Personal hygiene when seeing an lady

[johnsmit]

There have been a few ladies that have commented on the hiegien of the clients .
And I just heard about it again from a friend that had to ask a client to leave because they just could not stand the stink. And that was still with their close on .

Honestly guy what are you thinking when you go to see a girl and you just stink ..
No wonder you don't have a girl friend .. and in this day and age when we can shower when ever we want why would you not make sure you are clean and smell desent when seeing a lady .Just be cause you are paying does not mean she has to put up with any discusting thing like stinky fore skin
And sweet balls and shitty ass.
Where is your respect for someone else's sensablities ..their health and care for your own aperance .
I thing most of the guys that post here are presentable to the ladies but there are thousands of guests that how well do you care for your hiegien and how do you treat and respect the girls that work ?

 

[LM987]

at the very least, use a wet wipe before you arrive, or excuse yourself to use the restroom & freshen up a bit.

 

[ddcanz]

There have been a few ladies that have commented on the hiegien of the clients .
And I just heard about it again from a friend that had to ask a client to leave because they just could not stand the stink. And that was still with their close on .

Honestly guy what are you thinking when you go to see a girl and you just stink ..
No wonder you don't have a girl friend .. and in this day and age when we can shower when ever we want why would you not make sure you are clean and smell desent when seeing a lady .Just be cause you are paying does not mean she has to put up with any discusting thing like stinky fore skin
And sweet balls and shitty ass.
Where is your respect for someone else's sensablities ..their health and care for your own aperance .
I thing most of the guys that post here are presentable to the ladies but there are thousands of guests that how well do you care for your hiegien and how do you treat and respect the girls that work ?

You make some good points- and good personal hygiene should go without saying when seeing an SP.
At least tell her beforehand that you are coming from work and will need to shower upon arrival.
However- and this is not to jack this thread- I can't take you seriously when you have never taken the time to review your own comments for not only grammar but also your consistently shitty spelling.
"Close" means "clothes"? "Aperance"? "Heigien"? FFS already- have you heard of spellcheck?
Most on here know I'm not a grammar Nazi- in fact I'm usually the first to support the so-called offender and snap back at those cops that regularly chime in when someone innocently misuses a word- "waist" vs "waste" for example- when in reality the meaning of the post is quite clear to all.
I'll go out on a limb with the assumption that English is not your first language- but make a fucking effort OK?

 

[ddcanz]

So you're saying there is a direct correlation between a guy that is polite and caring; as to introduction and letting you know who he is ---- compared to a guy who is blunt, rude and possibly even disrespectful in the final outcome on how they present themselves to you in person? Wow, who'd have figured what they type as a message might help you visualize what scruples they have as they show up to your door in person.

Sorry for the sarcasm
However as I stated once or twice before, I have found that trying to introduce myself and be polite has often worked against me in approaching some lady advertiser's. I don't care, I have a better knack for it now, not going to change who I am. Just making a point that UNFORTUNATELY a lot of SP's seem to want it short and to the point. I have had, for example, replies that ask questions when if they had READ the introduction they would have seen I very legibly provided that information already.

Anyway back to the subject, get clean dummies!
You want to see a women so FINE and beautiful and then you show up unwashed....idiotic.

EDIT:
Hey grammar Nazi, can you check over my response too...LOL
Seriously, I always have run on sentences and improper sentence structure, could use the grammar check.

Aw Fuck!- now I'm in the shit- a new nickname besides " That Fucking Asshole"!
Check out my own contributions- you'd think I have a "dash" fetish or something. A complete sentence? WTF is that? And my own run-ons would give yours a run for their money any day of the week!
Was just a quick rant at JS because I've found so many of his posts to be quite unintelligible.

 

[resercher]

I have to admit the first time I was paying for sex or at least I thought I was paying for sex turned out to be just a hand job I made a mistake I thought I made shure i cleaned everything or at least I thought i did however when i got nude with the lady in question I suddenley rememberd that I had forgoten to clip my toenails.


After that experence I make shure i clip my toenails clip my fingernails brush my teeth clean my asshole shave both my face and my privets etc.

there are three possible resons I can think for poor hygine while visiting a sp hapening

1 the guys who have never been in a sexual situation with a woman like I was and forget to do things like clip their toenails etc.

2 some men think while I am paying for it so why should I put an efort out for a whore etc



3 men who for whatever reson do not plan and calling a sp is a sudden impulse so they dont plan ahead .




As far as the" no wonder you dont have a girlfrend coment" . I would guess that there are a lot of pooners that not olny so called have girlfrends but wives as well. There are threads in this forum in fact talking about how to hide your pooning from a significant other .



As i have said before
personally hate the "I have a girlfrend /wife" idea no one "has" a girlfrend This idea goes back to ancent history when women where kept as chattels . Men and women quite often will talk about my girlfrend / boyfrend. something you have is something you own . People can not be owned or at least they should not be.


