Nicest Thing A Client Had Done For You (one for the ladies)

[Mr. J]

You know, this place has given me a lot of insight to the industry (and a few laughs along the way). It's also piqued my curiosity on many occasions. One thing that's come to mind is how a man goes above and beyond with how he treats a lady. So to any SP's that wish to give their two cents on the matter, here's the question: what is the nicest thing a client did for you that you think back on and it puts a smile on your face? By the way, if any fellows want to chime in and talk about some nice things they've done for a lady, by all means, go for it.

Your friend,
Mr. J

 

[ElsiDawson]

This question is out of bounds for SPs who haven't paid to reply to it. Brace your inbox, bud.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

There are many but if I had to choose, he would regularly take a shopping list of things I need, pick it up in the states, and bring it back to me. The same client also brought me bakery treats and custom cakes. He was actually very nice.:tickled_pink:

 

[Cami Parker]

Honestly, I prefer small kindnesses. Bringing flowers or a Favorite treat honestly goes a really long way. I have a client that always insists on being my first visit when I arrive in his city and he brings me fresh fruit, bottles of water, pastries and other small things to keep me comfortable during my stay in the city.

 

[haigum141]

There are many but if I had to choose, he would regularly take a shopping list of things I need, pick it up in the states, and bring it back to me. The same client also brought me bakery treats and custom cakes. He was actually very nice.:tickled_pink:

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

 

[ElsiDawson]

Interesting thread.. how the human mind works.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

Women only want one thing and it's ...

*shuffles*

kids and flowers.

 

[haigum141]

Women only want one thing and it's ...

*shuffles*

kids and flowers.

At the end of the day, everyone wants to be loved by those that care for them.

Sometimes men think they can buy that. The reality is that you can’t and some women are seriously so ruthless & empty that they will exploit that fact and actually will genuinely feel no guilt draining a man completely financially, emotionally simply because that man is unable to find someone who loves and cares for them.

And the sad truth is that alot of men who are “nice” don’t understand that.

Additionally, I understand while not all women will want kids or flowers, I think you are taking it a little too literally. When a man and woman mutually care for each other and agree to have children together, it is symbolic of their commitment to one another. It is not some material good that you buy because it will give you temporary happiness like a hand bag. The gift of flowers from a man to a woman he cherishes is not about the flowers, it represents the fact that he finds her so appealing that the flowers are representative for his thoughts of her. Of course the flowers will wilt and eventually die and don’t have much practical use but not all things need to be expressed like that. It’s not literal, the expression and those gifts are symbolic of love and adoration. A woman who genuinely cherishes her man will not be calculating about the cost of the flowers or the size of them or even care about any of those things in the first place but understand it for the gesture behind it.

 

[apl16]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

Hmmmmm.......I like doing nice things for people......but I never expect anything for it......a happy reaction is great but it doesn't bother me if it doesn't happen.

BTW, I love receiving flowers.......seeing them around the house for a week or so makes me feel good.......but I have wonderful roses ..... coming home from a shitty day a work and walking in the door to the scent makes me immediately happy!

 

[happycanuck99]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

I find this unbelievably cynical and sad. Frankly, it's not the kind of world I want to live in. I'm not disputing its truth, but at the same time I don't believe it's true of nearly everyone.

I was actually very excited to see this thread. I'm always looking for good ideas along this line. I LOVE to do nice things for the ladies I see, including gifting them as I'm able (and no, I don't mean a tip). It may not mean anything to all of them, but I know it has meant quite a bit to some of them. And the second group is the one I'm interested in. I believe I've been rewarded for it as well. Whether or not it has brought "authentic intimacy" may be up for debate, but I'd argue the meaning of that phrase could also be debated: I believe it means different things to different people.

Yes, perhaps I'm the one being taken advantage of occasionally, but overall I feel like it's a better way to live.

Please keep the ideas coming! I'm not particularly creative, and flowers/wine/chocolate sometimes feel a bit mundane.

