Nice surprise

[Blowy82]

A few months ago I ran into a sp I use to see on a weekly schedule. So we had got to talking and next thing I know we are heading to her place. We had the same fun we use to for the most part. A few different things that was off the table before suddenly were a go. This turned out to not be a business visit as I thought it was. I haven’t seen her advertising on the regular sites. I can’t find any of her ads. A friendship has formed and possibly more. Don’t know how to approach this. Any advice would be great

 

[lukom]

Years ago it seemed like an SP and I were gradually starting a relationship. Shes stopped charging me for sessions and refusing to take money from me. We even took a trip together and both got tested to do real b/f & g/f stuff together before going on our trip together. It looked promising, when we got back she ghosted me, never advertised ever again and wasn't sure what possibly happened. I hope she's well, but not much I can say here other than keep it cool, try and see if she's on the same page as you and go from there.

 

[Miss Hunter]

Communicate with her. Be honest.

 

[Blowy82]

Thanks for the ideas and feed back. There really isn’t much out there for information on how to emotionally deal with dating someone that must be physical with other people. I’ve now since seen that there are 2 sides to her. Who she is and how she conducts herself while working and how it is when she’s just herself. It’s reassuring that I can see the difference as I know There’s a side she’s giving me what no one else gets. Which makes a relationship more personal. This would be a whole lot easier had society’s beliefs been just a little different. And advice helps. Or experiences. Thanks.