Unfortunatley this stupidity has even been written into canadian law.
A number of years back I read a case where A man sent his wife to the bank to renegotate their morgage and make a final payment in montreal . He had to work that day and they had agreed what they where going to do The bank told her that as a "wife" she was not alowed to do this as she was considered her husbands property. My guess is it has changed but this was after women had had the right to vote for a very long time.

The no wonder you dont have a girlfrend coment also to my mind is saying to some extent " no wonder you are a loser becase of your poor hygine and you do not have a girlfrend "
Unfortunatley some men who do not so called "have" a girlfrend get quite upset about it and take the " you are a loser becase you do not have a girlfrend idea quite personally .to the point of murder suicide If we got rid of this stupid idea that you own or posess a girlfrend / boyfrend and are a loser if you do not have one I think our socity would do well to get rid of this concept of ownership of people
It would get rid of a lot of violence as well .

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/08/05/pennsylvania.gym.shooting/



https://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/may/30/elliot-rodger-puahate-forever-alone-reddit-forums

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_Lépine#L.C3.A9pine.27s_suicide_statement

 

[johnsmit]

I find your comments on that "don't have a girlfriend" very interesting. .

I only ment that personal hygiene may be part of the problem .Maybe the person does not want one.
And I have to admit I don't have a girl friend in the intamate sense.

But I have a few girl I am friends with.

Now on this ownership thing ,yes i think you are quite right .This is something that has existed in most cultures.
Ownership of wife., girlfriend and children. That attitude is totally inappropriate today .Know one owns any one , and Marrage is not a contract of ownership...

And not having a girlfriend is not a reason to be depressed or kill your self. It's just life.

But you can try your best to look your best if your seeing someone. .moreso on first impressions with the escort of choise.

PS .I do try to spell check big word but when the right word does not show up it does not help to show me the right spelling .

I do agree that some of the stupid errors like close and clothes and be frustrating to those that have good grammar and instinctively understand it usage.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

So you're saying there is a direct correlation between a guy that is polite and caring; as to introduction and letting you know who he is ---- compared to a guy who is blunt, rude and possibly even disrespectful in the final outcome on how they present themselves to you in person? Wow, who'd have figured what they type as a message might help you visualize what scruples they have as they show up to your door in person.

I LOVE IT when gentlemen question something that a lady has learned over time. She has noticed a correlation, and it is being questioned. LOVE IT. It makes me want to ask hey, when you were a professional companion, what were your findings? How else would you have an opinion about something that has been learned through experience?

Also - it is likely that your well-written, well thought-out emails were sent to ladies you hadn't researched properly as being able to appreciate your effort and see it as a sign that you would be a terrific client - but that's another conversation.

Your turn to forgive the sarcasm. It's nothing personal, just a thought I haven't had the chance to share before. Thanks for the opportunity.

I fully agree with Miss Hunter that there is a direct correlation between the time and effort someone will put into introducing themselves and that they will put into getting ready for a tryst.

 

[Atticus]

I LOVE IT when gentlemen question something that a lady has learned over time. She has noticed a correlation, and it is being questioned. LOVE IT. It makes me want to ask hey, when you were a professional companion, what were your findings? How else would you have an opinion about something that has been learned through experience?

Also - it is likely that your well-written, well thought-out emails were sent to ladies you hadn't researched properly as being able to appreciate your effort and see it as a sign that you would be a terrific client - but that's another conversation.

Your turn to forgive the sarcasm. It's nothing personal, just a thought I haven't had the chance to share before. Thanks for the opportunity.

I fully agree with Miss Hunter that there is a direct correlation between the time and effort someone will put into introducing themselves and that they will put into getting ready for a tryst.

I find it so much better when you make a connection before meeting. Phone, e-mail, Twitter, helps build the anticipation and it makes the date much more than just a physical encounter.

 

[pro-boner]

Walking through the door with confidence, squeaky clean, well groomed (never met a girl that preferred unmanscaped yet), well dressed looking cool, having done your homework as well as you can on the girl, with perhaps some Twitter interactions, or teasing texts, to set the anticipatory stage, all this can only help you both get the most out of your amorous interaction.

As I have said many times before, the coin gets you through the door, gets you a ticket to the game, what happens after that is all about respect, connection, appreciation, and a little bit of skill also helps. If you can get between her ears in a good way, and vice versa I might add, you will have a very nice time.

My interactions with say Peyton Anders and Mel in the Okanagan were very nice examples of this....

 

[manni]

And sweet balls and shitty ass.

no SP should endure that.

 

[yasmine]

Bang on girl

Something I noticed when I jacked my screening way up...

Just a generalization...But there seems to be a direct correlation between guys who take the time to introduce themselves properly & guys who know how to use soap & a cloth properly in the shower before a visit.

The guys who book using one liners are a much higher chance of being no shows..and if they do show its a good chance their hygiene and/or attitude is stinky.