 

[haigum141]

I find this unbelievably cynical and sad. Frankly, it's not the kind of world I want to live in. I'm not disputing its truth, but at the same time I don't believe it's true of nearly everyone.

I was actually very excited to see this thread. I'm always looking for good ideas along this line. I LOVE to do nice things for the ladies I see, including gifting them as I'm able (and no, I don't mean a tip). It may not mean anything to all of them, but I know it has meant quite a bit to some of them. And the second group is the one I'm interested in. I believe I've been rewarded for it as well. Whether or not it has brought "authentic intimacy" may be up for debate, but I'd argue the meaning of that phrase could also be debated: I believe it means different things to different people.

Yes, perhaps I'm the one being taken advantage of occasionally, but overall I feel like it's a better way to live.

Please keep the ideas coming! I'm not particularly creative, and flowers/wine/chocolate sometimes feel a bit mundane.

Sometimes not knowing is better than knowing. The truth ultimately is the truth. Whether that is accepted or not is an individual choice.

There are no new truths. Deep down, more than likely, the possibility of these things are already known but because they surface feelings of inadequacy or negative emotions, it seems that it's best to simply suppress them instead.

Acknowledging those truths based on real observation and real results and outcomes are the things that make us free and at peace internally. The continuous suppression of reality is what creates internal conflict.

 

[oktrythis]

Nicest thing I do. Repeat business.

 

[haigum141]

I am super happy to hear about your freedom and inner peace oh Great Awoken One However this world takes all different kinds of people, including those horrible happy/nice people you speak of. I am sure there is a huge line up of people that much prefer your outlook on life, however it seems to me this thread was started with the intention of nice/happy thoughts and therefore clearly not your style, so perhaps go help awaken people on a different thread?

Hi Katey. I haven’t been rude or sarcastic to anyone. You disagree with me, that’s fine. What’s not fine is being sarcastic or rude and telling someone to get out of a thread because you disagree with them.

The lounge, as the description states is: “Open discussion area for all”

Where

“3. Differing points of view are welcomed as long as everyone acts with the appropriate respect and decorum. Yes, tempers may be raised but remember to act like responsible adults.”

And

“15. All threads are public. You can't control who may post in them. Please do not try.”

So I am confused why you feel you have the authority to suggest where i should or should not post in an area designated for open discussion. If you feel strongly against what I said and find it to not have any merit whatsoever, please PM me and I’d be happy to speak with you about our differences. Hope you’re doing well.

 

[lukom]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

I'm not sure what type of experiences you've had with SP's, many are just a business transaction for pleasure, but that doesn't mean that there's nothing meaningful out of it. This thread is intended for SP's on what the nicest thing someone has done for them is, so let's avoid highjacking it from them. Not sure what you do for work, but wouldn't you appreciate it if a customer or client does something nice for you? Something to think about. There are a couple of SP's I've developed friendships with. There has even been one gal who retired and came up to greet me once when we happened to both be shopping at the same place. Similarly I've made friendships with customers as well in my job. Yes, there are some disingenuous girl who are in it for the money and are going through great lengths to hide how unstable they are, but all of these women are working a centuries old profession, and outside of this profession they are humans who appreciate nice things. Just as you and I may appreciate the odd nice thing from customers or people we work with.

 

[theimp]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

Wow. I could not disagree more. Maybe I have been blessed. My experiences have been, quite the opposite, in both civilian life and these professional adventures. I believe in karma, not as a mystical force, but rather a logical consequence of ones actions. I love to please and pamper, and enjoy giving gifts (frequently homemade). My opinion is if one is giving gifts with an expectation of reciprocation, one is doing it wrong. I like to give because the act of giving makes me feel good, not because I expect a return on my "investment". I have found the ladies I have seen to be delightful, very accommodating, extremely generous, with their time, willing, wanton and wonderful. Granted, I have only been doing this for tenish years, and I am careful in my vetting process, but I can count, on one finger, the bad experiences I have had and even that was ok, we just didn't click.
You get what you give, gentlemen. No truer words were ever spoken.

