Not sure where to post this....

[Penguingirl]

This isn't a review, my apologies in advance but if a mod can move my post to the appropriate forum, that would be awesome.

Here we go....

I'm a young-ish, professional (very bisexual) lady who has had the same awesome partner for a decade now. He too is young, professional, and educated. Lately I've been very intrigued and titillated by the notion of hiring a beautiful SP to facilitate our first threesome experience as a couple. I have however run into some mental snags, and was hoping some of you fabulous "pooners" (I think that's the correct term)? might be able to offer me some reassurance.

Neither myself or my partner are nearly as aesthetically pleasing as any of the SP's I've perused on their respective websites and advertisements on ERSlist. I realize that part of the beauty of using an SP is that you don't have to be gorgeous and physically perfect to make for an enjoyable experience. But still, I'm an average self conscious lady and thus can't help but be somewhat intimidated by just how amazingly hot a lot of these SP's are. Is that normal, and do any of you out there struggle with the same thoughts and feelings when you are seeing an SP for the first time?

Another issue is that my partner, who is impeccably groomed, does have special needs in that he is a colon cancer survivor, and must now use an ileostomy bag for his "waste removal". There's nothing dirty or unsafe about it, but I understand that it might be off-putting for an SP who isn't familiar with medical issues like this.

Any ideas, thoughts or feedback?

Help!

Horny in the Lower Mainland, Penguingirl.

 

[Penguingirl]

Thanks for the ideas Borko! I had originally planned on explaining to any potential SP all about my partner's issues prior to arranging for a meeting. It's not exactly the kind of thing you want to surprise someone with lol, not because there's something wrong with it, but just because it's different and kind of weird at first. ^_^

Thanks again! <3

 

[Holly Taylor]

Oh gosh, I think that if you two booked a date with Vanesssa, all your concerns would melt away!

She is a firecracker and a stunning lady, but not intimidating at all. I think it's because she oozes friendliness. Does that make sense?

There are some gorgeous ladies that are intimidating. They give off that "I'm super hot and I know it" vibe. Vanesssa, on the other hand, IS super hot, but gives off that "I'm so flattered that you think I'm hot!" vibe. It really puts one at ease.

Anyway, it seems like you are looking for a bit of discussion before you actually select anyone, so I won't continue to push the recommendations. The Lounge is probably the most appropriate place for this topic - perhaps a mod will move it for you.

Best of luck in your search! I hope you two have a fantastic adventure!

 

[TML4EVER]

Thanks for the ideas Borko! I had originally planned on explaining to any potential SP all about my partner's issues prior to arranging for a meeting. It's not exactly the kind of thing you want to surprise someone with lol, not because there's something wrong with it, but just because it's different and kind of weird at first. ^_^

Thanks again! <3

You havn't mentioned if your partner knows that you are bisexual or if he knows about your idea of hiring a sp ?
I know...most would think he knows about the bi part..but stranger things have happened lol.
If he doesn't know about your plan, do you know what his "fantasy" 3 some lady would be like. If not, he could still
contribute valuable info if you asked the questions in the right way...Maybe he already has his eyes on some1 lol.

 

[Penguingirl]

TML4EVER - I assure you I have discussed this fantasy with my partner on numerous occasions. We were even talking about my desire for a threesome with a SP when we made love recently! ^_^ We have also talked about it when we weren't in the throes of passion, and he seemed slightly nervous but also intrigued by my idea. Still, very good advice and thank you for your post!

Holly Taylor - It's very strange that you would have recommended the lovely Vanesssa, because I have her webpage bookmarked and she was one of the ladies I had my eye on! Perhaps destiny is at work here lol.

 

[Nicole40DDD]

Hi I would love to see the two of you if you would like to give me a try. I don't know if you like BBW's but I am nicely proportioned.
Give me a call if you are interested. I am in Surrey tonight till tomorrow afternoon. Nicole 250-888-1188