Now that the cat is out of the bag………..

[Poontalk Saint]

If anyone is comfortable to share, I was curious to see who has either been caught or admitted to their significant other about seeing SP’s, and what the outcome has been. I’m sure there are a few that have open marriages in which you are given permission.
I personally have gone into early retirement from this scene after spilling my guts after some questions were asked. My wife is brilliant, and should be a detective, because although I thought I was careful in deleting any trails of evidence, I obviously wasn’t thorough enough to where she has found a lot of things since I told her as well as probably having the ability to trace my PERB account (Hi! if you read this). She didn’t catch me per se, but I admitted to it.
A lot of drama has ensued since, being on the verge of separation one moment, then having sex and being intimate the next. We have had more sex in two weeks than we have had in many years combined, and I think she actually enjoys it. Maybe this was a wake up call for me to hold on to my family, and maybe a second chance at our relationship. It’s still very up and down. We’ll see what happens.

 

[Sheen]

Glad things appear to be working out.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

It's a very emotionally complex time. I cheated on a past partner with a psycho nympho b**** and I told her because she was going to find out. She was crushed but kept wanting to have sex and do whatever I wanted out of insecurity but i couldn't let her to that as she wasn't in the wrong, I was, so there was no reason for her to try to suck up and prove herself to me. Eventually when she got over the emotional shock of it she agreed it would be best to split. It was better for both of us. Some things you can't come back from. In your case it was with sex workers so maybe it will be different, who knows, but if you get the sense that your partner is clinging on because she's emotionally beat up and her self esteem has been destroyed it would be best to leave her be.

 

[momslayer69]

If anyone is comfortable to share, I was curious to see who has either been caught or admitted to their significant other about seeing SP’s, and what the outcome has been. I’m sure there are a few that have open marriages in which you are given permission.
I personally have gone into early retirement from this scene after spilling my guts after some questions were asked. My wife is brilliant, and should be a detective, because although I thought I was careful in deleting any trails of evidence, I obviously wasn’t thorough enough to where she has found a lot of things since I told her as well as probably having the ability to trace my PERB account (Hi! if you read this). She didn’t catch me per se, but I admitted to it.
A lot of drama has ensued since, being on the verge of separation one moment, then having sex and being intimate the next. We have had more sex in two weeks than we have had in many years combined, and I think she actually enjoys it. Maybe this was a wake up call for me to hold on to my family, and maybe a second chance at our relationship. It’s still very up and down. We’ll see what happens.

if you want to PM me, i’m going through the same thing.

 

[stressless123]

if you want to PM me, i’m going through the same thing.

That account doesn't exist. Looks like they asked to get themselves deleted (or were banned)

 

[Fiona]

Some of the smartest most together men I’ve ever known have been busted by something as easy as a iPad left on or family iTunes accounts linking & your whole family finding out together 😶 some men come right back here when the flames cool down. Some it takes only 1 close encounter to never step back into this world. Depends who you are & what you’re willing to do without. Our Western culture is so weird here , so everyone naturally feels so guilty . Marriage is definitely for back when our normal life expectancy was 45-55 . 🤭

 

[Crookedmember]

My now-Ex encouraged me to satisfy my needs at SPs, rather than coming to her.

She said sex with me was about as much fun as being run over by a Greyhound bus. Only messier.

 

[momslayer69]

Unfortunely my wife found out due to getting a disease..
Then everything came out when she started investigating.

 

[Bunghole1]

Here is a good movie to watch if you are worried about cheating.

 

[Thedirtygentleman]

Unfortunely my wife found out due to getting a disease..
Then everything came out when she started investigating.

So sorry to hear that. Always use protection with a sex worker. for your safety and hers.

 

[jgg]

So sorry to hear that. Always use protection with a sex worker. for your safety and hers.

Always use protection, especially with civies.

 

[Thedirtygentleman]

Always use protection, especially with civies.

You’re right there’s actually more chance to get something fr a random girl you meet at the bar.

 

[momslayer69]

So sorry to hear that. Always use protection with a sex worker. for your safety and hers.

I have always used protection. It’s very rare but can happen do to rubbing of other area.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I have always used protection. It’s very rare but can happen do to rubbing of other area.

Sorry to hear that dude! What did you catch that was transmitted? That’s probably the biggest risk for people in relationships.