Orgasm too soon?

[Humptydumpty]

Does anybody else have this problem? Well it's not really a problem.

I'm a married mid 30s male. I've had a lot of sex through my years. I have enjoyed it. My sex life has been I decline for a few years. 8yrs of marriage will do that I guess. I have partaken in this hobby for a few years now and quite enjoyed my self. Marriage can be a problem, but only when you really want to have sex a lot. Though, not the problem at hand.

Now once in a blue moon when I a new sp to scratch an itch. I'm not sure what it is, could be the anticipation or excitement, but I just can't control my orgasm. It just goes. 1-2 pumps and boom. It rarely happens, but it happens. I'm usually good for 10-25 minutes.

My most recent experience of this goes like this. Now it wasn't even an sp, it was my hot 18 year old 105 pound neighbour. I had been dreaming of tasting that pussy for a while. My Wife is out of town, she was helping me with some chores ( paid for her help of course). I couldn't stop staring at her ass, her perky boobs, and imagining what she tasted like. We had finished up, and was giving her a hug goodbye, and I kissed her. Omfg, amazing, she's kissing me back. So a whole lot of kissing and dry humping ensues. Then she just stops and says I'll be back. She had to run home and get rubbers. Good girl. So we proceed with more kissing, and undressing, I get to taste the sweetness of her young pussy, then on goes the hat, and in I go. 1,2,3 oh fuck. Why, why oh why.
... I have more control than this. Wtf, I can hold on longer than that. Over excited I guess.

So change hats, I can keep it up. Dive back in, stop after a few minutes and positions, eat some more, finger bang some more. Ok, hard again! Yes, hat on, slide in again, 1,2,3 holy fuck, I just came again. Wow, wtf. Not that I can't come again, just three pumps in on round 2? Changed hats and fucked her within an inch of both our lives.

It was quite honestly on of the better sexcapades I've had to date. I for the first time in a long time was completely satisfied and smiling. I'm still smiling, and it's been a week.

Now, thank you for putting up with that, I had to tell somebody about this, I can't keep it all bottled up. I hadn't had sex before this in about 2-3 weeks, and the time before that was a fantastic time with Angel in cloverdale.

Now, have any of you guys, or ladies, had issues with over excited, or over stimulated, filled with lust and anticipation, and had an orgasm way to early? Like I said it doesn't happen all the time, just on rare occasions.

yes that was a true life event and I'm still enjoying the thoughts of it.

 

[sybian]

It's called endorphines ....She's sending them out and without you really knowing it ,your palette is picking them up. We humans call it sexual tension, but it's IMO our more primitive side.
There is a young 25 year old in a town 40 minutes away that works at an business that can't keep her eyes off my waist area...She's a 25 year old Gwenyth Paltro look alike.
Everyone else that works there has felt it as well, and they mention it.....I've never acted on it, but perhaps in the future....When she is close to me, she sends out nothing but signals.
To put in other words....She smells awesome , I breath deeper, and she moves different, and there is a drawn magnetism. She becomes even more attractive.
Shit ..I have to fight the urge ,to stop my upper lip from curling.
Your concious and subconcious just became overstimulated...If there is a next time , it may be a little different for the both of you.

 

[manni]

My most recent experience of this goes like this. Now it wasn't even an sp, it was my hot 18 year old 105 pound neighbour. I had been dreaming of tasting that pussy for a while. My Wife is out of town, she was helping me with some chores ( paid for her help of course). I couldn't stop staring at her ass, her perky boobs, and imagining what she tasted like. We had finished up, and was giving her a hug goodbye, and I kissed her. Omfg, amazing, she's kissing me back. So a whole lot of kissing and dry humping ensues. Then she just stops and says I'll be back. She had to run home and get rubbers. Good girl. So we proceed with more kissing, and undressing, I get to taste the sweetness of her young pussy, then on goes the hat, and in I go. 1,2,3 oh fuck. Why, why oh why.
... I have more control than this. Wtf, I can hold on longer than that. Over excited I guess.

lucky guy.
it's like a scene out of that movie American Beauty.

so what happens when your wife comes back and your
hot 18 yr old neighbour is within your sights?

all I know is, it sounds like you're a healthy mid 30s kind of guy
and I wouldnt worry about it.

 

[frisky business]

Now once in a blue moon when I a new sp to scratch an itch. I'm not sure what it is, could be the anticipation or excitement, but I just can't control my orgasm. It just goes. 1-2 pumps and boom. It rarely happens, but it happens. I'm usually good for 10-25 minutes.

Hey Humpty,

Here are three things that might help:

Kegel Exercises For Men Just Google it, there are tons of sites that will tell you how to do these. The basic idea is that you strengthen your pubococcygeus muscle (the one that you would use to stop urine flow mid-stream), then tighten this powerhouse muscle on command when you want to delay an organism.

Get Your Mind Off Of Her Go to a different place in your mind for a minute. Decide on your go to place in advance. It can be anything, just choose something that is non-sexual and interesting to you.

Stop To Change Position Go to sucking her tits for a minute. If you're on her boobs that pretty much guarantees you're not getting physical dick stimulation at that moment. After this breather your hairpin trigger will calm down and you can resume the festivities.

Let us know how it goes.

