I posted something here a few years ago asking about pompoir experts in Vancouver.
Please look this up if you haven’t heard of it: it’s one of the most amazing skills any woman can have. I have met 3 women who could do this, over 30 years of searching. The last one I found was about 5 years ago. I only wish I had kept up with them to see them again.
The people who had this skill were not the ones I might have expected: one was an modest, shy white girl in her mid 20s. The other 2 were average-looking Asian women in their 30s. None of them advertised the fact that they had this magical skill. One other person claimed to be able to do this, but actually couldn’t. I often ask people to give it a try (encourage your partner to “squeeze as hard as you can”) but In most cases you can barely feel it. One other girl in her 20s, over 10 years ago, could create a nice sensation by moving her legs, which is nice too, but not quite the same.
I‘ll bet this is a skill that some people are just blessed to have, but it can probably be developed to some degree through practice as well (such as Kegel exercises).
Please let me know if there’s anyone out there who is good at this!
Please look this up if you haven’t heard of it: it’s one of the most amazing skills any woman can have. I have met 3 women who could do this, over 30 years of searching. The last one I found was about 5 years ago. I only wish I had kept up with them to see them again.
The people who had this skill were not the ones I might have expected: one was an modest, shy white girl in her mid 20s. The other 2 were average-looking Asian women in their 30s. None of them advertised the fact that they had this magical skill. One other person claimed to be able to do this, but actually couldn’t. I often ask people to give it a try (encourage your partner to “squeeze as hard as you can”) but In most cases you can barely feel it. One other girl in her 20s, over 10 years ago, could create a nice sensation by moving her legs, which is nice too, but not quite the same.
I‘ll bet this is a skill that some people are just blessed to have, but it can probably be developed to some degree through practice as well (such as Kegel exercises).
Please let me know if there’s anyone out there who is good at this!
