Not getting blocked again?
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Whatever reasons she got it's still her fault.
Say if my boss yells at me all the time because simply he's an asshole and I haven't done anything wrong, hows that my fault? Well that's still your fault because you're the one who chose to work there. You could quit any time.
Did someone force her to be an escort? No, she chose that her self. She doesn't want to show face then she has to deal with clients possibly not liking her face.
So let me get this straight... Everything is always the girls fault because the girl chose this job?
I'm not sure there is much logic in this blanket statement. I could easily say that it's always your fault because you chose this hobby. Neither are correct.
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Not trying to butt in your guys debate here. Just have a relevant experience to share.
I met up with this girl in langley. I geuss i was bait and switched. Her ad said columbian beautie or something like that. Pics were good fit, firm, tall.
So I get to the incall and she is a good 30lbs more heavy than her photos! So i’m not into bigger girls (bad high school experience). But group psychology had the better of me so I went for it.
She was nice. Paid for F/S hour (220$) because I agreed to that. She started going to town but she could noticed I wasn’t into it. But she was pretty smart. So she figured out how to get me off. Gave me a bbbj which her ad said she wouldnt do. Gave me a really hard fast hj while giving the boys some love and talking dirty.(didn’t know i was into that)
Leaving your comfort zone and trying new things is the way of life.
I honestly don’t understand how someone can bear with the slight social discomfort of walking away.
I met up with this girl in langley. I geuss i was bait and switched. Her ad said columbian beautie or something like that. Pics were good fit, firm, tall.
So I get to the incall and she is a good 30lbs more heavy than her photos! So i’m not into bigger girls (bad high school experience). But group psychology had the better of me so I went for it.
She was nice. Paid for F/S hour (220$) because I agreed to that. She started going to town but she could noticed I wasn’t into it. But she was pretty smart. So she figured out how to get me off. Gave me a bbbj which her ad said she wouldnt do. Gave me a really hard fast hj while giving the boys some love and talking dirty.(didn’t know i was into that)
Leaving your comfort zone and trying new things is the way of life.
I honestly don’t understand how someone can bear with the slight social discomfort of walking away.
For the first case that's on you. I'll explain below
For the second case walk and block the agency. If pictures are only "representations" and upon showing up it isn't close to what the pictures are that's understandable walking but you should be blocking the agency. That's if they don't look anything like their picture though. If it is just beneficial lighting or similar that made them look better then I would say you could express your displeasure but keep it in mind when booking next time (or if you walk at least pay a reasonable amount).
Back to the first. The first client of the day? Did the lady have to make her way there early for you? If I was in your situation I would have payed the entire thing [worst case you could always ask if there was another woman there that wouldn't look like your sister]. Or try coming up with a compromise (a mask lets say). Ultimately though, if that doesn't work pay the lady. The likelyhood if you are the first client of the day they had to call her in early, took her off the schedule for that time.
The way to look at it would be like this, in terms of the overused restaurant analogy. Imagine going to a high-class restaurant ($100+ meals) and ordering a hand picked lobster from the tank, they boil it up and plate it for you. If you then see it and feel guilty that you picked it and can't stomach eating an animal that you hand-picked while it was living, and decide not to eat and just leave you for sure are getting banned from eating there again.
For the second case walk and block the agency. If pictures are only "representations" and upon showing up it isn't close to what the pictures are that's understandable walking but you should be blocking the agency. That's if they don't look anything like their picture though. If it is just beneficial lighting or similar that made them look better then I would say you could express your displeasure but keep it in mind when booking next time (or if you walk at least pay a reasonable amount).
Back to the first. The first client of the day? Did the lady have to make her way there early for you? If I was in your situation I would have payed the entire thing [worst case you could always ask if there was another woman there that wouldn't look like your sister]. Or try coming up with a compromise (a mask lets say). Ultimately though, if that doesn't work pay the lady. The likelyhood if you are the first client of the day they had to call her in early, took her off the schedule for that time.
The way to look at it would be like this, in terms of the overused restaurant analogy. Imagine going to a high-class restaurant ($100+ meals) and ordering a hand picked lobster from the tank, they boil it up and plate it for you. If you then see it and feel guilty that you picked it and can't stomach eating an animal that you hand-picked while it was living, and decide not to eat and just leave you for sure are getting banned from eating there again.
This has a real "don't wear revealing clothes and you won't get raped" kind of ring to it. That I'm the victim because you're making me hurt you kind of ring.
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I haven't looked at your website AF as of late but after reading all of this I'm going to ask if you
have placed on your website a disclaimer that if you choose not to stay, after booking this time slot
then you must pay the girl anyway?
i hope you have done that or these kind of things will continue. I suspect.
If you have not done so. I'd say buyer and business person beware. SHIT HAPPENS!!
And let it be.
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have placed on your website a disclaimer that if you choose not to stay, after booking this time slot
then you must pay the girl anyway?
i hope you have done that or these kind of things will continue. I suspect.
If you have not done so. I'd say buyer and business person beware. SHIT HAPPENS!!
And let it be.
..........................QM'r
From our FAQ:
CAN I MEET SEVERAL GIRLS AND CHOOSE?
No, we don’t do lineups. The photos and videos are real, so please choose first. We are honest with you so please do not waste our time. If you are thinking about rejecting multiple girls and are looking to go on a hunt in person for the perfect lady, you will be banned. We do not operate that way, so if this is your style we are not for you.
