over nights

[cheesyname]

what kind of things do people expect to do during over nights? I understand 3-4 releases are expected, but i mean in the way of entertainment? do you want to play a board game? cuddle and watch a movie (with a mid interruption ), talk? I really don't know but I dont want either of us to get board either.

 

[bcneil]

Its actually a good question. Maybe if its at your place, have her clean the place? Maybe if she can cook, make a nice meal?

 

[steverino]

I have never participated in an overnight, or anything over an hour, but I recall in threads past that ladies will often specify how much non-contact time (e.g., sleep) they expect to get.

 

[jon6491]

Twister would be more fun than board games.
I think it really depends on the guy and what they envision the night to be like... and I belive that the OP is asking from an escort's persective.

 

[nd1]

What inspired you to book the overnight? Is it that you just want to bang her all night? Or is it that you enjoy banging her but often times run out of time to do so during regular appointments because you ALSO enjoy talking to her? The answer to that question more determines how your evening should go. For example, if she's someone you really enjoy talking to and then banging take her out somewhere nice and have a leisurely time. Then go back to your hotel, and make sure she knows its not time to talk anymore.

If you only booked her for sex, just make sure to have lots of light snacks on hand, and yeah maybe a movie to watch. But be clear it's a night spent IN.

Ugh, I think it's the other way round, that Meggi is BEING BOOKED for an overnighter -- something that is on my wish list -- by some lucky bastard and, not having done it before, wants to know what to expect and/or how to set the expectation.

 

[Dickson]

Personally I love overnights and enjoy the experience. Usually we will go for a nice dinner then out for a walk and talk. Then out for a few drinks before she seduces me back to the hotel. I like it when she tells me she wants me and asks if she can stay with me. Sometimes we will get down and dirty. Like MJ who can go all night but have lots of lub and be prepared to give it in all her love holes.

Other times I get a kick out of the SP when she is done she will get dressed pretend to leave and come back to the suite and crawl into bed next to me telling me she can't leave me. We have wild sex then a hot bath or a shower before heading back in to bed. I love it when I am sleeping and she get up close and whisper things in my ear. I enjoy waking up with someone next to me. Going out and getting her coffee or breakfast in bed. Having her want me more.

For me it is the whole experience like we are married and she is totally into me. Remember I am different than many of the guys on here. I have never been married so I crave that. I have loved my over nights with Mya, MJ, Dr Kelly, Jenna, Rio, Ashley etc.... Others from other cities as well I will not include here as they are not in Vancouver.

However becareful I normally do not do overnights with ladies I see for the first time unless we have a meet and greet before hand. Other wise it can be a huge disaster. Ie Pamela Lee for example. Now that can be a nightmare if they tell you to go to sleep or to leave them alone. Stop rocking the bed. I hate that. I am paying. Oh oh I know some guys are going to get pissed over that comment. Sorry.

 

[steverino]

Dickson, do you send them a script ahead of time? How do you pass along the information so they know what role they are to play?

 

[Dickson]

Dickson, do you send them a script ahead of time? How do you pass along the information so they know what role they are to play?

We will discuss it over dinner or drinks. I like them to share thier fantasies and I share mine or some of my experiences. One of the hotels I say at has a private Garden on the roof and sometimes we walk there and share experiences that got her hot or go me hot and we expand on them. Sometimes I have a very clear role I want them to play and I will send it to them but you got to give them the flexibility to be themself or it just does not work. I learned not to have too big an expectation. I like them to get into it.

Recently a lady I was wanted to be a Bond girl so I had her meet me at a hotel in the lounge wearing the black dress and coat I bought her with the boots. She had thought we were just going for dinner. I sat in the back in a corner where she could not see me and had asked her to meet me and sit at the bar. I had given the bartender a few bucks to give her a message to meet me in the lobby. When she went to the lobby. I followed so she did not see me and I had paid the bell man to give her a envelope that had a phone in it and I called her and told her I was in the suite but she needed to go outside sit in the bench for 5 minutes and the come back in making sure no one follows her by going to the 10th floor get off and go up a flight of stairs the take the elevator to the 23rd floor and my suite. In the envelop is the key to the suite. I of course made my way up stairs and in the room.

