No men under 35 restriction

[Forthedevil]

Providers of all ages have ads that call out no men under 35. Possible reason...

1) They don't want to do it with an immature jerk?

2) General disgust with narcissistic personalities who are only interested in their own pleasure?

3) Can’t stand it when a guy screams “OH MOMMY” when he comes?

Should all SPs avoid the under 35 guys as a matter of course?

What do you think?

 

[Melody1]

Despite some SP posting this i've never had an issue when i did say i was under 35.

 

[Riza]

I have a strict rule, no one under 19 Funny enough I get many 19-22 year olds that come and see me.

I don't get into the mommy fetish thing, just wrong.

 

[lukom]

I think the 35 and under have that as a guideline, and they will usually appreciate it if you tell them up front, "Hi hun, I understand you won't see guys under 35, and so I want to be up front and honest with you that I'm 27 (for example). I'm not sure how set in stone your 35+ rule is, but I am respectful and will respect any boundaries you have."


Most SP's were happy to make an exception in my case. I'm 37 now and so I don't have to worry anymore, but when I was younger it made me that much more nervous when initiating contact with an SP.

 

[Relax10]

I think the 35 and under have that as a guideline, and they will usually appreciate it if you tell them up front, "Hi hun, I understand you won't see guys under 35, and so I want to be up front and honest with you that I'm 27 (for example). I'm not sure how set in stone your 35+ rule is, but I am respectful and will respect any boundaries you have."


Most SP's were happy to make an exception in my case. I'm 37 now and so I don't have to worry anymore, but when I was younger it made me that much more nervous when initiating contact with an SP.

+1, I was in this boat. And SP's I contacted respectfully and didn't send immature messages like "yo baby need screw now", would see me under 35. Heck I remember in the US we had a few SP's that had a under 40 rule .

3) Can’t stand it when a guy screams “OH MOMMY” when he comes?

This explains why Elsi pushes me off to her friends, she's heard of my orgasm catch phrase ound:

 

[GATSBY]

I have a strict rule, no one under 19 Funny enough I get many 19-22 year olds that come and see me.

I don't get into the mommy fetish thing, just wrong.

I get it

 

[blakealridge]

I don't allow white guys under 40 unless they give me a satisfying reason as to why I might have that restriction

 

[felixthecat]

I don't allow white guys under 40 unless they give me a satisfying reason as to why I might have that restriction

Good one. It's mildly offensive only white guys need to provide an explanation, but your body, etc.

One more reason not mentioned above: some young women say they don't want to accidentally run into acquaintances of the same age group.

 

[Riza]

One more reason not mentioned above: some young women say they don't want to accidentally run into acquaintances of the same age group.

Gave up on that a long time ago lol. Went to a wedding a few months ago, that was interesting and a little awkward, not for me but another attendee and someone in the bridal party. I know how to fake just meeting someone for the first time. But it was funny to see the bead of sweat running down someones forehead though.

 

[blakealridge]

Good one. It's mildly offensive only white guys need to provide an explanation, but your body, etc.

One more reason not mentioned above: some young women say they don't want to accidentally run into acquaintances of the same age group.

Hahah, it's everyone under 30. I just find white dudes to be that much more entitled than others. *shrug*

 

[lukom]

Hahah, it's everyone under 30. I just find white dudes to be that much more entitled than others. *shrug*

I very rarely come out of a session where I feel taken advantage of (i.e. SP misrepresenting her services, pics...etc) However, when I am do have a bad session I walk feeling more regret than anger or upset with the SP... I generally go in to a session with an open mind, and understanding that much of what is discussed prior to the session may still be YMMV, I don't rub into an SP's face by showing her text of what we agreed upon saying, "HEY YOU SAID YOU DO BBBJ, DFK, AND DATY!!!"... I try to go with the energy, make the most of it, not overstep any boundaries, and move on from there after the session. I may tell others my experience with said SP privately (when they inquire on her in 411), rather than post about it out in the open on here.... but I am curious though what are examples of how a hobbyist has acted entitled for a session?

 

[jamasianman]

I've seen and read a lot. Some of the younger guys think because they are young or have abs they can haggle with prices or make jokes about her paying him since he's not ugly and he is giving her a break by being such a stud.

Or you get stuffy guys who call sps prostitutes even though they don't like that term, or any other equivalent.

Or you got guys who think they can take meth and hump her for 59 minutes because you gotta get your money's worth. And you have to try to skip the shower part because its a waste of time, need those extra few minutes for the sex.

The restrictions are there because some people suck. Thry forget that sps are people and think that since they ar epaying them, they can do whatever they want.

