests are skewed – but I’m not talking to myself… there must be other interest in “those threads”… and I feel I have contributed to much that is not strictly political in nature – for now, this handles history is still there if you’re inclined. A lot of detractors don’t hold to the same political leanings as I – so it either comes out in reasoned discussion… or less than reasoned discussion and some develop more antagonistic feelings rather than coming back with actual counter-opinion.
One thing I’ve been consistent in over these ‘board years’ is sticking up for the ladies presence and their direct participation. As I’ve said I’ve been here a while – presuming to validate the ladies presence has cost me in the past as many pooners suggest/imply they don’t belong on the review boards. Isabelle, I’ve stated we’ve had limited direct interaction in 2 threads – it’s unfortunate you took my single sentence comment, in the thread you deleted, as a direct challenge to your presence or right to post… the thread you deleted had value and you should think about putting the topic forward again. I encourage you to stand on your convictions if someone questions your views on something.
One final comment on this thread: I thought the intended topic had legs and deserved a proper run – unfortunately we had a couple of guys purposely steer it off topic… one of them as much stated exactly that in subsequent follow-up… as well as the several who took it as an opportunity to “compare/critique boards”. I’ve taken my lumps for attempting to put the thread back to its original intent. Thanks to the few of you who commented on the actual topic…