When she enters she sees a bottle of champaine on ice and two glasses with a card with her name on it. She opens it and reads it telling her to go in the bed room. When she opens the door she sees an candle lite room with a dozen roses on the bed with a red night gown on the bed and a card with her name on it. It tells her to get the night gown on and to go into the bathrooom. When she opens the door I turn on the music and she sees the candles and I turn on the hot tub for her.

She said that was like the best event yet. It was a blast having her decribe it to me and what she was thinking. That is the closest I get to a script. I tryied to get them to follow a specific script. But it never worked. They try but they don't get the feelings I want.

 

[*emmanuelle]

She thought we were going for dinner...When she opens the door she sees an candle lite room with a dozen roses on the bed with a red night gown on the bed

What if she was really hungry though??? Lol

 

[badbadboy]

I've done numerous overnights in downtown Vancouver hotels, in Victoria and a few multi night holidays in BC to the Okanagan, Gulf Islands and the Sunshine coast.

Big thing is not to have a script but to go with the flow. We always planned activities away from the hotel, exploring the countryside and did some retail therapy too. One trip that burnt Hunka's butt was when I told him I cleaned out the wine store at Burrrowing Owl ound:

We averaged 3 - 4 releases a day sometimes more and sometimes it was the lady who instigated it by saying "BBB, I think we should f**k some more ".

Worth every penny IMHO between the nice places we stayed at and the fine dining plus the SP's donation for the time away from her Vancouver cliental.

Your life is really a great collection of memories and I have collected some great ones while traveling with a SP. :thumb:

 

[Ms.Lolita Monroe]

My motto has always, and will always be this: "It's your time. We can spend it however you'd like". I make killer smores.

I couldn't agree more! Your time, you tell me what you would like to do

I like when guys tell me beforehand what they are expecting out of the overnighter so that I can go prepared and give him the best experience ever. Also for overnighters I prefer the guy to be a regular of mine and someone I get along with. My fave overnighter was in whistler (it was more of a weekend thing). He is one of my favorite clients and someone I have tonnes of fun with. We went out for dinner and drinks to araxi and then hit up tommy africas and once we were back at his condo it was like from the movies ... we started making out in the elevator like crazy and barely made it to our hotel room lol. It was a heated session for sure , after that we ended up in the hot tub ... drank wine and smoked ... it was a outdoor hot tub so it was quite nice and second round started off there ... rest of the night was just chilling, talking.. lots of talking, we played some xbox(yes he travels with it lol). Some more sex and then we cuddled and passed out ... barely got 2hours of sleep and he gave me breakfast on the bed in the morning ... i thought that was sweet ... I love overnighters with my favorites!

I personally think some guys do book and appointment with the intention of banging all night but most of them cant keep up lol

Even in my civilian life I met only one guy who came multiple times and got it up right after from 4am-1pm! wow what a night!

 

[sevenofnine]

I have never had an over nighter, most of the evening, its nice, super in or out relax a stroll in the park. Some fun time,
For me an over nighter would be nice because for some reason first thing in the morning Im actually the most aroused, I think that is when hormones peak.
Right around six in the morning would be nice.

 

[cheesyname]

Thank you everyone for all your wonderful experiences! I am really looking forward to being booked for this.
I'm considering calling Melina to pamper me with some sexy times, for a change

 

[yazoo]

I love overnights. If the SP is hot, and you are out having fun on the town, and you are watching that ass walking in front of you knowing that in a couple of hours you are going to get some... the psychology is a major part of it.

Also, I just love waking up next to a naked sexy chick whom I just met. For me, it is usually only one maybe two pops at night, and once in the morning, but it is the GFE that is the big difference.

That crazy in love feeling is hard to simulate in a 45 minute session - it seems so artificial, but when it is an overnight everything is much more natural. And zero clockwatching. I actually finish faster when I am not partially obsessed with timing.

 

[blazejowski]

What makes them killer?

Ummm, maybe because a gorgeous, large breasted brunette is making them for you??

 

[Dickson]

I love overnights. If the SP is hot, and you are out having fun on the town, and you are watching that ass walking in front of you knowing that in a couple of hours you are going to get some... the psychology is a major part of it.

Also, I just love waking up next to a naked sexy chick whom I just met. For me, it is usually only one maybe two pops at night, and once in the morning, but it is the GFE that is the big difference.

That crazy in love feeling is hard to simulate in a 45 minute session - it seems so artificial, but when it is an overnight everything is much more natural. And zero clockwatching. I actually finish faster when I am not partially obsessed with timing.

