Pooning and the economy

[Americanboy]

I've tried this hobby in lots of different cities all over North America. It's kind of crazy how there aren't that many escort options in Vancouver, considering how chill the laws are here compared to the US. But it looks like sugar sites are pretty poppin here , so maybe that's where all the girls are hanging out now. How many guys are actually booking with women over 30, to be honest?

 

[maniacalone]

Yeah I'd be interested to read more research on this topic. Scientific American had a special issue on Sex some years ago which investigates why do Johns buy sex?

Why would any man settle into a relationship and deal with all that headaches that come with it. Why commit when it’s so readily available whenever the urge arises?

Logically, there is no upside to getting married or making a legal commitment of any kind with women.

Too much financial risk for men.

 

[vanperb]

Why would any man settle into a relationship and deal with all that headaches that come with it. Why commit when it’s so readily available whenever the urge arises?

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

Are you day drinking right now @vanperb?

 

[white Ninja]

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

Agreed

 

[white Ninja]

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maintain a healthy financial and mental state.

Ditto !

 

[vanperb]

Are you day drinking right now @vanperb?

YOU'RE NOT MY SUPERVISOR!

 

[maniacalone]

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

I do not disagree. Offering a response to the post about why men visit escorts beyond the obvious reasons.

 

[vanperb]

Too much financial risk for men.

I want to add its a lot of risk for women too. Domestic violence and abuse increases as the economic outlook for a society declines. Once they're shacked up with someone it progressively becomes harder and harder to leave for emotional and financial reasons when things go bad.

Just a lot of risk all around.

 

[E.H.]

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

In this day & age,that would be reaching for something,that just isn't there.

Engelbert Humperdink

 

[angry anderson]

 

[westwoody]

Maybe because you might find someone supportive and loving and an actual partner to grow with. There's more to life than just sex. I don't believe I just said that. I mean, maybe I'm just a romantic.

It’s working for me!

 

[sensualsixty]

It’s working for me!

I am glad to see that there are at least some perb members who are not cynical about marriage.

 

[BBSol]

White Ninja seems like you have a disciplined approach where you live within your means. I wonder how many guys spend more than they can afford because they have an addiction to the hobby.

Youll be surprised by how many go above their means to supply this lifestyle. I use to work with a guy that spends all his paychecks on SPs. One of the main issues is that the barrier to entry has gotten
to the point where its not logical anymore. For example these days a simple HJ could run about $200! Where as not long ago the same amount could get you a way more with a reputable provider.

 

[zippy45]

ok $400 an hour as a rough guess, 3 visits is a flight to pretty well anywhere in the world. A quote i got from a Thai girl, You are rich, I said no im not. her answer, you can fly half way around the world for a holiday, you are rich. I might sound like a broken record on this but I would never deal with the women here, 3 dates or go somewhere warm with for us reasonably priced women

 

[maniacalone]

I am glad to see that there are at least some perb members who are not cynical about marriage.

Before you hand out medals of valour to them, lest not forget these married men are sleeping with escorts (presumably without their significant others permission).

 

[sensualsixty]

Before you hand out medals of valour to them, lest not forget these married men are sleeping with escorts (presumably without their significant others permission).

An incorrect assumption. Please do not ask for quotations, but some have made it clear that their wife agrees/accepts/understands.

 

[white Ninja]

Surprising.
Its still a taboo in western society so surprising

Despite the efforts of more inclusion and recently more efforts around less shaming and more sex positivity, the fact is N America , Canada included, less so than the states but still , in society is still heavily influenced by traditional Christian values . Even if your friends aren’t like that , does not mean the majority isn’t. Simply look at the media , in todays world arguably the most influential thing in modern society .

 

[jgg]

... traditional Christian values ...

I find Christians to be the least christian.

 

[ludovico123]

I'm fortunate enough to have the money to enjoy this hobby as much as I want but I've had a hard time finding options that meet what I'm looking for. I've also been let down by some providers not being what they were advertised to be, and had an incident with a provider I reviewed trying to expose my identity, so now I'm not sure how discreet this hobby really is. I have a couple of favourite girls I see semi regularly, but I also enjoy the variety this hobby brings and mixing things up by trying new providers in between visits with my regular ones. I've been spending more of my hobby money on sugar dating lately. It takes a bit more time upfront, but I find it easier to what I like that way and I'm not let down as much.I believe there will always be a demand for escorts because it is the most convenient way to pay for sex.

I've mentioned this in another thread, but I'm curious about the demand side. When I look to book with providers on platforms like Tryst, their schedules often appear to be quite wide open, even for last-minute appointments. This makes me question how many clients they actually see, and if there is really a ton of demand. It seems that only the popular girls who work part-time at agencies get booked up quickly.

I have also noticed that availability has gotten a lot better lately