on this board are you afraid to speak your mind

[sevenofnine]

just curious how free and open do you think the discussion is on this board,
are people being bullied into submission or afraid of looking stupid or foolish
or perhaps
the ladies are afraid to speak there mind because well
of lost income
or maybe if your a guy, your afraid to post a comment because some lady you have been wanting to see might be offended

just curious do yo censor what you say

 

[luvsdaty]

Nope, there are probably bullies on this board but i don't really care about them. Generally it's condesending bullying.

 

[blazejowski]

I always speak my mind...

...mind you, I don't really do it against other PERB members that much, cause I don't feel like being banned.

 

[LADY-VIA]

a whole lot of shit flys out of my mouth at times... and at times I re read what I have said.. and laugh to myself.. however I chalk it all up to participating in an adult playground

 

[rhydogg]

a whole lot of shit flys out of my mouth at times... and at times I re read what I have said.. and laugh to myself..

Lol you too ehh....

 

[LADY-VIA]

guilty as charged lol

 

[lenny]

just curious how free and open do you think the discussion is on this board,

There is a reasonable balance between freedom of speech & what is not allowed. The mods do a good job.

are people being bullied into submission

No, that would be crossing the line.

or afraid of looking stupid or foolish
or perhaps
the ladies are afraid to speak there mind because well
of lost income
or maybe if your a guy, your afraid to post a comment because some lady you have been wanting to see might be offended

Certainly this happens.

just curious do yo censor what you say

Everyone does. And being human we all say things we regret later.

 

[Hoops]

Yes, I think we all self-censor to some degree.
For instance, I am on another mostly calgary board, and I would never flame them by making fun of their hockey team.
Very few trolls here. I have been on some boards that are much worse than this.

This board is pretty civil considering the mostly male, anonymous nature of it.

 

[jesuschrist]

I always hold back.

 

[worldshaker]

There is no such thing as free speach. Just ask Khalif Mitchell.

 

[c_i44]

I tend to speak my mind.

However I would sensor myself when I post or answer a post because on this public forum you can not be sure who is reading. And yes also because I might want to see one of the ladies here.

I believe in life most of us do not say exactly what we wish too.

Most of the time here I am happy to see that we actually have a great discussion going on one topic or another.

 

[Dickson]

Thanks for asking sevenofnine. I certainly have felt that on the board. I was told I should participate by a number of SPs but since I started I have been attacked on a number of fronts for asking questions or comments I have made or reviews I have had.

In the big scope it does not matter. I just go back to the way it was before I joined this board. No need for me to share my thoughts, stories, experiences.

You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. It is a no win situation. If you review a lady and she does not like it she goes after you. If you ask a question on dick size guys are pissed. Some SPs refused to see me after sharing my reviews.

For me discussions about Penis size or payment of SPs has costed me a lot on this board. Or reviews of things like the elimidate or questions on Agencies payment has allowed some people to put me on a cross. So what is the point of the board?

Thanks for asking.

 

[sevenofnine]

i kind of think i have allready ruffled some ladies feathers
not sure if they would give me a session or not,
but its too late for me to worry about it,
so oh well.

and as far as some male members yeah i think there tone is more meant to hurt then in the form of constructive critizism
but oh well like welcome to the world.
but it think it stifles debate

 

[lenny]

Did Lenny just say he censors himself on this board?

Just as in the real world, i do not say everything i think. If i did, while walking down the sidewalk, you'ld hear things like:

"Boobs 7, face 3, legs 5".

"Very nice. How much?" (Borat)

"Get the F out of my way. Do you have no sense of the rules of the sidewalk? I bet you never drove a car, or if you did it was in China. You are walking on the wrong side."



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Sparks - This Town Ain't Big Enough For Both Of Us
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAzESJ62irI&feature=related

 

[jesuschrist]

Did Lenny just say he censors himself on this board?

Yes he does. What he really wants to say, but doesn't have the courage, is simply "I love BBFS and I do it every chance I get with anyone". Instead, he drolls on and on with a million justifications and so-called research.

 

[badbadboy]

Did Lenny just say he censors himself on this board?

Good catch ound:

Although everyone has degrees of self censorship and Lenny's boundary's are way wider than many others here.

To answer the OP. I self censor not because of what others may think of me but more of what I care to let others know about me or my life.

 

[wilde]

"Get the F out of my way. Do you have no sense of the rules of the sidewalk? I bet you never drove a car, or if you did it was in China. You are walking on the wrong side."

So what are the rules of the sidewalk? Is there a "Sidewalk act" I am not aware of? Also did not know there's a right side to walk on on sidewalks. I am not afraid to speak my mind, so Lenny, did you forget to take your anti-psychotic meds again?

 

[wilde]

Yeah. Lenny is way off, Chinese people do not use sidewalks, they prefer walking on the street.

I think you should consult a dictionary or two to discern the difference between a street and a road:nod:.

 

[lenny]

Yes he does. What he really wants to say, but doesn't have the courage, is simply "I love BBFS and I do it every chance I get with anyone". Instead, he drolls on and on with a million justifications and so-called research.

Did you mean drolls, drones or drools?

Have you heard of Freudian Projection.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

So what are the rules of the sidewalk? Is there a "Sidewalk act" I am not aware of? Also did not know there's a right side to walk on on sidewalks. I am not afraid to speak my mind, so Lenny, did you forget to take your anti-psychotic meds again?

It's just common sense rules. Like a couple walking hand in hand blocking the entire sidewalk should allow a person walking the other way to pass, rather than force them onto someone's grass or into a mud puddle.

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Sparks - Your Call's Very Important to Us. Please Hold.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FOs9_l33gY

 

[ThisEndUp]

Yes I do feel free, if I step on some toes, well it happens

Further proof: Christian Bale posts for effect for attention and posts some very troubling items

However we do have one other poster who also posts for attention, and when he is called out cries bully and plays the victim