Anyways, just my observation and experience...

 

[Equity Market investor]

I always, ALWAYS shower before play time :thumb:..Then, upon arrival I'm asked to take a shower, and so I take another one. I can't get cleaner or smell better that. Right? :strawberry:

 

[badbadboy]

I am baffled about these threads having to remind guys to manscape and wash their junk. :doh:

This is an expensive hobby and if you are making a $300+ Hourly investment, doesn't it make sense to make yourself 100% acceptable to your provider? We expect the SP to be immaculately groomed without any offensive scent and we should do the same for them.

After all aren't we looking for the best experience every time?

 

[rexxx]

I LOVE IT when gentlemen question something that a lady has learned over time. She has noticed a correlation, and it is being questioned. LOVE IT. It makes me want to ask hey, when you were a professional companion, what were your findings? How else would you have an opinion about something that has been learned through experience?

Also - it is likely that your well-written, well thought-out emails were sent to ladies you hadn't researched properly as being able to appreciate your effort and see it as a sign that you would be a terrific client - but that's another conversation.

Your turn to forgive the sarcasm. It's nothing personal, just a thought I haven't had the chance to share before. Thanks for the opportunity.

I fully agree with Miss Hunter that there is a direct correlation between the time and effort someone will put into introducing themselves and that they will put into getting ready for a tryst.

Everyone knows that correlation = causation so you should never question it

 

[meaghanmcleodDELETED]

I'm always surprised at the ones who don't go wash their hands. Yes, I understand you had a shower just before hand. However, from the time you took your shower, you've touched door knobs, elevator buttons and goodness knows what else. Washing hands involves soap, and saying your ABC's. Just a suggestion.

 

[Avery]

I saying your ABC's

Saying your ABC's? I wash my ABC's (ass, balls, cock). :bump2:

 

[pro-boner]

The asian girls take matters into their own hands, with the sopam protocol. They wash you themselves, like your mother did when you were 6, lol! They make an event out of it! Nothing like a girl undressing you, doing a reach around in the shower, and giving you a bbbj in said shower as well. All the while closely scopeing out the equipment. You also get the chance to soap her up as well. When you exit the shower together you are ready to rock!

Why more white girls don't do this baffles me.

The shower can very much be a very erotic (and practical) thing. They also shower with you on exit. ( This means she has showered twice before each playtime)

Make sense? I think it is just smart business.

 

[meaghanmcleodDELETED]

The asian girls take matters into their own hands, with the sopam protocol. They wash you themselves, like your mother did when you were 6, lol! They make an event out of it! Nothing like a girl undressing you, doing a reach around in the shower, and giving you a bbbj in said shower as well. All the while closely scopeing out the equipment. You also get the chance to soap her up as well. When you exit the shower together you are ready to rock!

Why more white girls don't do this baffles me.

The shower can very much be a very erotic (and practical) thing. They also shower with you on exit. ( This means she has showered twice before each playtime)

Make sense? I think it is just smart business.

I still remember someone who I joined. We were having a great time. However, he then decided to use the man soap I have to wash me. Man, that shit burns. I'm like, I need to wash this off right away. So, if you decide to wash her, make sure you are using the right soap.

For anyone that doesn't understand saying the ABC's while washing their hands. If you say the alphabet, while washing (with soap and water), you actually get an opportunity to really wash your hands. Throwing water on your hands just doesn't do it.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Yup I totally agree, it would be more erotic and fun. As a few SP's have mentioned, the more obvious reason they don't do this, is they spent along time putting on make-up and doing their hair so they look good for you. Or if they wore nylons and garters and other sexy lingerie to take it off so it wouldn't be appreciated as much would be a waste of effort. In some cases it would be great to have an accompanied shower, others it's just better to go in solo and get rocking after you're clean.

I actually LOVE being able to join in on a hot soapy shower once it's time for all the laundry to come off! It's a closer emulation of a "real-life' sexual encounter where there's kisses, caresses, maybe a little canoodling, etc. followed by I like knowing ahead of time that it's happening, because I can avoid my heaviest eye makeup & keep my hair natural. In fact, I really enjoy having my hair conditioned & my scalp massaged by a set of strong hands; me kneeling in the tub is an excellent way to make that happen! ;D

Regarding meaghan's comment on the soap issue? I had a similar issue in the shower not long ago, but I was by myself...because I have a bush. And, as a young lady of note once remarked "it's so soft!! And it smells like conditioner!!" because I would no sooner NOT condition it than I would not condition the hair on my head! That being said though? The Pureology conditioner with peppermint oil that makes my scalp tingle so intensely? A little TOO tingly for the bush...(live & learn!)

 

[UhOh]

Life would have been a lot different back in the brothel days of the wild west. Dusty drunk cowboys coming in smelling of horse and cattle. No condoms no mouthwash and maybe no shower that month.
Those were the good old days.