No Sex
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A little over a year. Was getting over an extremely painful break up that put me into a pretty deep depression. Basically, this woman used me to get to another guy. I got through it with a lot of drugs and alcohol. But life is funny because after I got back in the game, I was beating women off with a stick, got so much ass the following summer. Just goes to show that everything comes out in the wash 
Ten years.The entire 1990s to be exact.Not sure how I made it through,exactly,especially with no internet.Just got used to going without.
In a relationship: 4 months. Not fun. Out of a relationship: 2 years. Ironically, not as bad, but boring as fuck, mixed with moments of anxiety of "Christ, when am I going to get laid next?"
Open relationship for a number of years but it really wasn't that open.
I had a GF for 10 years and it was golden for many years but the last year it was not so much fun. We both walked away without a word said about it.
Went back to SP's and it was a hit and miss situation for a while. Then I hit it off pretty well with one in particular.
BBB is a much happier man these days.
:nod:
I had a GF for 10 years and it was golden for many years but the last year it was not so much fun. We both walked away without a word said about it.
Went back to SP's and it was a hit and miss situation for a while. Then I hit it off pretty well with one in particular.
BBB is a much happier man these days.
:nod:
4 years, during the prime of my sexual life (22 to 26) - however, there was one blowjob sandwiched in there, but that doesn't count....
Ok so from what point in your life do you count from ..
If it is counted from when we were 18 or 19 years , then i went for my first, 32 yrs , never having a relationship or sex ..
Yes I am a master of masturbation
Then in the last 8 years it has been hit and miss with SP's .. some times 2 or 3 times a week with a favorite to once every few months
I am coming up on my anniversary in a month of the first time i had sex .. But I have another one too ,, of the first time i met one of the escorts that is now a good friend .. that is on the 13 on Sept ..
I know it is not the same as a relationship, with a SP but it is mostly what i had in the last 8 years .
If it is counted from when we were 18 or 19 years , then i went for my first, 32 yrs , never having a relationship or sex ..
Yes I am a master of masturbation
Then in the last 8 years it has been hit and miss with SP's .. some times 2 or 3 times a week with a favorite to once every few months
I am coming up on my anniversary in a month of the first time i had sex .. But I have another one too ,, of the first time i met one of the escorts that is now a good friend .. that is on the 13 on Sept ..
I know it is not the same as a relationship, with a SP but it is mostly what i had in the last 8 years .
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LADY-VIA
two years pretty much..... oh wait longer from 17 to 20 maybe two times..... then I have gone for many 3 to 4 month stints
16 yrs for me. From 36 to 52 y.o. Holding down two jobs while
battling depression can hammer the crap out of your sex drive
Most of my life, except two or three micros in the last ten years. Women don't drool over or approach guys like me.
So the question is how long have you gone without sex with a woman. Sex via masturbating alone with yourself, even while watching porn, does not count.
Apart from the first 3 decades of my life, the longest i've gone is perhaps a year. Thereafter during many years of married life, maybe a month. After that
around 3-6 months, because i'm content saving for trips to Siam where my dollars will go a lot farther, i.e. give me way more bang for the buck. And i'm
quite okay with masturbating alone for months. A few years ago i'd have made at least an occasional trip to the low track, or see an online escort, rather
than go so long without "sex" or physical intimacy with a female, but the desire & efforts for that show a pattern of consistent decline.
What a great thread. Very interesting seeing the different time frames for both males and females. Some numbers do seem very surprising to me but then again that is the human way we all live different lives and it is our own life. I have been trying to think over the years what the longest stretch has been for me and I am having a hard time remembering the length of time. I believe the longest for me is around six months... most of the time it is b/w one and two months with many spurts in between of either daily or every second day
Now if I look back when I was married, and how long it was in between well I don't think I can count that high lol, in all seriousness it was seven years with my ex-wife... Never made any sense to me but as some people have stated depression kicks the crap out of you and that is what she went through. I was amazed at how it ended up making me feel, I use to feel that I must not be good enough to please her hence turning to SP's. As I have matured I know that it was not me. It is unfortunate but her depression and how she was dealing with it, is what I believe brought the end of the relationship. Weird how in a period of four years at the beginning we were having sex daily and sometimes two or three times a day, and then wham nothing....
My suggestion for people who are currently in a relationship, and find yourselves going through a dry spell talk about with each other, one of you may be dealing with depression or some other situation. The quicker you talk about it the better chance I believe you have to hopefully rectify the situation.
To steal one of Mr. Green's lines.... Peace
Now if I look back when I was married, and how long it was in between well I don't think I can count that high lol, in all seriousness it was seven years with my ex-wife... Never made any sense to me but as some people have stated depression kicks the crap out of you and that is what she went through. I was amazed at how it ended up making me feel, I use to feel that I must not be good enough to please her hence turning to SP's. As I have matured I know that it was not me. It is unfortunate but her depression and how she was dealing with it, is what I believe brought the end of the relationship. Weird how in a period of four years at the beginning we were having sex daily and sometimes two or three times a day, and then wham nothing....
My suggestion for people who are currently in a relationship, and find yourselves going through a dry spell talk about with each other, one of you may be dealing with depression or some other situation. The quicker you talk about it the better chance I believe you have to hopefully rectify the situation.
To steal one of Mr. Green's lines.... Peace
My intention in starting this thread was that i was interested in knowing how long someone can go without sexual gratification but i wasn't sure if i would get any responses if i said that self-stimulation was also counted as "sex".
I ask this because after hobbying for a while, i have decided to semi-retire. Mostly because it's getting too expensive. Hopefully i can manage to go at least a couple of months without sex. Who knows i might do so well that i can become a priest. Lots of ladies that i have not yet visited but hopefully in the future. Any tips for controlling my lust?
I ask this because after hobbying for a while, i have decided to semi-retire. Mostly because it's getting too expensive. Hopefully i can manage to go at least a couple of months without sex. Who knows i might do so well that i can become a priest. Lots of ladies that i have not yet visited but hopefully in the future. Any tips for controlling my lust?
I was a virgin until my early 20's because of my shyness. So that's a really long time obviously. Nowadays I actually prefer jerking off to porn then to fuck an actual woman. Although I was fucking an older Mexican broad not too long ago but once I came I just wanted to get the fuck out of there. She was nice looking and a nice woman but I felt zero connection to her unless I was drinking.
