So before anyone reads, please rest assured that I'm making no judgments on anyone or their activities cause that would make me a hypocrite.
So as the title states. There seems to be a number or group for every other vice except pooning. Does anyone know of a group or number to phone. I've been fighting the itch really hard for the past two months, I've been getting by with masturbation but my sex drive is through the roof and there is only so much jacking off one can do, it's just not the same as sex with a woman to say the least.
When I first moved out here 13 years ago this wasn't really a big concern, the city was different then, people were friendlier and meeting nice women was never a problem. Fast forward to now and it's the exact opposite. I'm not a bad looking guy and I've got a great personality, still relatively young at almost 34, I hold down a decent job, I'm honest and very fun to be with but I don't seem to be what women in this city want.
Pooning for me used to be a very occasional thing to quench this amazingly strong sexual urge, however it's now become something else and every time I participate in this "hobby" I always tell myself that it will be the last time and of course it never is. Whenever I've had a girlfriend that's all I needed, I never pooned or went outside the relationship. Like every other time I leave the session on a high and then after a while I just feel empty inside again and extremely unfulfilled.
Add to that I've gotten used to the type of sex that comes with paying someone for it. I like "dirtier" style of sex and I've now had it and it's like Chris Rock said in his comedy special, "Women can't go back in lifestyle and Men can't go back sexually." The good news I guess is that in my experience I've found more and more that a lot of women don't mind if you cum in their mouth (some even like it) and you can come across a few ladies out there that enjoy a good ass fucking, but I think it might be hard to find one that likes all that and gives good rimmers, that might be hard and not that I have to get down and dirty all the time but I need that once in a while that's for sure.
Like I said above, I'm nobody's judge and legally I don't think it's wrong but morally if I'm honest with myself I just think there is something wrong with exchanging money for sex. Sex is supposed to be a thing that brings two people together and helps with stress, puts people at ease and gives them a good frame of mind, and for me at least, giving someone money for it just cheapens it and makes it something different and I just don't think that a man of my ability should have to pay for something like that.
Not to mention that even on the lower end of the scale without resorting to East Hastings exploitation of poor or addicted women, it get's pretty expensive and when I think about the money I've spent doing this over the last 10 years and especially last 3 years, it's sickening.
For now I guess I'm gonna keep fighting the good fight but it's been over a year and a half since I've had sex with a woman that I didn't have to pay and that was in Toronto so somethings gotta give. It would be nice if there were some kind of number to call for support in my weaker moments. Please Ladies and Gentlemen don't be afraid to weigh in with any advice or opinions that you think might be helpful. My intent is not to debate legality or have this post become snarky, but I think it helps a bit to talk about it and it's not really something I feel proud about talking to with my friends.
One last thing, some might say just to quit this site but rest assured sex will still be on my mind with or without this site. I do my best not to read reviews anymore but I still like to read the lounge for the debate and differing and interesting opinions.
Sorry for the rambling rant and wish me luck folks, I'm gonna need it.
So as the title states. There seems to be a number or group for every other vice except pooning. Does anyone know of a group or number to phone. I've been fighting the itch really hard for the past two months, I've been getting by with masturbation but my sex drive is through the roof and there is only so much jacking off one can do, it's just not the same as sex with a woman to say the least.
When I first moved out here 13 years ago this wasn't really a big concern, the city was different then, people were friendlier and meeting nice women was never a problem. Fast forward to now and it's the exact opposite. I'm not a bad looking guy and I've got a great personality, still relatively young at almost 34, I hold down a decent job, I'm honest and very fun to be with but I don't seem to be what women in this city want.
Pooning for me used to be a very occasional thing to quench this amazingly strong sexual urge, however it's now become something else and every time I participate in this "hobby" I always tell myself that it will be the last time and of course it never is. Whenever I've had a girlfriend that's all I needed, I never pooned or went outside the relationship. Like every other time I leave the session on a high and then after a while I just feel empty inside again and extremely unfulfilled.
Add to that I've gotten used to the type of sex that comes with paying someone for it. I like "dirtier" style of sex and I've now had it and it's like Chris Rock said in his comedy special, "Women can't go back in lifestyle and Men can't go back sexually." The good news I guess is that in my experience I've found more and more that a lot of women don't mind if you cum in their mouth (some even like it) and you can come across a few ladies out there that enjoy a good ass fucking, but I think it might be hard to find one that likes all that and gives good rimmers, that might be hard and not that I have to get down and dirty all the time but I need that once in a while that's for sure.
Like I said above, I'm nobody's judge and legally I don't think it's wrong but morally if I'm honest with myself I just think there is something wrong with exchanging money for sex. Sex is supposed to be a thing that brings two people together and helps with stress, puts people at ease and gives them a good frame of mind, and for me at least, giving someone money for it just cheapens it and makes it something different and I just don't think that a man of my ability should have to pay for something like that.
Not to mention that even on the lower end of the scale without resorting to East Hastings exploitation of poor or addicted women, it get's pretty expensive and when I think about the money I've spent doing this over the last 10 years and especially last 3 years, it's sickening.
For now I guess I'm gonna keep fighting the good fight but it's been over a year and a half since I've had sex with a woman that I didn't have to pay and that was in Toronto so somethings gotta give. It would be nice if there were some kind of number to call for support in my weaker moments. Please Ladies and Gentlemen don't be afraid to weigh in with any advice or opinions that you think might be helpful. My intent is not to debate legality or have this post become snarky, but I think it helps a bit to talk about it and it's not really something I feel proud about talking to with my friends.
One last thing, some might say just to quit this site but rest assured sex will still be on my mind with or without this site. I do my best not to read reviews anymore but I still like to read the lounge for the debate and differing and interesting opinions.
Sorry for the rambling rant and wish me luck folks, I'm gonna need it.
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