Not getting found out by your SO - risks, tips & tricks

westwoody

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Get a Blackberry and carry it with you all the time. The possibility of losing it will give you an excuse to keep it password protected. Have an email account that you only access with the Blackberry. If you keep it handy your SO shouldn't have an opportunity to go digging around in it. WOMEN ARE NATURALLY CURIOUS. If they can't get into you email they will assume you are hiiding something and want in even more.
If you rent a room use the SPs address, or your office address. I rented a room in Calgary and got a newsletter from them, a customer survey, a book of coupons, and a bunch of emails. All that would be hard to explain.
 

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afterplay said:
I bet they won't change for a few murders. Maybe they'd change for a lot of murders, a few huge drug scandals and another 9/11. In the meantime, they'll take a little bit of bad publicity, but there's too much money in untraceable phones. Look at the US: 10 times the population of Canada, probably 10 times as many crimes (duh), and prepaid phones are still a dime a dozen. The shareholders would slaughter any carrier who tried to dump anonymous prepaid.

A few easy markets:
* guys who don't want to be leaving phone records for anyone else to find.
* people who'd like to buy someone else a phone as a gift
* travellers finding themselves in a country where their existing phone doesn't work
* SPs who don't want to be giving out their real phone number or racking up huge subscription bills.
* Law Enforcement and Private Investigators. Love 'em or hate 'em, they do have a place in society, you may need their services one day, and they sometimes need a new phone number, quick.

While I have no firm evidence to back up my suspicion, I'd guess that you're more likely to be injured wandering along parts of Hastings or Kingsway after clubbing one night than you are from someone ostensibly looking for a discreet rub 'n' tug.

I'm not faulting you for taking security measures - I'm hoping to provoke everyone who is taking security measures to make an objective assessment of their exposures, and make an honest examination of their precautions to see whether or not those precautions are doing any good or if they're just feel-good posturing. Of course, a really good security plan involves CCTV cameras, never having a moment alone, never having random visitors and having a squad of SAS officers on overt and covert protection detail, but where's the fun in that.

Back on topic: if you're running win2k or winxp, turn off the friendly login screen, and require users to type their username and password at the login prompt - don't let one user see what other users exist. Create a separate computer account for your shady activities, and delete and recreate that account every so often. If you spend some time setting permissions properly, your shady user will be completely sandboxed and it'll be easy to wipe that out. Turn on encryption/privacy for your users - this requires that you run NTFS. Run antivirus/antispyware. Don't do anything other than send email, read perb, or maybe chat a little from your shady user account. The last thing you need there is for some bit of spyware to be leaking your activities.

For more tips on securing your windows machine and preventing one user from messing with another, check out the NSA Security Configuration Guides: http://www.nsa.gov/snac/downloads_os.cfm?MenuID=scg10.3.1.1

That is excellent advice, I am going to follow that too if need be. NOT that I have an SO, but I am somewhat of a geek myself.
 

ms.belair

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I'm probably in my house.
Would telling the truth be so horrible?
Do you prefer lying because you are afraid of losing your SO?
Does that mean you still love your SO? Or are you afraid of change?
 

Chantal

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Guilt!

Will chew away at a person to self-destruction.I have had many clients that with my personal counselling I was saying we have the right to own our feeling and our secrets,and our own thoughts.We own them.(within the reason of not acting on them to hurt a soul).I know there are many people that can not live with lies,and tell the truth.They are still together,but thrown in their faces 15 years later :rolleyes: (today),in MHO I personally would reather keep my secrets to myself without hurting the person(SO) that I love.I also believe we have one life to live. Live it to the fullest.Never seen a U-HAUL followed by a "HEARST" again a humble opinion.Chantal:)
 

BC_Boy

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I may be the only one who thinks so but if I caught my SO in bed with someone else, i'd actually get turned on and watch.
 

twoblues

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Hmm..Yah, I'd agree, if I saw my SO in bed with somebody else, I'd probably be turned on as well. Heck, I'd probably join in :)

Hypocrit that I am, I'd probably get upset though. It's okay for me, but for some reason, I am still a jealous type of person. I'd rather she did it on the side and didn't tell me, like I do for her. It's only fair ;)
 
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