of the clock

[sevenofnine]

i mentioned it a few times, always said i was reluctant,

i just wanted to mention, if you guys ever get a chance to see a lady socially, for drinks coffee whatever,

don't hesitate,
for me any way it was a very interesting experiance, i have written alot about pretty much anything connected with this hobby,

and well it was nice refreshing to see a lady and well have her talk openly,
with out the pressure of well money and me paying her, and well the need to be politically correct,

she didn't say anything earth shattering,
but the perspective was well hers, from the womens point of view.
and to be honest with you, it opened my eyes.

for a guy that likes to think alot, i have been embarressed by the shallowness
that i have thought about some of the women's issues,
and from a womens' point of view,


she told me not to write about it actually, because no one wants to hear my morality and my preaching,
i tend to agree, no one wants to hear, both the females and the ladies, tend to not want to think about and confront, the negatives in this hobby,
but it does take its toll,
other then that the lady was very nice very smart very articulate.
going to school, raising kids, trying to sort it all out.
not hit any more pot holes in the road.

i wish her the best, as every lady i have met and is in this profession, they are very special, and they deserve all of our respect, none of our bullshit,

it was kind of intense the two of us, we kind of reached out to each other for personal reasons, so yeah we got into it, she won,

we left it open, if we shall see each other i think we both enjoyed our conversatoins,
she also offered to see me as a client,

which is funny we touched each other as friends, now to see each other professionally, im not sure i want to go down that road just yet,
but we talked openly about sex,
really rather a very interesting night

 

[HB40]

I'm finding more and more that we are all really of the same soul.

Escorts have the unique opportunity to love each and every client and show them unconditional acceptance. This is an unbelievable responsibility we can take on, and the good we can do can really help someones feel better about themselves and improve their well being.

Making an impact in this world doesn't have to be about saving the planet... it can be about making one person happier in his every day life.

xoxo
Nina

I love you Nina! You are a kind wise soul, I feel very fortunate to have had a chance to share mine with yours, you certainly improved my well being, Thank you.

 

[Krustee]

We all need love and want happiness. (so far, touch wood, I haven't met someone who doesn't)

xoxo
Nina

I don't need any love!
And if somebody tries to make me happy -
I'll kill em.

 

[Hoe_watch]

i mentioned it a few times, always said i was reluctant,

i just wanted to mention, if you guys ever get a chance to see a lady socially, for drinks coffee whatever,

don't hesitate,
for me any way it was a very interesting experiance, i have written alot about pretty much anything connected with this hobby,

and well it was nice refreshing to see a lady and well have her talk openly,
with out the pressure of well money and me paying her, and well the need to be politically correct,

she didn't say anything earth shattering,
but the perspective was well hers, from the womens point of view.
and to be honest with you, it opened my eyes.

for a guy that likes to think alot, i have been embarressed by the shallowness
that i have thought about some of the women's issues,
and from a womens' point of view,


she told me not to write about it actually, because no one wants to hear my morality and my preaching,
i tend to agree, no one wants to hear, both the females and the ladies, tend to not want to think about and confront, the negatives in this hobby,
but it does take its toll,
other then that the lady was very nice very smart very articulate.
going to school, raising kids, trying to sort it all out.
not hit any more pot holes in the road.

i wish her the best, as every lady i have met and is in this profession, they are very special, and they deserve all of our respect, none of our bullshit,

it was kind of intense the two of us, we kind of reached out to each other for personal reasons, so yeah we got into it, she won,

we left it open, if we shall see each other i think we both enjoyed our conversatoins,
she also offered to see me as a client,

which is funny we touched each other as friends, now to see each other professionally, im not sure i want to go down that road just yet,
but we talked openly about sex,
really rather a very interesting night

interesting post,

I know you may not think it, but you and I have a bit more in common than you might at first think. everything is fair game for levity in my oppinion. it's a form of detatchment that keeps me safe.

dude, be careful for real don't connect more than you have to. it may cost you more than you ever wanted.



don't get yourself into trouble.

 

[HB40]

Ohhh, it's OFF the clock

I'm sorry sevenofnine, I didn't give this a good read the first time, it really is an excellent post.
I realize now that I presumptively thought you were talking about a regular girl, which is stupid because the ladies in this business are regular girls, I sometimes forget that.
It would be great to have a drink with a woman or see her infrequently for a social encounter.

