Perhaps a different perspective.

[sevenofnine]

If you look at excercise as just that excercise a work out your screwed,
Its always going to be a sruggle and a effort and end up giving up.
Its a way of life.
Health fitness is a way of life.



And related to this hobby,
You look at a women in this or her advertizement, and you see her as just someone or some thing to fuck,
It is so wrong and in the end you will be dissapointed.

I saw a women recently besides the sp, I presently see
and she was someone I wanted to meet.
She sounded like a very interesting women nothing but class nothing but dignity, I was aware of her for years and we bumped into each other on the web and said hello,
But simply a very class act,

I wanted to meet her, the women.
and she was kind enough to let me.

She is a women, who just happens to be an escort.
And very interesting and very amazing, and was nice enough to let me meet her and use her services.


You look at is as she is a women first, some one I would want to meet, as opposed to some one to just fuck,
Sex is secondary,
I am a guy and she is an escort so of course its going to happen,

But want to meet the women first put the women ahead of her being an escort.

Your dissappointments will be few and far between.

 

[Man in Submission]

There is much hope for you sevenofnine. It is heartening to see more and more of our gender evolving. Women are truly a blessing and should be first and foremost respected and appreciated. I believe you are taking a very wise and compassionate approach.

 

[johnsmit]

Yes that is how i allways have looked at women in this business..
First i want to see them... as a person of intrest..some one i find interesting....from their pictures... online presents..and adverting...And that is how i approch any meeting....And i guess that is why .i have been friends with msny of the ladies i have meet through the years....
It never been just about what can i get... but what can i give.. because i appresiate you as a person that
i enjoy knowing

 

[AA_Train]

Like with anybody I am doing business with it is ultimately more enjoyable if you like the person but mostly I'm looking for somebody who fits my physical and sexual tastes, as well as some I know is genuine, reputable and reliable. I've found most ladies I have met pretty easy to like but for the most part my motivation to see them is mainly sexual. That tends to balance out a bit after more encounters but when it comes to my selection process, I usually let my penis do most of the picking.

 

[BORKO]

What's wrong with just wanting to fuck escorts? Sex is awesome.

 

[AA_Train]

What's wrong with just wanting to fuck escorts? Sex is awesome.

Nothing at all, although one could argue that such sex would be better if you like the lady. We all have different needs and desires and it is up to the lady to determine if she can meet your needs or if it would be better to look elsewhere. If she feels she can, it is up to her to provide the best possible experience for that client.

 

[Pacific Coast]

Treating woman as a piece of meat is the raison d'être for PERB Seven. Your thoughts may be a "different perspective" for most Perberts, but for those of us who treat people as other human beings, your "different perspective" is a way of life. If you really think it is a different perspective, perhaps you've spent too much time on PERB.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Nothing at all, although one could argue that such sex would be better if you like the lady. We all have different needs and desires and it is up to the lady to determine if she can meet your needs or if it would be better to look elsewhere. If she feels she can, it is up to her to provide the best possible experience for that client.

While I always strive to provide the best possible experience, I'm not a mind-reader. Every once in a while, I'm still surprised. Like, wow, he's still calling, after almost 100 visits...? :nod:

 

[sevenofnine]

Will I repeat,


I don't think its any special revelation,
I don't think its the norm either.

I think most people go to gym's and work out,
when, it should be a way of life.
gym health is something perpetuated by the world health clubs of the world and late night tv stair master bow reflex advertizements. Its a myth.


I think men or a lot of men see the women in this has well a sex object.
I think women in this tend to sell them self as sex objects.
One women her ad consisted of nothing more then a close up of her pussy with a caption wet and ready.

And to be honest its the fault well of the industry,
When your selling your self of several hundred dollars an hour, who wants friendship or anything.
who can afford it.

Trust me sex is cheap, any sort of friendship or relationship with an sp costs a hell of a lot more.
I think its kind of the norm I pay several hundred bucks for a few mintues with a women, I want the goods. To hell with making nice,
we or most of us only pay lip service to nice and respect.

Just my opinion,


Will I repeat,
she asked me if we could keep in touch.

 

[sevenofnine]

If you hang around marathons or iron man competitions,
You realize that people drop dead with heart attacks.
Not rocket science.

You just have to look at people and at some point you just look dam unhealthy.


My point in all this, is that well struting around a gym a few hours a week does very little,
Most popular excercise's are designed to make you look good.

I remember watching a documentary when I was a kid about Charles Atlas I think it was so long ago he was winning all the world body building compititions, he couldn't run a block.

Drama queen, its a discussion board. were supposed to discuss, you want peace and quiet go to a library a church,

What the hell is up with that on a discussion board if you have an opinion and engage in debate, people don't like it.

 

[Moderator-1]

I just had to drop in here for a quick hello!
This is a good discussion waiting to turn bad.
Keep the mud-slinging down or we'll be back.

 

[sevenofnine]

Mindless repetitive excercise.
Is meditation prayer religion therapy.

George Harrison loved to escape and garden.
Steve Jobs the same I believe

A religious lady French they wanted to make her a saint the name escapes me.

She believed heaven can only be gotten through manual menial labor.

It burns away all your nervous excess energy it tires you,
When your tired physically and you have to focus your mind on some menial task.

All the buzz the noise the static the shit of the everyday world that you have to listen to fades away.
It really is therapy a form of medation not excercise.