payment up front
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thats why most indys wont accept credit cards or personal cheques; all too often a stop payment is placed by the pooner and the lady gets burned!
just recently an sp accepted an iphone5 as payment and after her client left he reported the phone stolen so she could not use it ..thats downright callous
just recently an sp accepted an iphone5 as payment and after her client left he reported the phone stolen so she could not use it ..thats downright callous
I usually pay up front. The only time I haven't is when we got distracted right away but I guess that means the SP was comfortable with me and wasn't worried about getting ripped off.
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westcoast555
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Take everything you read with a grain of salt .listen to the professionals pay up front or suffer unhappy penis syndrome
Yeah, from my research and what I read, it's good etiquette to pay up front. Put the donation in an envelope and place it cleary for the SP to see. One time though, the gal got into me right away and I totally forgot about the donation. She was kind of embarrassed and asked in the end, I was embarrassed too, apologized and paid. She was great. 
what about all the countless reviews where guys are complaining how they paid upfront for an hour only to be time shorted to 20 minutes because they came already or that sudden change of all the rules and restrictions? you know promised dfk only to pay and find out oh it's no kissing. makes me leery to be honest. i prefer paying after.
I HATE asking for the donation. Hate it. I know I am a lot more comfortable if I am paid upfront. If I am worried if I am going to get paid or not, I can't relax, and it affects my service.
I like that payment be placed on the table but not touched until the end of the session. I generally dont make an issue out of payment beforehand unless the client seems manipulative which almost NEVER happens as clients are generally the best behaved men I have ever encountered. If three is any issues about the session at the end then this can be discussed before payment is finalized. Obviously I want good clients to return so I will be more lenient about cancellations, lateness etc. If I find someone disrespectful or if the client is not someone I feel respects my boundaries I am unlikely to give any concessions . I have never had a client walk or ask for money back but if this happened Im sure the reasons for it should be clear. I have only had issues when I have been too lenient about my boundaries or have allowed a client to push me past my comfort level. I realize it's my responsibility to ensure there is no confusion. When I have been clear and am met with disrespect my best response is to not see the client again. Generallyu speaking if I do my part there is no cause for concern regarding payment timing
Haha..and vice versa" No Honey, no money."
Just joking. I respect all the sp.. They work hard to make money like everyone else.
I agree with one of the previous posts that purchases should be paid in advance and services should be paid afterword ie lawyers accountants trades men etc. However due to the nature of the underground pooning industry and for the protection of the service provider payment should be received in cash prior to the beginning of the session. Most people understand this and generally don't have an issue with prepayment. Unfortunately there are sp's that don't keep their word. They will offer up what is "on the menu" and agree to a price only to tell you they are no longer "comfortable" giving you what was agreed upon. We have heard it all.."I don't kiss my clients.. I have a bf... I don't allow this on our first meeting" etc. These girls had no problem taking your money knowing most guys normally have no recourse with the law or due to the fact a lot of them may be married and it isn't worthwhile for them to fight it. It is only when these individuals have been "burnt" that these guys ask that payment be made at the end. Don't get me wrong, most girls are honest and upfront and do delivery on what's been agreed upon. It's too bad that the bad apples ruin it for everyone else!
