Participation

[BRO]

Hi everyone,

I'm looking to participate for the first time and would like my first experiences to be with a highly reputable lady. However, I'm unable to meet with reputable SP's without a reference from another reputable SP, who in turn needs a reference from a reputable SP etc...How can I assure comfort and safety without ever having actually participated?

Thanks!

 

[clu]

Offer to pay to meet in public for a get to know you interview?

 

[UhOh]

Keep scratching names and move on down the list until you find one a little less reputable. You're not looking to date them so kick some tires and take a look under the hood. As long as everything looks to be in proper running condition you're good to go.
You looking for a sporty model or something a bit more heavy duty?

 

[Rufus T. Firefly]

I seen lots of amazing ladies without ever seeing one who required a reference (other than one in the US).

Do your research here. There is a lot of choice among very well reputed women who don't need a reference.

 

[poonerboi]

What are your preferences? age ,weight,nationality etc.

 

[1nitestan]

You gotta slay a lot of dragons to find a princess. - that's always been true in dating and now in the sex trade. Honestly if it's your very first time, it's really not gonna matter who you see (within reason) because you won't have a baseline to gauge quality of service anyway.

Regarding providers who only see clients who've seen their friends. Look at it this way. Such a provider isn't gonna be comfortable with a complete stranger so she won't be able to give him the kind of service he deserves. Do you really want to dump a load of cash for less than stellar service? There are plenty of providers in this town who will give their 100% best regardless if you're a regular or a first time client. Not all of them have pro photographers or slick websites. I've been out of the game for a few years but when I was active I could say that my best experiences were with the hidden gems.

 

[sevenofnine]

post a lot,
I don't think I ever used a reference, I guess once,

most ladies will check your posting history, that is either a good thing or a bad thing,
I have had ladies look at my history and say I'm weird, and others messaging me asking to see me.
so it works both ways.


its hard when your a newbi , more so now then when I was new, I mean I saw two of the icons in the industry, the best, and didn't need a reference way back when.

I can't be bothered now for a reference, wouldn't give one. I guess its a safety issue for the ladies I get that,
but I have seen a few flakey girls. to be honest with you too.

so we both should have to have references and a checkable history in my opinion.

 

[Man Mountain]

You gotta slay a lot of dragons to find a princess. - that's always been true in dating and now in the sex trade.

There are plenty of providers in this town who will give their 100% best regardless if you're a regular or a first time client. Not all of them have pro photographers or slick websites. I've been out of the game for a few years but when I was active I could say that my best experiences were with the hidden gems.

Those gems are FAAAAAR fewer and further between now than even a couple of years ago. You probably got out just before the steep decline in the local scene. It's nowhere near what it used to be...

(Nice to see you still posting once in a while though. Hope you're well )

EDIT for levity:

You gotta slay a lot of dragons to find a princess.