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And i thought i was the only one..

You’ve Got Voice Mail, but Do You Care?

WHEN Steve Hamrick left his last job as manager at a software corporation, he had at least 25 unheard messages in his office voice mailbox. And that’s not counting the unreturned calls on his cellphone or landline at home.

It’s not that he doesn’t like to talk. But with the cascade of messages he receives by e-mail, texting and on Facebook, Mr. Hamrick, 29, a self-described “voice mail phobic” from Cupertino, Calif., said he’d found better ways to keep in touch.

“I had to give up something and that, for me, was voice mail,” he said. “It’s cutting out some forms of communication to make room for the others.”

When it was introduced in the early 1980s, voice mail was hailed as a miracle invention — a boon to office productivity and a godsend to busy households. Hollywood screenwriters incorporated it into plotlines: Distraught heroine comes home, sees blinking red light, listens as desperate suitor begs for another chance to make it all right. Beep!

But in an age of instant information gratification, the burden of having to hit the playback button — or worse, dial in to a mailbox and enter a pass code — and sit through “ums” and “ahs” can seem too much to bear.

Many dread the process or, like Mr. Hamrick, avoid it altogether, raising the question: is voice mail on its way to becoming obsolete?

“Once upon a time, voice mail was useful,” said Yen Cheong, 32, a book publicist in New York who has transitioned almost entirely to e-mail and text messaging. According to her calculation, it takes 7 to 10 steps to check a voice mail message versus zero to 3 for an e-mail.

“If you left a message, I have to dial in, dial in my code,” Ms. Cheong said. “Then I mess up and redial. Then once I hear the message, I need the phone number. I try to write it down, and then I have to rewind the message to hear it again,” she added, feigning exhaustion.

Tim Kassouf from Baltimore, 24, who calls himself “a certified voice mail hater,” said he had 68 messages, 62 of them unheard, in his cellphone mail box. Scott Taylor, 41, a senior manager at an e-commerce company in Phoenix, said voice mail was “just totally an ineffective communication method, almost ancient now.”

Like many others, Mr. Taylor advises callers on his outgoing message to try his cellphone or to send an e-mail message if they need to reach him right away.

It is good advice. Research shows that people take longer to reply to voice messages than other types of communication. Data from uReach Technologies, which operates the voice messaging systems of Verizon Wireless and other cellphone carriers, shows that over 30 percent of voice messages linger unheard for three days or longer and that more than 20 percent of people with messages in their mailboxes “rarely even dial in” to check them, said Saul Einbinder, senior vice president for marketing and business development for uReach, in an e-mail message.

By contrast, 91 percent of people under 30 respond to text messages within an hour, and they are four times more likely to respond to texts than to voice messages within minutes, according to a 2008 study for Sprint conducted by the Opinion Research Corporation. Even adults 30 and older are twice as likely to respond within minutes to a text than to a voice message, the study found.

There are no definitive studies of how many voice mail messages American leave compared with earlier periods, but if the technology is heading toward obsolescence — as many communication experts suspect — the trend is being driven by young people. Again and again, people under 25 recount returning calls from older colleagues and family members without bothering to listen to messages first. Thanks to cellphone technology, they can see who called and hit the Send button to reply without calling their voice mail box. “Didn’t you get my message?” parents ask. “No,” their children reply, “but I saw that you called.”
full story http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/02/fashion/02voicemail.html?_r=1&ref=todayspaper
 

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Personally, I think it's just simple fucking laziness. It doesn't take that long to check your voice mail. This guy only had 24 voice mails and he couldn't take the time to answer them? Depending on how long they were, it could have been done in 10-minutes. It doesn't say if they were left on his machine in one day or one year. By not answering them he took the easy, lazy way out. He could have answered them on his lunch hour or just before he left work that day to go home. He even admits he gave up on answering voice mail.

People have their preferred methods of communication which they rely on at the exclusion of others and this article illustrates that clearly with its example.
 

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just take to people.

I ment to say: just talk to people

I would rather answer the phone or phone them and talk in person...
Maybe it is not convenient at that time .. then have them call back at a given time .. or phone them back.
Texing is good some time when you need an address or number then it is available. to look up.
But i phone people because I want to talk to them.
The worst is a missed phoning call with a blocked number and no message why did they even bother to phone..
 

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emails are good when

1) Covering your ass
2) Sending short messages
3) not convenient to speak on phone
4) Avoiding an issue directly face to face

Emails are bad for potential misintepretation especially with no context/tone when dealing with sensitive or complex topics ...which require typically consultative "live and real time" dialogue.
 

Lesbian Hunter

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Ask any I.T guy why he gets 20 mails a day and 150 emails? It's "simple fucking laziness" on behalf of the person calling.

My blackberry buzzes enough in a day that if the chicks on this forum used it as a vibrator, half of them would have massive orgasms.

The reason most people don't check their voice mail, etc is because most people in corporations are TOO FUCKING LAZY to actually "figure something out"..so when cornered they try to pass the buck to someone else then expect an immediate response.
If you can't co-ordinate and organize your communication then you have a problem that you have to correct. If you get as many emails as you say you do then fix it so you don't get as many. You're not as important or as vauluable as you may think you are. Ignoring them is not the answer. If you get too many unnecessary emails then communicate to those people sending them to you NOT to do it any longer unless it's an absolute necessity. Don't bitch about it -- fix it.

This thread had NOTHING to do with emails. It was an article on 24 VOICE MAIL messages and a guy who was too fucking lazy to spend 10-minutes answering them.
 

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Personally, I think it's just simple fucking laziness. It doesn't take that long to check your voice mail. This guy only had 24 voice mails and he couldn't take the time to answer them? Depending on how long they were, it could have been done in 10-minutes.
Answer 24 voice mails in 10 minutes? That seems ridiculously optimistic to me. It depends totally on what line of work you're in, but for me I would say the average length of time it takes me to deal with a single voicemail (and by "deal with" I don't just mean picking up the phone and calling somebody back - I mean actually dealing with whatever they're calling about) is probably about 20-40 minutes. On extremely rare occasions it takes less than 5 minutes, and in some cases I've had it take several hours. Again, it totally depends on what type of work you do.
 

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This thread had NOTHING to do with emails. It was an article on 24 VOICE MAIL messages and a guy who was too fucking lazy to spend 10-minutes answering them.
Actually, it has everything to do with email. Go back and re-read the original post where it talks repeatedly about email.
 
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