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Can you still come when you're not hard? Is this an amazing thing I've been missing out on? Someone just mentioned it in another thread PLEASE TELL ME MORE. What would be a tasteful way to go about asking about this in a session? I love making guys come if they want to, would be happy to do it if they weren't hard.

TELL ME EVERYTHING IMMEDIATELY HOW DO I NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS
 

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HEY GUYS OMG
Can you still come when you're not hard? Is this an amazing thing I've been missing out on? Someone just mentioned it in another thread PLEASE TELL ME MORE. What would be a tasteful way to go about asking about this in a session? I love making guys come if they want to, would be happy to do it if they weren't hard.

TELL ME EVERYTHING IMMEDIATELY HOW DO I NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS
As far as tasteful way of offering during a session.. Well I guess I could volunteer
Ha
A willing partner that is happy to play along for the 'experiment' is my biggest trigger

My past experiences have been very pleasurable.. The 2 ingredients is a bit of time and a woman that understands her technique can't be typical 'stroking' or 'head bobbing'
Since the penis skin is not taut from a full erection more gentle rhythmic licking or oiled thumb sliding around the head has worked for me.
Altho I can't say 'soft' is the correct description.. More like 'chubby' / firm lol
The orgasm ( mine anyway) tends to be shorter and less ejaculation but a fantastic slow build up pre orgasm.
 
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For myself...it’s the rare second round.
When she’s really hot, and super comfortable with me, and the first time possibly wasn’t as strong as normal for me, I can have a “ soft on” orgasm the second time, but it does not happen very often.
When it does....it happens pretty fast, and I need full cooperation from her, and I need to find her completely attractive in every way.
 
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Kikoolol

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It happened to me when I had porn induced erectile disfunction. Now that I stopped watching porn, it doesn't happen anymore.
I've heard that it's possible to cum from p-spot massage, but I've never experienced it myself. Though I had dry orgasms that way.
 
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I've definitely experienced these, but always only on my own. I honestly doubt it would ever happen in the presence of a companion. Of course as with most things sex-related, it would be fun to experiment. :D

More specifically, I can make these happen on my own when I want the relief very quickly. For me they're a poor substitute for "the real thing".
 
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Kikoolol

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Also I forgot but I felt like shit when it happened. The whole point of sex with a partner is to give pleasure to your partner and I felt like I was letting her down big time.
 

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My exact last session. I was embarrased about it but was made comfortable by supportive words. It was my second shot (msog) though. Couldn’t get hard but was quite enamoured by the beauty in front of me, so I slipped the rubber and it inside. Was still soft and I came as well. Now recalling that made me hard :).

Then there are times when I am massaging my prostate, and cum hands free while still soft.

May be it was me you were talking about. You can ask any way you can to me. Won’t mind ;).
 
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Yupe all of the above.
Sometimes like said above, turgid enough to splint it in with a finger. Butt sometimes haveta break a popsicle stick in half and splint it properly. Being a semidecent guy I always put the splintery ends down
 
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Can you still come when you're not hard? Is this an amazing thing I've been missing out on? Someone just mentioned it in another thread PLEASE TELL ME MORE. What would be a tasteful way to go about asking about this in a session? I love making guys come if they want to, would be happy to do it if they weren't hard.

TELL ME EVERYTHING IMMEDIATELY HOW DO I NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS
Yes. But I expect a discount.
 
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It happened to me when I had porn induced erectile disfunction. Now that I stopped watching porn, it doesn't happen anymore.
I've heard that it's possible to cum from p-spot massage, but I've never experienced it myself. Though I had dry orgasms that way.
what's the p spot!?!?!?!?
 

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As far as tasteful way of offering during a session.. Well I guess I could volunteer
Ha
A willing partner that is happy to play along for the 'experiment' is my biggest trigger

My past experiences have been very pleasurable.. The 2 ingredients is a bit of time and a woman that understands her technique can't be typical 'stroking' or 'head bobbing'
Since the penis skin is not taut from a full erection more gentle rhythmic licking or oiled thumb sliding around the head has worked for me.
Altho I can't say 'soft' is the correct description.. More like 'chubby' / firm lol
The orgasm ( mine anyway) tends to be shorter and less ejaculation but a fantastic slow build up pre orgasm.
As a guy in his 60's I sometimes have trouble getting it up, even with the assistance of a blue pill. However, if my partner is skilled and gives a good BJ, as described by Azul above, I have no difficulty cuming while soft. Its all about the attitude and skill of my partner.
 
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