Likely I have watched less than many others.
Just as I visit with an SP for different reasons than maybe most others.
What to me is interesting is how some think sex should not be discussed, and I am more the type to say why not talk about it openly.
I'm single, not fat, not hideous looking, funny and charming so I've been told by many women. I get asked out occasionally, am darn sure that I could have sex with a non sp easily enough, and have.
Its not like I am 50 or 60 so many think geez damn he is old.
I can have a good discussion on many topics, do well in social and business gatherings.
So why do i prefer an sp.
No headaches (usually )or way worse heartaches.
Without going into details I have loved very deeply twice, and was married to one of them. Both died way too young, and I have not really ever gotten over either one of them.
I like women, and I enjoy nice tender sex.
I'm not sure my heart though is available for a third true love.
More than anything else i am scared to love with all my being again.
Maybe someday I could again.
But for now I would worry every time they left that they might not return.
I am just not capable of doing that again.
My point is that not all clients go because they want to do odd things, or are highly influenced by porn.
Yes a bit off topic, but I think some ( not us who joined perb but outsiders ) maybe think we are weird and super kinky is why we see an sp.
Or that we are troll like and no woman if not paid would ever be interested in us.
Actually I think its just the opposite.
My gut says if we all met most of us would seem like regular every day guys.
But we partake of this hobby for some reason or other, and most reasons are probably not because we are sick Fing Aholes...we just do.
I'll be the first to admit i don't get the hobbies of most people though.
But anything if taken in excessive amounts is probably bad, be it burgers, porn, or wine.
Just as I visit with an SP for different reasons than maybe most others.
What to me is interesting is how some think sex should not be discussed, and I am more the type to say why not talk about it openly.
I'm single, not fat, not hideous looking, funny and charming so I've been told by many women. I get asked out occasionally, am darn sure that I could have sex with a non sp easily enough, and have.
Its not like I am 50 or 60 so many think geez damn he is old.
I can have a good discussion on many topics, do well in social and business gatherings.
So why do i prefer an sp.
No headaches (usually )or way worse heartaches.
Without going into details I have loved very deeply twice, and was married to one of them. Both died way too young, and I have not really ever gotten over either one of them.
I like women, and I enjoy nice tender sex.
I'm not sure my heart though is available for a third true love.
More than anything else i am scared to love with all my being again.
Maybe someday I could again.
But for now I would worry every time they left that they might not return.
I am just not capable of doing that again.
My point is that not all clients go because they want to do odd things, or are highly influenced by porn.
Yes a bit off topic, but I think some ( not us who joined perb but outsiders ) maybe think we are weird and super kinky is why we see an sp.
Or that we are troll like and no woman if not paid would ever be interested in us.
Actually I think its just the opposite.
My gut says if we all met most of us would seem like regular every day guys.
But we partake of this hobby for some reason or other, and most reasons are probably not because we are sick Fing Aholes...we just do.
I'll be the first to admit i don't get the hobbies of most people though.
But anything if taken in excessive amounts is probably bad, be it burgers, porn, or wine.
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