 

[grizzly]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

First of all , nice hijack. This thread wasn't about what YOU think about women, which I find incredibly insensitive. The thread was simply "the nicest thing a client has done for you." When I offer a lady something extra, I never expect extra in return. It's because I like and appreciate the person. I suggest not painting all people with the same brush. There are ladies out there who just appreciate the gesture and don't assume they can take advantage.

 

[luvsdaty]

Interesting thread.. I’ll chime in as the OP requested but not about nice things. About how the human mind works. For me I simply poon for pleasure and enjoyment/variety. No amount of “nice things” you do for an sp will give you authentic intimacy. As long as she requires you to pay, you are paying. Remember that.

Nice gets you no where with women unfortunately fellas. In reality, the nicer and more caring you are towards a female the more they feel entitled to that type of treatment and treating you like an absolute nobody. Yes of course they enjoy free shit but the cock that they end up dieing to suck is not the one that is nicest to them. Nice guys are the easiest to manipulate unfortunately.

The #1 complaint of married men is lack of sex from their partner. But those women have been given everything, a marriage, maybe kids, a ring, gifts, dinners, flowers, you name it. Think about it for a second and then think about how that woman REALLY sees you versus what she says about how “very nice” you are.

Wow, talk about painting a picture not with broad strokes but with a howitzer. It's such a cynical way to look at life.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Wow. I could not disagree more. Maybe I have been blessed. My experiences have been, quite the opposite, in both civilian life and these professional adventures. I believe in karma, not as a mystical force, but rather a logical consequence of ones actions. I love to please and pamper, and enjoy giving gifts (frequently homemade). My opinion is if one is giving gifts with an expectation of reciprocation, one is doing it wrong. I like to give because the act of giving makes me feel good, not because I expect a return on my "investment". I have found the ladies I have seen to be delightful, very accommodating, extremely generous, with their time, willing, wanton and wonderful. Granted, I have only been doing this for tenish years, and I am careful in my vetting process, but I can count, on one finger, the bad experiences I have had and even that was ok, we just didn't click.
You get what you give, gentlemen. No truer words were ever spoken.

That is very mature of you. A lot of men expect to be "thanked properly".

 

[Lady Vanessa]

I find when you are kind and generous to others (generosity found in many forms), others will return the gestures.
I am fortunate to have many clientele who have given gifts and written sentiments over the years, without expecting things in return.
Some of the most thoughtful are....I was laid motionless in bed for 5 days after straining my back muscles and a gentleman brought me a care package, which included heat and ice packs. SAVIOR!
One knows how much I love my k9 and he bought him a life jacket, so he can be safe while kayaking with me. That deserved special rewards!
Netflix, the gift that keeps on giving. My Kamloops favey let's me binge watch via his account and now he can see how corny I really am, with the garbage I watch!!
Being my own personal "Uber" when I arrive on tour. HUGE help.
I am offered a credit card for emergency spenditures, because I tend to suck at adulting sometimes. However, I haven't accepted this gesture. He still bails me out of jams when needed. And sends etransfers, just because it's Tuesday type of thing.

I am grateful and blessed for each and every kind soul, who treats me with love and respect. Thank You!

 

[PierreCoeur]

The truth is that I have only once brought a lady that I booked in the last ten years a gift. It was some hand crafted costume jewelry. She barely said thank you, so it was the only time I ever did that. Likely she didn't have the same tastes as I had.

Of the "ladies of Perb" there is only one that I think would appreciate a gift that would reflect my aesthetics and artistic eye.

I think she is a rarity of good tastes, values, appreciation and kindness and likely would look upon all gifts without judgement.

Others I think enjoy more expensive things like designer jewelry, clothes, shoes and bags.

 

[rik]

Interesting thread. It makes me wonder "why do I always give a tip?" It's not because I expect future benefits, no more than I would expect better food or service after tipping at a restaurant. With sp's, whether the session was fanfuckingtastic or just average, I tip. Because it makes me feel good about myself, and it's quicker, easier, and more tangible than trying to verbalize "that was an amazing time we just spent together and I appreciate it."