payment up front

[cherise]

I agree with one of the previous posts that purchases should be paid in advance and services should be paid afterword ie lawyers accountants trades men etc. However due to the nature of the underground pooning industry and for the protection of the service provider payment should be received in cash prior to the beginning of the session. Most people understand this and generally don't have an issue with prepayment. Unfortunately there are sp's that don't keep their word. They will offer up what is "on the menu" and agree to a price only to tell you they are no longer "comfortable" giving you what was agreed upon. We have heard it all.."I don't kiss my clients.. I have a bf... I don't allow this on our first meeting" etc. These girls had no problem taking your money knowing most guys normally have no recourse with the law or due to the fact a lot of them may be married and it isn't worthwhile for them to fight it. It is only when these individuals have been "burnt" that these guys ask that payment be made at the end. Don't get me wrong, most girls are honest and upfront and do delivery on what's been agreed upon. It's too bad that the bad apples ruin it for everyone else!

it goes both ways... there are quite a few "bad apple" clients as well!
so the lady provides a service ,and he decides not to pay....what then? now she has essentially been raped!
and believe me ,this happens all too often

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I have a little alcove just inside my front door with a shelf and shelf light. In it sits a large ceramic bowl, jealously watched over by Kermit the Frog. I ask first time visitors to 'grace Kermit's bowl' before they follow me inside and up the stairs. Next time they visit, they know exactly what do do!

 

[Caramel]

what about all the countless reviews where guys are complaining how they paid upfront for an hour only to be time shorted to 20 minutes because they came already or that sudden change of all the rules and restrictions? you know promised dfk only to pay and find out oh it's no kissing. makes me leery to be honest. i prefer paying after.

lol if you see a proper lady, shes just being polite instead of pointing out your hot lunch breath and long beard!

 

[cherise]

lol if you see a proper lady, shes just being polite instead of pointing out your hot lunch breath and long beard!

lmfao:thumb:

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

lol if you see a proper lady, shes just being polite instead of pointing out your hot lunch breath and long beard!

LOL that's my new favourite phrase! And yes, 'would you like to use some mouthwash first?' means never having to say "Dear God! Your breath smells like feet!"...

 

[Man Mountain]

what about all the countless reviews where guys are complaining how they paid upfront for an hour only to be time shorted to 20 minutes because they came already or that sudden change of all the rules and restrictions? you know promised dfk only to pay and find out oh it's no kissing. makes me leery to be honest. i prefer paying after.

lol if you see a proper lady, shes just being polite instead of pointing out your hot lunch breath and long beard!

If a lady isn't comfortable kissing a client with a beard or a moustache, maybe she could note that in her advertisement. Then the men with beards and moustaches could make a more informed decision about whether or not they wish to visit that SP. As for the "hot lunch breath", as has been pointed out, a suggestion to the client to use some mouthwash before beginning. If you want to spare his feelings, you can simply claim that it is mandatory of all clients if they expect kissing in a session.

 

[greatgreeker]

half up front, half when job completed.

 

[cherise]

If a lady isn't comfortable kissing a client with a beard or a moustache, maybe she could note that in her advertisement. Then the men with beards and moustaches could make a more informed decision about whether or not they wish to visit that SP. As for the "hot lunch breath", as has been pointed out, a suggestion to the client to use some mouthwash before beginning. If you want to spare his feelings, you can simply claim that it is mandatory of all clients if they expect kissing in a session.

i don't think its about the beard per se....more about the things caught in it.
for me ,its the 5 o'clock shadow i have very sensitive skin and i don't want to suffer a red, raw, chafed face from sharp stubbles grinding away. if a gentleman expects dfk he should be groomed appropriately.

 

[Man Mountain]

i don't think its about the beard per se....more about the things caught in it.
for me ,its the 5 o'clock shadow i have very sensitive skin and i don't want to suffer a red, raw, chafed face from sharp stubbles grinding away. if a gentleman expects dfk he should be groomed appropriately.

That's fair. But your level of what you consider appropriate facial grooming for your client may not be the same as another lady. If a lady notes in her ads that she has skin that's too sensitive to engage in kissing a man either with a beard, or some amount of facial hair, then the potential client can decide if he's willing to go to the effort of shaving for that lady or looking elsewhere. (You'll have to forgive my current sensitivity to the topic at hand. Outside of those rare occasions when I decide to grow my beard for a while, I always make an effort to shave properly prior to a session -- which includes trimming my moustache. However, I always have a moustache and I've had particularly bad luck this year as almost every single lady I've seen this year has complained about sensitivity to my moustache making any kissing in a session a challenge at best to the point where sometimes I've just stopped bothering to try, which sucks for me since kissing is very important to me during a session /rant)

 

[cherise]

That's fair. But your level of what you consider appropriate facial grooming for your client may not be the same as another lady. If a lady notes in her ads that she has skin that's too sensitive to engage in kissing a man either with a beard, or some amount of facial hair, then the potential client can decide if he's willing to go to the effort of shaving for that lady or looking elsewhere. (You'll have to forgive my current sensitivity to the topic at hand. Outside of those rare occasions when I decide to grow my beard for a while, I always make an effort to shave properly prior to a session -- which includes trimming my moustache. However, I always have a moustache and I've had particularly bad luck this year as almost every single lady I've seen this year has complained about sensitivity to my moustache making any kissing in a session a challenge at best to the point where sometimes I've just stopped bothering to try, which sucks for me since kissing is very important to me during a session /rant)

really? i like moustaches they tickle

 

[Caramel]

That's fair. But your level of what you consider appropriate facial grooming for your client may not be the same as another lady. If a lady notes in her ads that she has skin that's too sensitive to engage in kissing a man either with a beard, or some amount of facial hair, then the potential client can decide if he's willing to go to the effort of shaving for that lady or looking elsewhere. (You'll have to forgive my current sensitivity to the topic at hand. Outside of those rare occasions when I decide to grow my beard for a while, I always make an effort to shave properly prior to a session -- which includes trimming my moustache. However, I always have a moustache and I've had particularly bad luck this year as almost every single lady I've seen this year has complained about sensitivity to my moustache making any kissing in a session a challenge at best to the point where sometimes I've just stopped bothering to try, which sucks for me since kissing is very important to me during a session /rant)

marketing suicide ...

 

[newton man]

Enough said. Drop the cash in an envelope. Seal it. Put it in plain view on the bed,or nightstand etc Then have fun. Set up another appointment, get more money REPEAT

Do not seal the envelope. Otherwise this is what should be done.

 

[rick hunter]

Enough said. Drop the cash in an envelope. Seal it. Put it in plain view on the bed,or nightstand etc Then have fun. Set up another appointment, get more money REPEAT

I totally agree with Badger, if you have such a problem paying up front then you're in the wrong hobby. I once had that happen in Montreal, some old Chinese guy tried to pay after the deed was done. The ladies told him to go get the money first. I don't put the money in the envelope unless it's asked in text or email. I just arrive and give them the money, that way neither side can accuse the other of giving/receiving the wrong amount.