Pondering

[Papa Chongo]

So I have been doing this for a while now, and over the past few weeks I find myself bringing the terminology into my regular life, ....

- referring to my wife as my SO
- referring to the $100 bill as a brown
- referring to the $50 bill as a red
- referring to the $20 bill as a green...

where does it all end, I'm scared on the off chance my wife wants to get busy I'm going to be appalled at her offering me BBFS, or worse, we may be laying there one night and I may ask her if I can get experience a little PSE or even some BLS

... maybe the worst of it will happen and i'll pass her an envelope with a brown, and 5 greens, and ask if she is going to hop in the mandatory shower with me.......

I'm dizzy!

 

[namssa]

CBT = Cock & Ball Torture......................easy peasy.

 

[HubbaHubba]

That's some funny stuff JG Well done!

 

[steverino]

I think the references to the bill denominations by the colour are not exclusive to the hobby so you are ok with that one.

 

[namssa]

Ummmm... not necessarily easy!

Though most times my CBT is more like Cock and Ball Titillation, there are some that want things to be rather intense!


xoxo
Nina

Lol, have never seen CBT as "Titllation", although it does make sense.

Also, I think that Cock and Ball Torture might be pretty intense as well.......although, I like your idea better.

 

[namssa]

So I have been doing this for a while now, and over the past few weeks I find myself bringing the terminology into my regular life, ....

How about the other way around?

My SO works in a field that shares some terminology with this hobby.

One morning, out of the blue, she stated that she was going to a meeting with some "Service Providers".......I spewed coffee all over the table when I heard that and was thinking about which travelling SP's were here that day. Seems she was referring to a different type of "Service Provider", thank God.

 

[uncleg]

How about the other way around?

My SO works in a field that shares some terminology with this hobby.

One morning, out of the blue, she stated that she was going to a meeting with some "Service Providers".......I spewed coffee all over the table when I heard that and was thinking about which travelling SP's were here that day. Seems she was referring to a different type of "Service Provider", thank God.

You hope.

 

[namssa]

You hope.

Well, I hope that if the S/O was meeting with one of the girls I see, that she was picking up tips on how to please me............lol

 

[sevenofnine]

i used to give women a dollar value as i encountered them.


actually im done in this,
i hang with one sp now, thats all i see
were sort of like old friends,
I don't look at her at all as an sp
though i still pay her and keep one eye on the clock

but other then that were pretty relaxed,
supper together or whatever we don't even have to talk about it. or discuss it we are so comfortable with each other.

i have seen her for almost a decade
i wouldn't mind seeing her for another decade

i sometimes would wonder about the money i spent on her.
i could be spending it somewhere else.

but what is the fucking point of having money sitting in the bank and your not happy in your life.
and i would wonder about well the morality of paying for sex paying some one to in essence use there body


well i paid my wife bought her new houses cars etc
and to be honest im having more sex with my sp then i am with my wife.
so maybe i should ask for some of the money back from my wife.

we pay in this world no matter what,

sps are in some way more honest
then a women you meet in the bar
or marry

 

[lenny]

i used to give women a dollar value as i encountered them.

If they turn out to be an SP, then you're way ahead of the game
like a chess grandmaster.

When i see women walking about, i'm like the Terminator scanning
their body parts, assessing each area with a numerical value of 1-10.
Legs 9, ass 2, arms 8, hair 7, face 7.5, boobs 5.0...i wonder where
i got that idea from ;

actually im done in this,
i hang with one sp now, thats all i see

That would interest me, although i'd probably still want some variety,
from time to time. In the past i've had this for relatively brief periods,
up to 6 months or so.

i sometimes would wonder about the money i spent on her.
i could be spending it somewhere else.

but what is the fucking point of having money sitting in the bank and your not happy in your life.
and i would wonder about well the morality of paying for sex paying some one to in essence use there body

Exactly, although many would prefer to save it up for retirement.
Thing is, who's to say you'll even get there. And, if you do, will
your health and/or looks, etc, prevent you from enjoying it at all
or the way you might have when younger?

well i paid my wife bought her new houses cars etc
and to be honest im having more sex with my sp then i am with my wife.

Me too. Way more sex.

so maybe i should ask for some of the money back from my wife.

we pay in this world no matter what,

sps are in some way more honest
then a women you meet in the bar
or marry

Good post.

 

[namssa]

well i paid my wife bought her new houses cars etc
and to be honest im having more sex with my sp then i am with my wife.
so maybe i should ask for some of the money back from my wife.

we pay in this world no matter what,

sps are in some way more honest
then a women you meet in the bar
or marry

You are probably paying your SP less than your wife and having more sex with the SP....and better sex as well.

I see about 3 girls regularly and dabble a bit otherwise. For the most part, the 3 girls I see show me a great time are wonderful VFM and I don't have a reason to seek others, but I am just a horny guy. I also dabble in the swinging scene again lately.

We all pay in some fashion, it is just a question of who, when and how much.

At least with SP's, they are a hell of a lot more honest for the most part and the sex is a hell of a lot better. The 3 SP's I see I trust more than I would some members of my own family, they have shown wonderful character and trustworthiness.

Wish I had known about this lifestyle before I got married.

Some good thoughts, sevenofnine.