My fantasy is to take 3 or 4 ladies to Mexico for a holiday with me.
Obviously there would be remuneration but I would want it spontaneous with no pressure as to which lady or ladies would share my bed.
Just alot of fun, adventure, good food and good company.
I intend to fulfill that dream one day but for now I would not hesitate to go out for an hour or two just to shoot the shit and be like friends.
I like women, call me crazy.

i just wanted to mention, if you guys ever get a chance to see a lady socially, for drinks coffee whatever,

don't hesitate,
for me any way it was a very interesting experiance

we left it open, if we shall see each other i think we both enjoyed our conversatoins,
she also offered to see me as a client,

which is funny we touched each other as friends, now to see each other professionally, im not sure i want to go down that road just yet,
but we talked openly about sex,
really rather a very interesting night

 

[AA_Train]

Yes it is quite amazing.. we are just human beings like everyone else.

In my previous occupation I met a lot of people. I'm meeting a lot fewer people now, but I get to know them a lot better

I'm finding more and more that we are all really of the same soul. We all have different combination of fears, desires, needs, dreams etc etc etc... We are all unique but the core of us is all the same. We all need love and want happiness. (so far, touch wood, I haven't met someone who doesn't)

Anyway, I guess what i'm trying to say is it is pretty easy to like people and forgive them their idiosyncrasies when we realize that we're all basically the same, but our lifes experience has molded us to who we are today.

Escorts have the unique opportunity to love each and every client and show them unconditional acceptance. This is an unbelievable responsibility we can take on, and the good we can do can really help someones feel better about themselves and improve their well being.

Making an impact in this world doesn't have to be about saving the planet... it can be about making one person happier in his every day life.

xoxo
Nina

Hit the nail right on the head!!!

I've been asked by a few ladies why I would see escorts, being that I'm 27 and fairly good looking (or so I've been told). I think paying to see these woman is like an insurance policy; one that ensures I will be with a woman who can and will accept me. They take the time to get to know me in every way they can and do it without judgements and hang ups. It's more about QUALITY time with women for me, not just sex, although sex is, for me at least, is a component of spending quality tiime with a woman. I feel very fortunate to have seen some great ladies who, at the very least in part, share Nina's philosophy on how to approach this business and it has helped me feel better about myself and given me knowledge I never would of had otherwise.

 

[Krustee]

OH wow so that's you!!! Finally I have a face to put to the name.. so I guess meeting me is out of the question, hey?

xoxo
Nina

No, we can meet no problem...
but if you make be laugh, I'll have to kill you.

 

[SidGuy]

seeing girls outside of session?

interesting post,

I know you may not think it, but you and I have a bit more in common than you might at first think. everything is fair game for levity in my oppinion. it's a form of detatchment that keeps me safe.

dude, be careful for real don't connect more than you have to. it may cost you more than you ever wanted.



don't get yourself into trouble.

This got me thinking about a conversation I had with some fellow pooners on the weekend...have any guys had incredible GFE's with a SP you see on a regular basis? So much that you started to get attached and have feelings for? And on the flip side, have any SP's developed feelings or had a client develop feelings for them?

If so, did it affect anything?

Is it paramount that we keep to the understanding that it is a however long GF fantasy and leave it at the door when we leave so we don't get into trouble?

 

[maxx50]

Do a search

Sidguy this question has been asked many time.. As for being friends , having them as gf and just hanging with Sp i do go in think of any one other then just some one that i am interested in knowing and spending time with what come of that will depends on what we each see in the the other that we like and want to know more about just like any one else hat we meet in life.
But it seems to be easier with people that are open minded and generally not judgmental . Escort fit that bill And i think that is what most men find them selves attracted to along with the hot sexy bodies and great sex ,there is some one that listens to you and seems to care and you feel the same way about them. But i won't say that this is always the case there is another side to the business and to people , every one of us which some time only seems genuine but hide a lot. it is there i have seen it. But i chose to see the best in every one , be as honest as i can and care about most people on the same level. I try not to let there job and what they do in life influence how i interact with them a rich mn a poor man they are all the same, and they have the same needs and wants from life as you and me. some things may be easier for hem and other things hard.. this is something that the ladies here know better then any of us guys be cause they see what we all are like.