 

[J-Dogg]

you know how the saying goes.

If all else fails, fap, fap, and fap again.

 

[badbadboy]

Get Your Mind Off Of Her Go to a different place in your mind for a minute. Decide on your go to place in advance. It can be anything, just choose something that is non-sexual and interesting to you.

Stop To Change Position Go to sucking her tits for a minute. If you're on her boobs that pretty much guarantees you're not getting physical dick stimulation at that moment. After this breather your hairpin trigger will calm down and you can resume the festivities.

Let us know how it goes.

Sage advice :nod:

Change the focus, think about something else and not oops I am about to cummmmm . . .

Think about Baseball perhaps?

https://youtu.be/QlNXJ4pAoZc

 

[manni]

Sage advice :nod:

Think about Baseball perhaps?

that would put any guy to sleep. ; )

 

[Humptydumpty]

It's never usually a problem, I know the tricks to held it off. First time it happened was with Kali kaos. Second time was with meggi in Abbotsford. This was the third time. I think it has everything to do with the pierced and tatted look. And the fact that I had wanted her since I moved into the neighbourhood a few years back. And the feeling was mutual.

I was just taken in the moment getting the girls I fantasize about. I think miss Tanya hit the nail on the head.

Lmao bbb, thanks for that.

 

[way.tomuch]

Hey HD ,,, Easiest way is ,,,,, just think of the cash your going to have to give to your wife , when the tenny next door spills the beans to her

No shit

 

[Mr. Bruce]

I find that situations in which it's a spur of the moment sexual experience, and it's wrong, and spontaneous, and dirty, that usually makes it really easy to pop prematurely. Like has been mentioned already put your mind in a different place or think of something not so sexy.

Another piece of advice is not to pump so hard from the start, slow it down a bit and give yourself and the girl time to savour the moment and build anticipation. Pulling out for a second or two can also work and tease her a little at the same time, just don't take too long to put it back.

 

[Tugela]

I would suggest giving the fantasies a rest.

 

[Bctraveller]

My condition may be worse....
I came right in my pants just reading "my 18 year old 105 pound neighbor "

 

[majordomo]

I've read a bit about the drug Priligy which is available in Europe and can help men with premature ejaculation.

I experienced this problem a few times myself when I first started this hobby, but now that I'm used to meeting new ladies the anticipation isn't so overwhelming and the normal tricks mentioned here work fine to take my arousal level down a notch.

 

[clu]

The opposite can also be a problem. I expect delaying it is more doable than trying to make it happen when it won't. And if you concentrate on pleasing her until you're ready to go again (which didn't sound like it took long) then it can't be all bad.

 

[chcknsup]

Have a little bit of alcohol before

 

[Hobby]

Strangely enough it just happened to me today... I didn't even see it coming lol. The lady (I wasn't super horny, or highly attracted to her either) just finished her CBJ and then climbed on top and I sadly came right away for some reason, just out of the blue. I barely noticed the build up, I was just coming suddenly lol. I was successful with a second round which doesn't always happen, some times I struggle to even get it up, even with the hottest girls. The mind can play some nasty tricks on you and keep you limp, or not allow you any control at all lol. Most of the time I have excellent control as well, and can generally have an enjoyable session, I have more problems keeping it up then coming quickly.

 

[Lo-ki]

Weird shit when it comes to Dicks mine never ceases to surprise me, I can be with a total beauty but she don't do it for me. I've banged some 300lbs plus fatties and exploded, same with some very trashy Hos they really got me off. I remember a very hot young hottie it was limp when I stuck it in there and the stupid thing instantly got hard and exploded without me even moving. I'm older now so once I get going I can pound the goodies pretty good.
Count your blessings at last you got off much better than playing limp wiener with a wild cats ass!

Welcome to the club of old age...
Your not the only one. I have had the same experience.

 

[Humptydumpty]

I must say, I did keep it up, I did fuck her within an inch of giving myself a heart attack. 4 times in one day of the best sex of my life and hers. I have a new love for the so called spinner!
Best part is, I saved my cash. I may now be able to afford to see the wonderful Lucy lake and Catherine James together, and see if I can break my speed record at some point in the near future.


I liken sex to food for men. If a man is hungry, he will hunt for food. My permanent roommate has an understanding of this. We trust each other, but don't ask and don't tell. I usually see an sp when I'm really hungry and tired of the endless chase at home.

Great find badger.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

My condition may be worse....
I came right in my pants just reading "my 18 year old 105 pound neighbor "

 

[Dickson]

I must say, I did keep it up, I did fuck her within an inch of giving myself a heart attack. 4 times in one day of the best sex of my life and hers. I have a new love for the so called spinner!
Best part is, I saved my cash. I may now be able to afford to see the wonderful Lucy lake and Catherine James together, and see if I can break my speed record at some point in the near future.


I liken sex to food for men. If a man is hungry, he will hunt for food. My permanent roommate has an understanding of this. We trust each other, but don't ask and don't tell. I usually see an sp when I'm really hungry and tired of the endless chase at home.

Great find badger.

Well Humpty I want to hear about the Lucy Lake Catherine James experience. That should be very hot indeed.

Let me know how that goes. Not sure my heart could handle that one. I can 't wait for this review!