Noob had done it. Feeling very nervous and excited, also lots of I don't know what I am doing

[Professional_Task]

Finally cannot hold the brother below and went for the 1st in call with an agency. Got to the arranged apartment 10 mins early. But handler did not reply or give info for buzzer after 15mins... I was really thinking if I should just msg back and walk away as I am super nervous at the time. Thinking in my head I've only go 30mins and not sure what's going to happen. Got in to the elevator, walk to the suite and door opens. Anxious to see the girl behind the door. And I felt that she is a different girl from the pic totally. Aside from that she is still very attractive.

Shower was very brief but her hand are very soft on my brother. Thought I couldn't get hard because of all the mixed feelings but my dick were able to get hard after all. 3mins in the shower and we went on the bed. My head wasn't spinning correctly as we did some cuddling and touching. She isn't very vocal (We do have a language barrier) and I am not sure if I should compliment her skin and her boobs or tell her what I wanted. So we did the deed with some bbbj, couple of different positions (around 15mins). So we went shower again (about 3mins as well) and after she just dressed up and we hugged good bye.

As I left the door I only noticed that I should still have 7-8 mins on the clock and I was like... Oh man. LOL.

I don't think she did anything wrong or is it just my expectation that she should do a little bit more to service me? Or is it me that we didn't talk about what more do I want from that 30mins? I think that's mostly down to both me and the girl were a little shy and didn't ask what could she provide or she can provide more during my visit? Can I ask SP that if I can stay and say cuddle a bit more with LFK or touch her before the shower it there are a lot more time left? Or this is what it is suppose to be with 30mins durations?

I am not complaining, just need a little life pointer I'd guess. I am still happy in the end and SHE is pretty and sexy in her own way (just very off from the advised pic)

 

[Pornholio]

It'll get easier once you knew what you want. You can research different providers and figure out which ones are the take charge kind (ie Candy at xds) let her dictate for a session, then next one you can take turns who is in charge.

I know this isnt a review, so thank you for not posting in the review section (as it has zero details on who you saw and if menu was accurate etc)

Welcome to popping your Perb cherry

 

[Pornholio]

And I wouldn't nit pick about 6 or 7 minutes.
If you booked 45 and were done quick like in 30-35 minutes , many girls will cuddle and chat or offer massage etc.

 

[emacky]

Welcome to the club, some agencies they book their girls better so when you book 45 minutes they block off 45 minutes plus 5-10 minutes for the girl to clean up, catch their breath.

Others tend to overbook and your 45 minutes time includes the time the girl needs to clean up and prepare for the next John.

It's ok you'll find this hobby gives and takes. You'll meet some quality girls and some who just want you in and out.

 

[VanCityNewb]

Communication is key. Even if it's with the agency, they may not always relay it to the girl accurately, so it may be a good idea to say the same to her. Girls who aren't proficient in English are always a gamble, as far as I'm concerned. But there's no harm in pointing out that you aren't receiving what you paid for, either to her, or to the handlers after the fact. But that's a large part of why I prefer to deal with indies... Because they usually seem much more willing to address issues right away, in a respectful fashion, without having to jump through hoops. That said, splitting hairs over 7 minutes or whatever isn't usually a huge deal, as it can often be chalked up to time for showers, greetings, etc. At the end of the day, if you're not happy, it's not a huge loss, and there are enough options out there that you simply don't need to repeat. You can check out other fish in the sea, as there are plenty of girls out there who won't leave you feeling like you got short changed.

But also, this is why it can be beneficial to schedule a longer meeting, so that you don't have to count the minutes and hope that you get every minute's worth. It's nice to be able to sit back and relax and enjoy the entire experience. And with longer meetings, be sure to figure out if msog are on the menu, or if it's okay to fill the extra time with cuddling, massages, etc. Also... Check reviews! This way you'll have a better idea of what to expect. Not to say you haven't, but it's always a good idea.

 

[Professional_Task]

ya, thanks for the tips. I am again not against the girl nor the agency and I do felt that 30mins just wasn't enough. Was going to book 45-1hr but my timing doesn't allow me to stay longer this time. My fantasies with Jp providers on the 1st try might not be ideal situation. Haha

Maybe I will look for indie with more experience or well reviewed agency Girl. But I do know they need to book a head of time... my mind set are not yet able to predict if I wanted to see certain in next few days scenario. More like I wanna look for a girl tonight after work deal.

 

[vanperb]

Finally cannot hold the brother below and went for the 1st in call with an agency. Got to the arranged apartment 10 mins early. But handler did not reply or give info for buzzer after 15mins... I was really thinking if I should just msg back and walk away as I am super nervous at the time. Thinking in my head I've only go 30mins and not sure what's going to happen. Got in to the elevator, walk to the suite and door opens. Anxious to see the girl behind the door. And I felt that she is a different girl from the pic totally. Aside from that she is still very attractive.

You got your first one out of the way, and all things said, yeah it all sounds pretty standard. One or two more times to relax and just get used to the pattern and timing of things. If you need 45 - 60 minutes, make time for yourself. It's not a magical unicorn anymore. There's no rush. Start thinking of just enjoying the moment, instead of pounding one out.