I have this theory that if you objectively think about it sex is overrated about 75% of the time. The problem is when it is good, it so fucking good that it builds the expectation that it can or be mind blowing good every time and keeps us on the hunt for more. I know even when it's bad it's still alright but I also think many times we build this picture in our heads of what it should be and usually isn't but sometimes is or even surpasses that. I blame TV and Porn for alot of this. Or maybe it's just me. Thoughts?
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That's definitely the speed that I enjoy most. Maybe not "super slow" but I do prefer to begin with slow and sensual and build up the tempo as we go.
Dude, I came to the conclusion that sex is overrated 20 years ago.
The macho dumabass reply by a meathead would be "oh, you've never had good sex", but the thing is, I have. Its not that sex isn't a great thing, it's just that it's put on this pedastle as the end-all-be-all. The commercialization, the constant selling of sex (or more accurately, using sex to sell), the hype, the talk, the attention on it. Nothing can live up to that expectation/pressure. Nothing.
I tell ya this, if I'm compiling the greatest fun moments of my life, sexual encounters wouldn't make up the bulk of them. And every time I come out of a session with an SP, I always think "was that really worth XXXX dollars", and the answer is usually no. 1 hour with a fav SP = 200 say (plus or minus). For that, I can spring for about 4 trips to a Cactus Club with a good buddy or two having some food and some cold beers. And that will always be better "bang for the buck" (pardon the pun).
I still do see SPs of course, and I still try and nail my wife as often as I can get away with (sex is important to me, and she floats my boat big time), but perspective helps a lot.
it is overrated because it is driven by hormones. It is controlled by that little thingy down below the pelvis, its basically a need that need to be satisfied (for most men, its a everyday thing , what a hassle). When it's great is when you first get together with your girlfriend or wife when there is actually a bond being created there, but after a few times, it goes back to as tension release.
I blame the hormones for the most part. The urge is so great. Like when you see a really sexy girl on the street and all you can think of is getting her to bed. Of course, the intensity of the urge never matches up the the pleasure you get from having sex with her, and not even close.
I still havent talked about what you gotta do to get girl to bed in this modern world. The effort, the time, the money you name it.
The hormone induced urge and all the stuff you had to go through i mentioned above. Does all that justify the pleasure you get from sex, not even close.
I blame the hormones for the most part. The urge is so great. Like when you see a really sexy girl on the street and all you can think of is getting her to bed. Of course, the intensity of the urge never matches up the the pleasure you get from having sex with her, and not even close.
I still havent talked about what you gotta do to get girl to bed in this modern world. The effort, the time, the money you name it.
The hormone induced urge and all the stuff you had to go through i mentioned above. Does all that justify the pleasure you get from sex, not even close.
