Non Response

[Cock Throppled]

Okay, I'm still confused why an SP's ad appears on LL at a certain time, yet the SP doesn't respond to an immediate text, or later email. And voicemailbox is full.

Why bother with the ad if you don't respond to potential clients?

 

[jamasianman]

Don't worry about it. If she doesn't respond, she doesn't respond. Move on and find another lady. Don't get hung up one lady. There are many reasons why. Perhaps her ad is auto programmed to refresh itself and post every day at a certain time in general. Some ladies just leave one ad and are free all the time. Some ladies have something else to do or maybe a family emergency came up, doesn't remember to hide the ad for the day. Let's a say a friend scores two tickets to an awesome concert, they decide to go. Their first thought is not, oh I better hide my ad so that no one tries to book with me while I have the night off.

 

[Horndog14]

Some ads are prepaid before hand therefore are
published automatically at time intervals of your
choosing.

The more you buy the cheaper the ad costs per
ad maybe?

 

[grizzly]

Okay, I'm still confused why an SP's ad appears on LL at a certain time, yet the SP doesn't respond to an immediate text, or later email. And voicemailbox is full.

Why bother with the ad if you don't respond to potential clients?

Sometimes no response is a response. The reputable ladies I've talked to about this say if they find a text or email off putting or it doesn't include all the information they ask for, they simply don't respond as to not engage in a battery of texts which sometimes turns abusive. I've read some of these texts from rude potential clients and it's appalling at how they can communicate this way and expect an appointment. Another reason is the lady in question doesn't take her job seriously and is unprofessional. Consider yourself lucky if this is the case as you will probably be disappointed with her service.

 

[poonerboi]

Perhaps someone beat you to the punch, and she was getting ready for a guest.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Never said I was worried about it, just curious. And there was no response over the entire day. It was a polite enquiry to acknowledge her ad, and ask near where she was located.

I'm thinking more along the lines of unprofessional, so no worries about contacting her again.

 

[UhOh]

Could be the ad is to get the attention of only her regular clients

 

[felixthecat]

Never said I was worried about it, just curious. And there was no response over the entire day. It was a polite enquiry to acknowledge her ad, and ask near where she was located.

I'm thinking more along the lines of unprofessional, so no worries about contacting her again.

If you are feeling wronged, moving on is a good answer.
A compromise here is to wait a month or two before the next attempt. That way, you create a cost for her when she does not reply.

There are often good explanations for not replying texts. Some SPs don't reply after a set time - two hours/one hour/whatever, with the good argument they value the client's privacy.
Even if the ad is up, she may be busy or preparing for the next appointment, so she has to prioritize regulars and most sure bookings.

I have good results with first contacts, which I attribute to being up to the point. A booking request is way more likely to be answered than questions.
In your case, if your request were worded along the line "I am looking for a 1hr appointment today between 2 and 6pm if you are in downtown Vancouver", I feel an answer would be more likely. Asking about her incall whereabouts directly sounds rather unnecessary at this point.

It's harder to defend not answering her email. Obviously, SPs don't answer every email. It could be her sloppiness, or she didn't see it would lead to a likely booking soon, or she saw some red flags - and her impression can be wrong, of course.

 

[sevenofnine]

sometimes an sp is just so busy,

I remember asking a lady if she wanted a review she said no way,
her email box would be full,
you never really know to be honest, life happens,

things happen,
she could be on holidays,
and she purchased the ad for months or
just something came up and she left town,

if your a good client, ladies are usually polite enough to tell you
when there going on holidays or need a break,
but not so much if they don't know you,

 

[Equity Market investor]

I've Pm'd ladies myself and got no response at times. Not always but at times. Who knows why they don't respond back. I'm sure they have reasons. Now, if they have someone answering Pm's for them and don't respond then that is another story.

I would love it if a lady PM'd me on occasion lol. I love fantasy type of plays so...IE, " Hey, Consider this, I have this going on this month" Let me know if you are interested" -- Of course, I'm speaking on Perb. Can make your day

Have fun!

 

[Lady Companion]

There are a number of reasons why this could be the case. Just because a lady has an ad up, doesn't mean she is available right then and there. Many gentlemen book several days or even weeks out, so maintaining a constant presence is not a bad idea. Many websites offer the option of paying for auto posting or bumping in advance. It's a great time saving feature, but doesn't correlate well, or necessarily at all with immediate availability.

There are also programs that will do this for you, and the lady just needs to select the website, the advert and the time she wants it posted. It can all be set up a year in advance. With that type of model, a lady could be taking a month off and forget to deactivate it, in which case her voicemail would be full, and you wouldn't get a reply.
"
The most likely reason you aren't getting a response is because she has either blocked you, or have not written a sufficient message. Text messages that say "Hey", "Rates?", "Avail?", "$?" and the like are ignored by just about every lady. While I won't block someone for a once off useless and time wasting message, a number of ladies I know will. If you have ever sent her a similar message, you may very well be in the blocked list.

Common sense dictates that a message be written with a brief introduction, along with a brief explanation of what you are looking for. Spend 60 seconds to formulate a coherent couple of sentences if you would like a reply. Nobody has the time or desire to be stuck in a waterfall of monosyllabic pointless communication. I'm not suggesting that this is what you have done, but if you ever have, there is a distinct possibility she has no desire to be bothered by repeated useless and disruptive communication.

Always ensure that your initial communication contains the basics. "Hi, my name is John. I seen your ad on leolist, and was hoping to visit with you later today. Please let me know if you have 90 minutes to 2 hours available between 6 and 10 pm."