Bamg on Yazoo!!! Those are my feelings as well. For me the one hour is just a meet or greet for the bigger event. But you got to connect.

 

[Dickson]

I've done numerous overnights in downtown Vancouver hotels, in Victoria and a few multi night holidays in BC to the Okanagan, Gulf Islands and the Sunshine coast.

Big thing is not to have a script but to go with the flow. We always planned activities away from the hotel, exploring the countryside and did some retail therapy too. One trip that burnt Hunka's butt was when I told him I cleaned out the wine store at Burrrowing Owl ound:

We averaged 3 - 4 releases a day sometimes more and sometimes it was the lady who instigated it by saying "BBB, I think we should f**k some more ".

Worth every penny IMHO between the nice places we stayed at and the fine dining plus the SP's donation for the time away from her Vancouver cliental.

Your life is really a great collection of memories and I have collected some great ones while traveling with a SP. :thumb:

So glad too hear I am not the only one. Maybe these are more common than I thought.

 

[Dickson]

I wish I'd met you a few years ago when I still had the energy to do sessions like that! LOL

Believe me you are never too old to have a good time. I don't think I have the energy but when it comes it cums. One of these nights if I make it back to BC maybe we can do dinner again but this time we can extend the date. I have thought about lavishing you with a number of special gifts for a very special lady. I like doing things for SPs who appreciate it o at least make me believe they do.

I often wonder if the ladies I have done things with ever remember those events or if they get so many that the event fades with them. Like the night with Taylor Heaven or Ashley Lawence going shopping. Or Jenna in Las Vegas, Or Rio in LA or NYC. Ir April in TO. Maybe they just try and forget. I don't know but for me those are the memories I remember.

Funny but it is not so much about the sex that is fyn but the memories of being together and feeling like just falling in love that I remember.

 

[Dickson]

What if she was really hungry though??? Lol

Ms St Claire after the hot tub and dressing each other we did go for dinner. We laught all though dinner talking about the next adventure. She wants to do a similar thing for me but in a mall where she will follow me and seduce me in different stores. It should be a blast.

But we did do dinner I was not going to let her leave hungry.

 

[Holly Taylor]

We will discuss it over dinner or drinks. I like them to share thier fantasies and I share mine or some of my experiences. One of the hotels I say at has a private Garden on the roof and sometimes we walk there and share experiences that got her hot or go me hot and we expand on them. Sometimes I have a very clear role I want them to play and I will send it to them but you got to give them the flexibility to be themself or it just does not work. I learned not to have too big an expectation. I like them to get into it.

I completely agree. Guidelines are good, but hard expectations can leave people feeling disappointed. Unless you've done a lot of fantasy play with the same person, you don't necessarily know how they will act, what they will feel, what you will feel, and how it will go. It is very wise to give someone a clear idea of what you're looking for, and leave some room to be flexible.

It's good that you want your partner to enjoy herself too. I think that's a clear win/win situation.

Recently a lady I was wanted to be a Bond girl so I had her meet me at a hotel in the lounge wearing the black dress and coat I bought her with the boots. She had thought we were just going for dinner. I sat in the back in a corner where she could not see me and had asked her to meet me and sit at the bar. I had given the bartender a few bucks to give her a message to meet me in the lobby. When she went to the lobby. I followed so she did not see me and I had paid the bell man to give her a envelope that had a phone in it and I called her and told her I was in the suite but she needed to go outside sit in the bench for 5 minutes and the come back in making sure no one follows her by going to the 10th floor get off and go up a flight of stairs the take the elevator to the 23rd floor and my suite. In the envelop is the key to the suite. I of course made my way up stairs and in the room.

When she enters she sees a bottle of champaine on ice and two glasses with a card with her name on it. She opens it and reads it telling her to go in the bed room. When she opens the door she sees an candle lite room with a dozen roses on the bed with a red night gown on the bed and a card with her name on it. It tells her to get the night gown on and to go into the bathrooom. When she opens the door I turn on the music and she sees the candles and I turn on the hot tub for her.

She said that was like the best event yet.

How fun for her to be able to live out a fantasy like that! If someone asked me what my fantasy was, I don't think "Bond Girl" would even occur to me. It's interesting how different people are in their fantasies and desires.