 

[blakealridge]

I very rarely come out of a session where I feel taken advantage of (i.e. SP misrepresenting her services, pics...etc) However, when I am do have a bad session I walk feeling more regret than anger or upset with the SP... I generally go in to a session with an open mind, and understanding that much of what is discussed prior to the session may still be YMMV, I don't rub into an SP's face by showing her text of what we agreed upon saying, "HEY YOU SAID YOU DO BBBJ, DFK, AND DATY!!!"... I try to go with the energy, make the most of it, not overstep any boundaries, and move on from there after the session. I may tell others my experience with said SP privately (when they inquire on her in 411), rather than post about it out in the open on here.... but I am curious though what are examples of how a hobbyist has acted entitled for a session?

hobbyists and clients have:
1. expected PSE when I'm offering GFE
2. not listened when I've asked them to stop doing certain things, unless I stop the session completely (which kills the mood) and tell them off very seriously
3. sprung requests or needs on me last minute
4. asked for discounts or special treatment
5. not cleaned themselves properly
6. done things without asking
7. not followed instructions (leave donation on the bed before showering) which leaves me holding my pepper spray in case they plan to rob me
8. asked me for free social dates
9. been late and upset that I have already started the timer

I could go on
for
ev
er

 

[grizzly]

hobbyists and clients have:
1. expected PSE when I'm offering GFE
2. not listened when I've asked them to stop doing certain things, unless I stop the session completely (which kills the mood) and tell them off very seriously
3. sprung requests or needs on me last minute
4. asked for discounts or special treatment
5. not cleaned themselves properly
6. done things without asking
7. not followed instructions (leave donation on the bed before showering) which leaves me holding my pepper spray in case they plan to rob me
8. asked me for free social dates
9. been late and upset that I have already started the timer

I could go on
for
ev
er

This has nothing to do with age or race. All do respect, if you're in this position, you should refine your screening process.

 

[lukom]

hobbyists and clients have:
1. expected PSE when I'm offering GFE
2. not listened when I've asked them to stop doing certain things, unless I stop the session completely (which kills the mood) and tell them off very seriously
3. sprung requests or needs on me last minute
4. asked for discounts or special treatment
5. not cleaned themselves properly
6. done things without asking
7. not followed instructions (leave donation on the bed before showering) which leaves me holding my pepper spray in case they plan to rob me
8. asked me for free social dates
9. been late and upset that I have already started the timer

I could go on
for
ev
er

Yeah all that sounds like douchebag moves, though 4, 5,7, and 9 can be newbie mistakes also. I'm surprised more ethnics don't break these rules though. I'm half Iranian and I've always imagined Iranians being a pain in the ass in this industry lol

 

[jamasianman]

I think having the limit at 35 is more of a wide net. If a guy is 30-34 and he asks politely if that is okay, contacts her with full sentences she can surmise if he's mature enough for a visit. If the guy is 18-25, he is still a decade under the limit and he should probably not bother. It never hurts to ask but it always depends on how you ask as well. But younger guys do have this hotshot mentality. They don't do enough research beforehand and think they own the lady because they brought money.

I've always seen it as this way. If a guy has a negative view on women before he enters the hobby, he's going to have a bad time because he will treat women the same way. If a guy is respectful and doesn't come into the hobby with any qualms, there will be no problems.

 

[blakealridge]

Yeah all that sounds like douchebag moves, though 4, 5,7, and 9 can be newbie mistakes also. I'm surprised more ethnics don't break these rules though. I'm half Iranian and I've always imagined Iranians being a pain in the ass in this industry lol

Yeahhhh, not all noobs but some were.

This has nothing to do with age or race. All do respect, if you're in this position, you should refine your screening process.

First, most of these were from young white men. Secondly, none of this is in any way my fault as you’re implying by attacking my screening methods. It happens less now than it did when I was starting out / desperate. We have to put up with a lot of shit.

 

[lukom]

Yeahhhh, not all noobs but some were.

Yeah that's really awful how some guys can be that way. I'm sorry you've had to experience that.

 

[blakealridge]

Yeah that's really awful how some guys can be that way. I'm sorry you've had to experience that.

Thanks!
PSA: this is an appropriate response. Not “you should screen differently”. Please stop telling us how to do our job. Thank you.

 

[grizzly]

Yeahhhh, not all noobs but some were.


First, most of these were from young white men. Secondly, none of this is in any way my fault as you’re implying by attacking my screening methods. It happens less now than it did when I was starting out / desperate. We have to put up with a lot of shit.

I meant no disrespect, but as you pointed out these situations happen less now that you are more selective when choosing your clientele. Unfortunately there are douchebags in this hobby and you ladies have to protect yourselves from them, no matter how diar your financial situation is. I've heard plenty of horror stories from ladies I have visited and the common denominator is that the lady drops her guard out of desperation. I am not saying that it is ok for gentleman to act this way at all, it is deplorable. I am saying ultimately it is up to the lady to protect herself as much as possible. If that means having an age restriction, then it is her prerogative, for whatever reason.