Not sure what I might have done?

[Jethro Bodine]

I'm a bit confused.
There is a local lady who I've been trying to see for the past few months since she came on the scene. She seems to come and go and her incall situation is often, up in the air so it has been hard to get our schedules to match up.
As recently as a few weeks ago she PM'd me on PERB and told me she'd like to see me for sure and it would be best to contact her via PM to set something up.
I've PM'd her twice now and both times she has not returned my PM. I called her yesterday and when she answerred, she told me I had a wrong #.
Now, before anyone accuses me of stalking her or acting creepy, we've never met or even had a conversation beyond a PM or 2. I've never been rude or asked explicit questions. I like to think I have a good rep so I can't imagine any other SP's discouraging her from seeing me.
I almost think she has me confused with another pooner who she might be trying to avoid.

This has never happened to me and I find it strange.

 

[james1944]

Similar thing happened to me. I was trying to see a P/T SP and I didn't see her till like 2 months after my first initial contact with her. I e-mailed her a couple times, then didn't hear from her for awhile. I was surprised to find an e-mail from her one day, so I quickly replied and set a date with her. She was well worth the wait.

I recommend just keep an eye for when she advertises, when she does, contact her right away (e-mail or phone). If she doesn't reply, just look for another girl that u fancy in the meantime. Just keep a little backup money ready so when the SP u really want becomes available, u can go right away.

 

[luvsdaty]

She sounds like a flake? Move on to the next one on your list.

 

[ThisEndUp]

Move along Jethro, plenty of other fish in the 'ole cement pond...

 

[cjac7214]

When I call a restaurant and it is full, I try another one. If the restaurant does not return my calls, I don't call again, no matter how good the reviews are or how good the menu looks. I don't wonder why, it just reflects that they are not interested enough to call back and therefore I don't pay to eat there.

 

[jesuschrist]

I'm a bit confused.
There is a local lady who I've been trying to see for the past few months since she came on the scene. She seems to come and go and her incall situation is often, up in the air so it has been hard to get our schedules to match up.
As recently as a few weeks ago she PM'd me on PERB and told me she'd like to see me for sure and it would be best to contact her via PM to set something up.
I've PM'd her twice now and both times she has not returned my PM. I called her yesterday and when she answerred, she told me I had a wrong #.
Now, before anyone accuses me of stalking her or acting creepy, we've never met or even had a conversation beyond a PM or 2. I've never been rude or asked explicit questions. I like to think I have a good rep so I can't imagine any other SP's discouraging her from seeing me.
I almost think she has me confused with another pooner who she might be trying to avoid.

This has never happened to me and I find it strange.

You thought you were being nice, but you've obviously overstepped her boundaries and totally insulted her. Chicks are unpredictable like that. In fact, she was thinking you're a rapist and a stalker. Pretty soon the police will show up at your door to haul your ass off to jail.

Now you'll have even more to be thinking about!

 

[newatit]

Jethro you are taking this too hard. Usually in situations like this the gal is just unorganized, and only gets business by chance, or only wants the business when she wants to be there. Had a few situations like this and am aware of one or two gals on this board who are not reliable to get with.

Take the advice above, move on, there are plenty of reliable gals happy to have a good client.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

You thought you were being nice, but you've obviously overstepped her boundaries and totally insulted her. Chicks are unpredictable like that. In fact, she was thinking you're a rapist and a stalker. Pretty soon the police will show up at your door to haul your ass off to jail.

Now you'll have even more to be thinking about!

Damn, I thought so!
Good thing I have all those canned goods in the cellar so I can hide out for a while.
Just gotta get a copy of Playboy featuring Lindsay Lohan, some hand lotion and a case of Kleenex and I'm all set.:thumb:

 

[J Waters]

Perhaps when you called she was not in a comfortable place to communicate, ie; she was around family or a friend and she paniced. She should however replied back to you by now via pm.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

sounds like there might be a lot more to the situation than what we can see from her advertising. maybe there's a reason why her incall situation is often up in the air that she chooses NOT to advertise...

i think giving her a pass for now is your best choice jethro, until you hear definitely from a reliable pooner that she's truly open for new business

 

[kalel]

everybody's already eluded to the obvious, but here's a pretty blunt way of saying it (and i mean this for every area for the rest of your life):

NEVER MAKE ANYTHING OR ANYBODY A PRIORITY IF YOU ARE ONLY AN OPTION TO THEM. success in life is about building options. the more options YOU have, the less you have to be a slave to somebody else's parameters.

 

[chancy4me]

When I call a restaurant and it is full, I try another one. If the restaurant does not return my calls, I don't call again, no matter how good the reviews are or how good the menu looks. I don't wonder why, it just reflects that they are not interested enough to call back and therefore I don't pay to eat there.

Didn't think McDonalds called back!

 

[luvsdaty]

McDonalds? or 7-11?

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Thank you all for your thouhgtful responsess.
I wasn't too oveerly concerned and lyke many have said there are more than enough grate SP's out there happy to otake my business.
I juts thought it strrange but c'est la vie!

Cheers,

I apologise for the typo's and spelling errors but I'm trying to type in my dimly lit cellar.
Now where the hell did I put my can opener and that Playboy?

 

[Alix Turner]

I'm trying to type in my dimly lit cellar.
Now where the hell did I put my can opener and that Playboy?

congratulations!

that was by far the creepiest mental image I've gotten all morning

 

[james1944]

So true. Amen brother.

NEVER MAKE ANYTHING OR ANYBODY A PRIORITY IF YOU ARE ONLY AN OPTION TO THEM. success in life is about building options. the more options YOU have, the less you have to be a slave to somebody else's parameters.