 

[ElsiDawson]

Re emails unanswered--due to the nature of this business, I get TONS of emails from new clients that land in the spam box because they hit some kind of keyword that gets them filtered out. I'll sometimes sift through the bin to see if there was anything there, but by the time I find those emails they usually get answered with "hey, sorry this email went to spam, if you're looking to book for another time..."

Also, there are piles of text messages each day. If you're asking about something straight out of my ad ("where are you located?"), I'm going to invest my time in another text that's a little more fleshed out: "Hello Elsi, saw your ad on Perb. I'm interested in booking an hour GFE session sometime Monday or Tuesday evening after six. My name is _____, ..."



I'm the only one who works at my business. I'm responsible for doing intake, scheduling, screening, changing the bins in the incall, running laundry, maintaining stock, wardrobe, makeup, power washing my twat and applying more motor oil, and seeing clients. Sometimes I won't be able to respond to your request within the hour, two, or even the same day. If you're serious about making a booking, I'd love to find a text message or an email with everything I'd need to know to make a booking without pulling teeth to get the information. I have at least three hundred reasons to reply to you, but you're up against stiff competition for my unpaid admin time.

/rant

Gold star, Elsi, for best euphemisms in that last sentence.

 

[Cock Throppled]

There are a number of reasons why this could be the case. Just because a lady has an ad up, doesn't mean she is available right then and there. Many gentlemen book several days or even weeks out, so maintaining a constant presence is not a bad idea. Many websites offer the option of paying for auto posting or bumping in advance. It's a great time saving feature, but doesn't correlate well, or necessarily at all with immediate availability.

There are also programs that will do this for you, and the lady just needs to select the website, the advert and the time she wants it posted. It can all be set up a year in advance. With that type of model, a lady could be taking a month off and forget to deactivate it, in which case her voicemail would be full, and you wouldn't get a reply.
"
The most likely reason you aren't getting a response is because she has either blocked you, or have not written a sufficient message. Text messages that say "Hey", "Rates?", "Avail?", "$?" and the like are ignored by just about every lady. While I won't block someone for a once off useless and time wasting message, a number of ladies I know will. If you have ever sent her a similar message, you may very well be in the blocked list.

Common sense dictates that a message be written with a brief introduction, along with a brief explanation of what you are looking for. Spend 60 seconds to formulate a coherent couple of sentences if you would like a reply. Nobody has the time or desire to be stuck in a waterfall of monosyllabic pointless communication. I'm not suggesting that this is what you have done, but if you ever have, there is a distinct possibility she has no desire to be bothered by repeated useless and disruptive communication.

Always ensure that your initial communication contains the basics. "Hi, my name is John. I seen your ad on leolist, and was hoping to visit with you later today. Please let me know if you have 90 minutes to 2 hours available between 6 and 10 pm."

I'm more literate than that. I finally reached her by phone and quickly found out she wasn't someone I'd want to see, anyway.

 

[Mr Quim]

I'm more literate than that. I finally reached her by phone and quickly found out she wasn't someone I'd want to see, anyway.

We know, You're more articulate, than that CT !

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?235877-CT-s-Guide-To-Being-a-Male-Escort

I actually thought, You had some inside Information, to avoid this type of Situation ? LOL

I guess, better luck, next Time...

Cheers

P.S. I still think, that's a hilarious Read !
You only forgot, a couple of Details .
The changing of the Bed, for the next Client .
And all the Laundry, of Sheets, and Towels ?
But, that's not very Funny ? LOL

 

[cktc9]

Well, sometimes a non-immediate response is a good thing

I had the recent experience of getting a very promp reply (within 2 minutes) to a just-posted ad, and thought "Wow, I like this response time, she's really on the ball!"
Then halfway through the session, her phone rings, and she stops cold and arranges to meet another client at a specified time, and then forwards the adress details...

So that's why the prompt response...

I had half a mind to call her 30 min into that guy's time and "thank you for the great session, and look forward to seeing you again real soon!", just as a juvenile response, to give the other guy back what he gave to me...
...didn't, though.

Was disapointed though.
Is it too much to ask that the phone is in another room?

 

[Lady Companion]

Well, sometimes a non-immediate response is a good thing

I had the recent experience of getting a very promp reply (within 2 minutes) to a just-posted ad, and thought "Wow, I like this response time, she's really on the ball!"
Then halfway through the session, her phone rings, and she stops cold and arranges to meet another client at a specified time, and then forwards the adress details...

So that's why the prompt response...

I had half a mind to call her 30 min into that guy's time and "thank you for the great session, and look forward to seeing you again real soon!", just as a juvenile response, to give the other guy back what he gave to me...
...didn't, though.

Was disapointed though.
Is it too much to ask that the phone is in another room?

I remember having a duo arranged with a well known high end lady. The gentleman was a regular of hers, so he was obviously ok with how she conducted business. She was literally in middle of a BJ, and stops to answer the phone, and make arrangements in half an hour. Full conversation about rates, what she will wear etc. I was really upset about the situation, but the guy just took it as here normal protocol. Then she tells him he has to hurry up because she has to leave soon, so she starts giving him a HJ while texting with the other hand! This was a higher end lady who charged upwards of $800 minimum for 2 hours.

So I agree.....a quick response is not necessarily a good thing.

Also CT - I hope you didn't take my initial response personally. In the last sentence of my fourth paragraph, I mention that I am not suggesting that you wrote a time wasting text....but it is easy to miss ;-)

Have an awesome week!

 

[Cock Throppled]

No prob. No offence taken.