Online deposit to see dommes

[skifreak22]

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There are a few dommes with websites, Twitter accounts and are reviewed. They also require online security deposits. I'm wondering if folks use their own banking or if there is another method. I don't really feel comfortable giving a stranger my full name.

 

[Kikoolol]

You're giving your full name every time somebody is scanning your vaccine card to get into a restaurant. Or everytime you show your ID to buy alcohol.

 

[Banged_Up]

If they are reputable and on reviewed on here you will be fine.
I will personally vouch for your security with Goddess Ivy, Maya Odelle and Andre Lorelei.
Mistress Damazonia has an impeccable reputation though I haven’t seen her.
Miss Hunter has a spotless reputation, her and I speak often on another site, she’s cool, reliable and rip snortin’ hilarious.
Ask yourself this, is this sweet young ass wrecker also a home wrecker? Do they look like internet hipsters? No, they want you to cum back for more sadistic pleasure and your cash. They don’t believe in “a bird in the hand is better than two in the bush” like the bait & switchers on LL. For the ones mentioned above this is a lifestyle that they actually enjoy, Maya or Ivy want to provide a great experience and it shows. When Ivy looks at you and you have a sounding rod buried in your cock, turns to you with a wry smile and says “don’t you dare fucking cum“ it will stay with you forever.
They have reputations, they can’t afford to risk what they have dedicated lots of time to build.
Pro Dommes will financially dominate you, with your consent If that’s your deal.
Amazon gift cards are often acceptable, perfectly anonymous and even more acceptable with a reference.

 

[fetisboy95]

I'm not sure where to put this, so mods, please move if necessary

There are a few dommes with websites, Twitter accounts and are reviewed. They also require online security deposits. I'm wondering if folks use their own banking or if there is another method. I don't really feel comfortable giving a stranger my full name.

Totally understandable and I was in the same boat you are in. a ladies touch massage is a good alternative as they don't do deposit, but I have found some that I have become comfortable enough with to send $50 or an amazon gift card

 

[outandabout]

You're giving your full name every time somebody is scanning your vaccine card to get into a restaurant. Or everytime you show your ID to buy alcohol.

I’m glad I have a forum to respond here. I haven’t read every comment or every argument so I have no doubt that what i am about to state has already been stated by smarter folks than me. However, in regards to giving your info to someone scanning a vaccine confirmation, I am not worried about future blackmail when I do that. (And remember, it only takes ONE bad person to victimize many… and if the reader of this IS or will be ‘one of those future victims’, it would not be fun, would it!?)

I WOULD worry that someone somewhere in the future, short on money, desperate for financial aid, etc etc, might (and I stress “might”) decide to take advantage of another‘s momentary weakness to self-indulge. (It might be an associate of the recipient of the deposit, and ex-boyfriend, etc who might attack, also true?)

It’s a “PAPER TRAIL”. It will never go away. EVER. No different than someone’s irresponsible (and momentary loss of good judgement) decision to share a self-nude photo… ‘because I trust the recipient and s/he would neverrrrr do anything to hurt me’. (Famous last words!!)

Furthermore, it IS a paper trail of what some agencies MIGHT consider to be an illegal act. Duh…?? (This comment is not being directed to the author of this post. I am simply putting these thoughts out there.)

What are people doing???

As for security?? Well think about this; Texting is also a paper trail. Forever. Never goes away. And if anyone reading this has ANY aspirations of doing ANYTHING EVER that might require in-depth scrutiny on past behaviour (politics, legal, bonding, etc)… think about that “paper trail”. Every time the phone would ring, every time the ”registered mail” shows up… a job, a career could hang in the balance.

So, TO respond regarding the need to show info to get into a restaurant or buy alcohol, so what; what genuine evil can come from that?

But Deposits with your identification… those can only ruin one’s life. Is it worth it? (And if it happens only to one reader, and you’re the reader, does it really matter that it didn’t happen to anyone else?)

Stay well and stay safe everyone.

 

[Kikoolol]

Why would they blackmail one client and ruin their whole career instead of getting more clients? Blackmail is a one and done deal. They can't at the same time get new clients and blackmail old ones. Also it's only blackmail material if you care about this remaining unknown.

It's a paper trail of "x send y$ to z". Nothing more and nothing less. This is not illegal in and of itself.

Similarly texting is only a problem if you're dumb enough to self-incriminate yourself in what you write.

How much do you think a PI would have to give to an overworked and underpaid service worker to get them to give the name of the people that went into that place? That's basically how one of my friend's girlfriend got proof that he was cheating on her.

 

[outandabout]

Why would they blackmail one client and ruin their whole career instead of getting more clients? Blackmail is a one and done deal. They can't at the same time get new clients and blackmail old ones. Also it's only blackmail material if you care about this remaining unknown.

It's a paper trail of "x send y$ to z". Nothing more and nothing less. This is not illegal in and of itself.

Similarly texting is only a problem if you're dumb enough to self-incriminate yourself in what you write.

How much do you think a PI would have to give to an overworked and underpaid service worker to get them to give the name of the people that went into that place? That's basically how one of my friend's girlfriend got proof that he was cheating on her.

(My response is written with respect.) 😊

I appreciate your comments.

It’s like a house fire. Great chance it won’t happen. But it DOES happen, just not to “most people”.

If you’re the person whose house was affected, again it won’t matter if the rest of the city’s buildings did not go up in flames. It will only matter to the victim.

As I mentioned, when things ‘get desperate’, some folks can act in desperate measures. If you have nothing to lose, then go for the risk for you risk nothing (I speak of “you” in general terms, not the person I am debating with here).

However if you (one) DOES have something to lose (and that can be something as “irrelevant” as one’s reputation), then it might be wise to consider to whom you entrust one of the most prized possessions you have (your good name). It’s really that simple. One never knows when a tame and sweet dog will bite. One never knows when a good friend might turn on you and one never knows when someone jusssst might decide to betray a trust. One can “never say never”. Again, if it happens to someone else, who cares, right? Unless you’re “the someone else”. Nope, the paper trail is not fearful because of law enforcement seeking one out; it IS fearful in the wrong hands at the wrong time such as a NOW desperate ex-service provider needing money fast, an ex-boyfriend or business associate, etc.

And like a pandemic that could never happen, a flood in an area that it would never happen to again, (examples are endless) I have no doubt what I am describing WILL happen to someone.

If and when it does, then what?

Little heads have made big heads make big mistakes for centuries. All I suggest is THIS would be devastating IF it happens / happened to anyone! And the ONLY people who WOULD know would be the “perp” as they are called, and the victim.

and to think it’s avoidable by ending the practice of deposits.

Debates create scrutiny of thought. And thought is good.

Thanks for YOUR thoughts. 😊

stay well. Stay safe.