On being an SP..

bingoman

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What I like

Service is really important but after years of this hobby one thing I really appreciate is honesty. If your ad reflects the real experience you'll have a lot more happy customers. I'm in the San Francisco bay area (on the SF Redbook board http://www.sfredbook.com) and down our way we spend a lot of time discussing the frustration of seeing one thing in ads and getting another when we arrive for the session. Hope that helps. :)
 

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Top 10 Things I love and/or in an escort, in no particular order:

1. Natural breasts - size is unimportant. Any cup size from A or B to ???. Enhanced breasts are not a deal-breaker, however.
2. Decent conversation. You don't have to be able to discuss the historical inevitability of dialectical materialism with me (such a boring topic at this point anyway :) but being able to talk about something is essential.
3. Smiles. A warm, sincere smile can be very sexy.
4. A cheeful attitude. Who wants to have sex with a gloomy puss?
5. A sense of humour. You don't need to tell jokes, but you need to know what a joke is when you've heard one.
6. A sense of playfulness. I know this is a little vague. Life is vague.
7. Eye contact during BJ. The key to good GFE for me.
8. Enjoy receiving pleasure as well as you give it. Another part of GFE, for me, is getting my SP off. I love feeling the way legs quiver after a really good orgasm.
9. A little bit of dirty talk - both me and the SP. Nothing too outrageous. Just an occasional, "fuck me harder, you bastard" or be willing to hear and respond to, "you love being my dirty little slut, don't you."
10. A non-rushed atmosphere. I know that time is always an element in any SP/client arrangement, but no one needs to hear, "You've only got 5 minutes left. Would you fucking cum already."
 
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BS Detector

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TJ in the 'Peg said:
I agree with most of what you have said, but not the above. For me, the most enjoyable SP's are those who are not afraid to be themselves when they are working as an SP.

An SP is first and foremost a person, being an SP is what they do, not who they are. For me to really enjoy time with an SP, I need to see who they really are. I want to talk to the real person, not someone putting on an SP 'persona'.

I may not fit the mold of the average client here, but if I am with an SP, I want to know that the real person is having as much fun being with me as I am having being with them. I don't want an act. If we don't connect, fine, lets know that up front, no harm done and we both move on.
Thank You TJ. I could not have said it better. If I want an act, I'll go to a movie.
 

i'mluvinit

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1. To be discreet. Protect the client and he will protect you.
2. To be super clean
3. Have a great attitude
3. Do little things that make a difference.
4. Try to enjoy what you do.
5. Always keep your appointments
6. Try to be different each appointment for repeat customers...
(be fresh in your approach)
7. Don't say stupid things that creep the client out..
Ie. I saw you 3 times last six months once...in oct, etc..
8. Keep a clean and tidy place
9. Get out of the business if you don't like it.
10. Don't fall in love with the money and not further some long term career.(Probably a little judgemental..oh well I have seen
some people really waste away)
 
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