Orgasms - negative effects?

[skycrush99]

If I’m fortunate to give a lady a powerful orgasm or three and leave her in a puddle I’ve often wondered if it might reduce her energy after that for the rest of her shift.

It of course simply depends on the person, but here is a quick anonymous poll so I can satisfy my curiosity and shred the 1% of guilt lol

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Ask the ladies for their answers but from experience, it is entirely an effect of their physiology. One may be enough (la petite mort) and that is that. Or it may be a couple or three over an extended period of time. Or a bring it baby and give it to me give it to me give it to me and unless the guy is 17 AND pumped up on blue or yellow pills and able to handle a part of that onslaught, the multi orgasmic woman will outlast by far any guy.

From what I know, it is as individual as any human experience can be. Just my 2bits on the topic.

 

[Newuser505]

I dont believe many SP actually reach orgasm with their clients, despite every other review stating they came a small puddle.

I don't think this is something you should be concern about.

 

[skycrush99]

From what I know, it is as individual as any human experience can be. Just my 2bits on the topic.

would not be surprised. As a guy I think although there is tremendous range of performance, I think for MOST guys it takes some energy tolls eventually. That’s how you get the fighter “no nut” night before thing - except Mike Tyson who banged to reduce his in-fight aggression lol.

 

[skycrush99]

I dont believe many SP actually reach orgasm with their clients, despite every other review stating they came a small puddle.

I don't think this is something you should be concern about.

disagree, although yes there is a ton of embellishment. If you don’t think there aren’t some really good looking dudes and/or guys with good sexual skills in the pooner community giving some ladies a really good time you are fooling yourself. (Not tooting my own horn here)

 

[rinamood]

I think the g-spot is more risky for sensitivity with me and I tap out from that more often than clit-induced orgasms. Risk for me is primarily dehydration 💦🌈 It was not an issue for me at higher volume, and definitely not an issue for me now at lower volume.

I highly recommend that if you're going for the clit with hand/fingers, please use lube! Thank you
🙏 Friction can be uncomfortable or even painful.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Orgasms are fun. They do not make me tired. They can give me energy actually. They affect men differently than they do women. Women don’t roll over and fall asleep like men do lol. However every woman is different.

 

[skycrush99]

I highly recommend that if you're going for the clit with hand/fingers, please use lube! Thank you
🙏 Friction can be uncomfortable or even painful.

I should initiate this myself more often. I love learning.

 

[dchoye]

I think the g-spot is more risky for sensitivity with me and I tap out from that more often than clit-induced orgasms. Risk is for me is primarily dehydration 💦🌈 It was not an issue for me at higher volume, and definitely not an issue for me now at lower volume.

I highly recommend that if you're going for the clit with hand/fingers, please use lube! Thank you
🙏 Friction can be uncomfortable or even painful.

What does your partner do to get you to achieve G-spot orgasm ?

 

[Harmony-bc]

I highly recommend that if you're going for the clit with hand/fingers, please use lube! Thank you
🙏 Friction can be uncomfortable or even painful.

I go through so much lube. Lube is a girls best friend lol.

Even if a lady is dripping wet or you have lots of saliva, lube just makes it better for clit snd gspot. The only times I’ve ever squirted, lube was involved. Men go straight for my clit, I hand them lube. They always say but you’re so wet already. Shhhhh this just makes it better. lol

Also if you want to touch me, please wash your hands and cut your nails 😭

 

[Harmony-bc]

What does your partner do to get you to achieve G-spot orgasm ?

The gspot is a few inches and up. There’s toys that can be used but for me, pressing on that spot with fingers in a certain way with lube works for me

 

[rinamood]

What does your partner do to get you to achieve G-spot orgasm ?

Fingering and reading my reaction to find the spot 😎

I'm a very indulgent receiver, but even I can still get overwhelmed and scared if it's stimulated too aggressively. I think once you find a comfortable pressure/movement/technique for your partner, most prefer to stay precisely at that level to achieve orgasm. Changing it up too much or going harder when someone tells you that something already feels good tends to disrupt the process the most. If they tell you to go harder, then that's a different story 😇

 

[Harmony-bc]

Fingering and reading my reaction to find the spot 😎

I'm a very indulgent receiver, but even I can still get overwhelmed and scared if it's stimulated too aggressively. I think once you find a comfortable pressure/movement/technique for your partner, most prefer to stay precisely at that level to achieve orgasm. Changing it up too much or going harder when someone tells you that something already feels good tends to disrupt the process the most. If they tell you to go harder, then that's a different story 😇

why do so many do that? Ooooh that feels so good DOES NOT mean please baby disrupt the pleasure I’m feeling and do something else. Lol.

 

[Harmony-bc]

disagree, although yes there is a ton of embellishment. If you don’t think there aren’t some really good looking dudes and/or guys with good sexual skills in the pooner community giving some ladies a really good time you are fooling yourself. (Not tooting my own horn here)

So many good looking people are not great lovers. Good looks does not equal good in bed. The best selling male porn star is an ugly man (Ron Jeremy). Beauty is skin deep and is highly subjective.

 

[rinamood]

why do so many do that? Ooooh that feels so good DOES NOT mean please baby disrupt the pleasure I’m feeling and do something else. Lol.

They get excited and carried away!

There's also the porno narrative of trying to "conquer" ladies by overdoing it such that they are "unable to" deny the guy 😅 The irresistible casa nova with the midas touch sort of fantasy.

I remember when I had just started out with this work and I would get these rough "midas touch" guys who refused to listen - they probably targeted me since I was new. Took months of BLing them with my manager back then! Nowadays, a simple verbal request to decrease the intensity or a double-tap on the wrist/forearm is all it takes to be heard, and listened to 🥰 Thank fuck the good guys win 💪

 

[oldshark]

Some girls tell me they become very tired after an orgasm whereas others say it empowers them and gives them energy, so yah every female is different. Guys also are different, some are exhausted after cumming, and others are quickly empowered again.

As for making women cum, it is not easy. I find DATY is the best approach and quite often I can accomplish it for the girl but it can a lot of time. And yes, some ladies have faked to me. But bless them. They did it to make me feel good.

 

[rinamood]

Some girls tell me they become very tired after an orgasm whereas others say it empowers them and gives them energy, so yah every female is different. Guys also are different, some are exhausted after cumming, and others are quickly empowered again.

If it's a wank for the night to fall asleep, then it's a sleepy cum 😴
If it's in the midst of a hot session, I'm greedy for more 😈

Neither are negative though, at least for me! Big agree on DATY. Tongues are the best~

 

[ChromeGasCap]

Seems to be alot of attention to focusing on one spot. ie. The clit, or the g-spot, etc.
From my experience, the best results are when you distribute your attention to various regions of the vaginal anatomy at varying times.

 

[oldshark]

I find that during DATY, yes, the clit is important but the lady doesn't want to have the rest of her body ignored. I typically am massaging her breasts, thighs, etc., as I go at it. I am trying to submerge her into the experience. It is a better technique than being too harsh on the clit.

 

[ChromeGasCap]

While at the clit you should not focus everything there with your lips and tongue. You have to work the hood as well as the mound above the hood. You have to work both side mounds, the outer side of her lips as well as the inner side of her lips. You also have to give some attention to the perineum.