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I'm not discussing issues with AF, so I'm not really sure what that has to do with this conversation. We are all debating what is right and wrong in a more generalized sense. The original topic is should the client be blacklisted or not by the agency when he refused her for looking similar to a relative of his.
if I read that right I can understand if a guy deliberately is looking for a perfect lady and goes
through several of the girls on your site turning each one down, then hell yah he should be banned.
That is just deliberate waste of time on your and the girls part for sure.
Would that same instance of a guy turning down a single girl apply also? I would hope not
under certain circumstances.
But in a special instance I'm sure there is room for exceptions. After all things are not perfect
in anyone's world. With some back and forth chit chat with the pooner in question you should
be able to come to an understanding I would hope.
Just my two cents worth man. Better to figure it out IMO than loose a customer because of
some unforeseen "feelings" he may have had at the door. And then both of you harbouring
ill will toward each other. That's bad business in my book.
If it were me I'd want to see what could be done to bring him back. But that's just my
way of handling business. If he says he's not discussing issues with AF for whatever
reason, and you tried to contact him then I would say the choice is yours whether to
ban him or not.
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through several of the girls on your site turning each one down, then hell yah he should be banned.
That is just deliberate waste of time on your and the girls part for sure.
Would that same instance of a guy turning down a single girl apply also? I would hope not
under certain circumstances.
But in a special instance I'm sure there is room for exceptions. After all things are not perfect
in anyone's world. With some back and forth chit chat with the pooner in question you should
be able to come to an understanding I would hope.
Just my two cents worth man. Better to figure it out IMO than loose a customer because of
some unforeseen "feelings" he may have had at the door. And then both of you harbouring
ill will toward each other. That's bad business in my book.
If it were me I'd want to see what could be done to bring him back. But that's just my
way of handling business. If he says he's not discussing issues with AF for whatever
reason, and you tried to contact him then I would say the choice is yours whether to
ban him or not.
......................QM'r
What people don't seem to understand is that when you book an appointment, that time is spoken for and there is no way for us to earn back what we lose when you decide you don't actually like what you see in person (for whatever reason you may have). Even when our photos in our ads are real, there is always that one client who decides to back out because "she looks like my sister" or "I thought she was white" when it clearly states she is a fair-skinned Latina... ?
The whole concept is that Im NOT the victim.
Search on youtube and listen to Podcast #27 - Everything In Your Life Is Your Fault.
Yeah unfortunately it does apply to a single girl these days. We blacklist immediately on reject. End of story. The same can be said for no-shows/ghosting.
It may sound harsh but I think we've worked pretty hard at our reputation. You're not going to get baited, and honestly there is usually many people asking for the same time slot... we would rather give that time to someone reliable. The girls also don't like being rejected or having their time wasted so it helps with both the bottom line, and moral. Generally the guys who walk or ghost their appointment, this is a repetitive behavior and it's just best to let them take their business elsewhere, so we've had pretty good success just nipping it in the bud.
That's a wild philosophy to go through life with, everything you experience is your fault. Things like genetic health conditions passed down from parents surely aren't the ill person's fault. That's not to say cause and effect isn't real, but not everything that is caused is avoidable or the fault of anyone.
That said, it's not cool to book a providers time just to go look at her face to see if you want to stay any more than it is to treat service industry workers crappy because they "chose" to work in that industry. That's kind of sadistic because you have a choice on whether to do that or not, yet instead you're saying you're going to do it and shouldn't be blamed because they chose their profession. That means you chose that outcome for them because the choice was actually yours.
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That's a pretty harsh policy. I just couldn't picture a scenario where I could go through the act with that last girl.
Sorry but I had to make a choice of throwing up multiple times or walking. Perhaps next time she could wear a full facial mask? I understand paperbags are environmentally friendly.
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Not sure that is the best analogy when I have actually gone to a restaurant and ordered a very expensive veggie burger and when I took one bite of it got a mouthful of beef.
By your analogy I should have eaten the burger they gave me or at least paid the full price of the burger rather than waste the Cook and Server's time.
I almost threw up as I have been a vegetarian for 20 years now.
So again using your analogy that because it is not my taste, I should take the blame. It is my fault.
If you call something "a car show model" or a "deluxe veggie burger" and it turns out to not be what has been advertised as the veritable product, although all the pictures and videos only reveal what appears to be a car show model and it turns out the burger is not a veggie burger, I am okay with paying a penalty of 20% for walking out.
But I am not so happy to need to pay 80% or 100% of the fee for walking when the advertisement was misleading or outright false or the start of the service was so awfully bad or actually was not what was agreed to by text.
Friday night I ended up having to give someone $120 to walk after 5 minutes of really bad "cold shower shrivelled penis" causing service.
Yea that's my fault that I took Viagra and the person killed a perfectly good erection and informed me she actually doesn't provide what the advertiser promoted on LEO.
Oh and at the restaurant where I had taken a group of five people to eat, they brought me the veggie burger 15 minutes after most everyone else finished their meals and I lost my appetite and trust of the cook and just left the veggie burger sit there.
But like the "nice chump I am" I paid when I should have sued.
You had one thing right. I didn't refuse to pay, but I completely felt that I was cheated.
Here is a better analogy. If you go to a mechanic and she tells you that she is going to tune-up your car and all she does is wipe your windshield with a dirty rag and checks your tire pressure, are you going to be happy paying her the $260 she wants?
Is it your fault that her interpretation of a tuneup is different from yours? You made the appointment with the mechanic thinking it was something it was not. Would you walk?
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