Pampering an SP

[Markl]

What would you do, to pay back your favourite SP by giving her a session of just pampering her?

Ladies can chime in on this, on what they would like.
Something luxurious and relaxing, but done by the client.

Some food they wouldn't normally indulge in because high in calories is obvious.
Reverse massage.

What else?

 

[overdone]

Abide by the conditions of the restraining order.

 

[Markl]

Sigh. Spoken like the asshole you must really be overdone.

Try to do something nice for someone else, and the idiot comes out of the wormwood. Get a life and piss off.

Thanks, and bye bye little man.

 

[69guy]

Markl you mean to say you have never actually gone and seen your ATF and made the session about her as well?

as for your question. i for one am not willing to share what i would do or have done to pamper an SP.

 

[HB40]

What would you do, to pay back your favourite SP by giving her a session of just pampering her?

I don't really understand the question. Don't all the guys do some sort of pampering during sessions? I always do, if not my sessions would be over in 10 minutes.

I think it's just a matter of being attentive. I try to remember particular things they might have liked or commented on and do that again. Sessions are extra special when it's personalized in some way, I often like to bring music that a girl would like and a few times made them mixed CD's. I also pay attention to things they say on the boards, recently a special lady inquired about foot preferences so when I saw her I started by focusing on her feet, she seemed to really like that and appreciated the effort.

I like to put some thought into gifts as well. Sometimes it's as simple as putting the donation in a card with something special written to her, or getting something in particular from her gift suggestions, one girl likes apples so I got one of every type I could find and a candied one for good measure. One lady told me her favourite colour once, I got her something she needed and if she was expecting it the fact it was in her fave colour made it a little more surprising. I know one girls favourite type of animal, I think with Halloween coming I can dress up as a big furry animal and really make her happy.

I am planning something that hopefully is the ultimate in pampering, if it goes over well I may try to incorporate it into little pampering treats I can do locally.

I think pampering is something ingrained in my personality, it makes me happy to see people smile. The selfish side of it is I hope it makes the girls think of me later, I relive the memories all the time, one spontaneous smile if I pop into her head is all I wish for.

 

[blazejowski]

That's a hard thing for me to do, as I rarely see the same girl twice, but I have given gifts from time to time.... as selfish as it sounds, I am paying her to get my rocks off, so unfortunately sometimes it *has* to be about me... but that doesn't mean I am not attentive to what she's reacting to....

 

[overdone]

Sigh. Spoken like the asshole you must really be overdone.

Try to do something nice for someone else, and the idiot comes out of the wormwood. Get a life and piss off.

Thanks, and bye bye little man.

I have a life mark (and an IQ above my age) that's why I don't need to ask a bunch of strangers how to treat someone nice that I like.

You hurt my feeling btw, oh no wait, my mistake that was just indigestion.

 

[shyboy123]

Abide by the conditions of the restraining order.

Not in anyway a helpful post, but that made me laugh out loud

I would suggest reflecting on past encounters and conversations with her and try to be thoughtful about it. Gifts and pampering are the best when it shows you have paid attention. Anyone can bring chocolates or rub feet. Why don't you surprise her with a jacuzzi bubble bath with candles, soft music, chocolate strawberries, champagne etc. Then give her a nice full body massage. That sounds more like a date, don't forget to pay her first. Seriously though just ask what she likes first so you are closer to the mark, and my advice would be to try not to do anything over the top that makes her uncomfortable that you are hoping to change the relationship instead of just showing you appreciate her (hence overdone's comment).

 

[Lilithlovesme]

You're on the right track there Mark...

Bring in a bottle of good champagne (or whatever her beverage of choice may be) and dedicate yourself to making her feel good. Make sure to let her know that you do not expect anything for yourself out of this session so that she can just relax. Give her a nice long massage and then just hang out and chat while sipping champagne and eating strawberries.

But, the fact remains that she will still be at work and no matter how hard you try, it's hard for a girl to get her head out of 'work space' when she's at work. A better idea would be to get her a gift certificate to a spa so that she can truly relax on her own time. If you are a man of means and you really want to suprise and impress her, book her for the day, and then send her to a spa that you have already prebooked for her.

Whatever you choose to do for her, I'm sure she will appreciate the thought that went into it and feel special because you went to some effort for her.

 

[Lilithlovesme]

Well, Lilith, Supreme Spa is a mere stone's throw away from High Voltage Donairs . . . we can book a table by the window . . . .

Alrighty, but you have to buy me a falafel. I don't do donairs.

 

[funnyfunguy]

Recepe for felafel.

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Falafel is a healthy, vegetarian-friendly meal from the Middle East and Mediterranean. It can be enjoyed alone with a dipping sauce or as a filling for a sandwich or wrap. Falafel is made with chickpeas and spices and can be made ahead of time for easy preparation. If you're looking for a meat-free lunch or snack, here's how to make a tasty falafel sandwich.

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Difficulty: EasyInstructionsThings You'll Need:
1 pita bread round
1 medium tomato
1/2 yellow onion
1 teaspoon fresh parsley
1 teaspoon sandwich pickle
2 tablespoons tahini
6 small falafel balls
2 tablespoons olive oil
Step 1Prepare the pita bread. Heat the oil in a small frying pan and heat the pita bread until lightly brown. Set on paper towel and cut in half.

Step 2Stuff the pita pockets with vegetables. Stuff each pita pocket with chopped onions, tomato and parsley.

Step 3Add the falafel. Place three falafel balls inside each pita pocket

 

[funnyfunguy]

Glad you had a good time HB40.

I picked up a few things that should make it memorable. Got some body lotion, etc, etc.. candles, treats, a glow stick :0 and few other "trinkets."

you can apply the lotion onto an uncooked donair, then wrap the donair around your cock, put the glow stick at the open end and have a romantic dinner by candlelight. yum. just don't let the candle set the donair afire. That might probably hurt.

 

[wolverine]

My very presence should make an SP feel special!
But seriously....

For special occasions like Christmas or Valentines I might bring in a small bottle of champagne (Moet or similar) or a box of Callebaut chocolates. But with any session, pleasuring an appreciative lady is what gets my juices flowing. It's the reciprocation and interaction that makes a session great.

 

[JustJess]

But, the fact remains that she will still be at work and no matter how hard you try, it's hard for a girl to get her head out of 'work space' when she's at work.

Whatever you choose to do for her, I'm sure she will appreciate the thought that went into it and feel special because you went to some effort for her.

I disagree with the first comment...I have a regular, that goes far beyond 'work' and that's the friendship we have created and nourished. And that's also what makes every time amazing.

However, I totally agree with the second comment....it's the little things that count....like green-coloured envelopes (silly private joke)

 

[Markl]

Session went great. I spoiled and pampered her. Massaged her for 30 mins. She was very relaxed and contented and enjoyed the time. I know she appreciated it.

Doesn't get better than that.

 

[funnyfunguy]

The best falafels in E-town are at Marco's Famous on Whyte Ave. Any other falafels from any other establishment are not worthy. Marco's falafels are the only falafels I eat.

sorry, gotta disagree. Queen's Donairs on 99 street have the absolute best.

 

[noddy]

present

birthday present for a girl visiting from Victoria... an hour session with Nikita... then I got to go in and join her, and Nikita left... I got quite a welcome that night!!
Also got Honey a duo session for her birthday, with Nikita... that went well enough that we came back later the same week for round two... that was one of the best duo's I've enjoyed!!