Newbie Screening question and if I should use a burner phone?

azzkikkrr

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Hi everyone,

This is my first post. I've spent hours surfing through the loads of information on here.

I have a couple of questions that I couldn't really find answers to...

1) What is involved with the screening process? I've never visited a SP before. Does the screening involve requiring personal information? I obviously would want to keep my information private and discreet.

2) Should I get a burner phone so that my real phone number is not saved and I don't receive a text at some odd hour/ after a few days when I am with my SO.

I already know who I would like to visit from various posts in the forum and about who would make me feel the most comfortable for a first visit.

Also if i made a mistake posting in the wrong section/area or anything is inappropriate, apologies. I will learn as we go alone :)

Thank you.
 

all night long

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Screening processes vary by individual. Only provide as much detail as you are comfortable with.

Yes get a burner phone. A cheap phone and SIM card from 7 eleven have served my purposes for years. Remember to delete all call history, texts and other info after every use if s/o finding phone is a concern.
 

azzkikkrr

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Thank you all for the tips! I'll get a burner phone. I hope I am not too nervous and chicken out at the last minute (before making initial contact) :)
 

Gweilo

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Hi everyone,

This is my first post. I've spent hours surfing through the loads of information on here.

I have a couple of questions that I couldn't really find answers to...

1) What is involved with the screening process? I've never visited a SP before. Does the screening involve requiring personal information? I obviously would want to keep my information private and discreet.

2) Should I get a burner phone so that my real phone number is not saved and I don't receive a text at some odd hour/ after a few days when I am with my SO.

I already know who I would like to visit from various posts in the forum and about who would make me feel the most comfortable for a first visit.

Also if i made a mistake posting in the wrong section/area or anything is inappropriate, apologies. I will learn as we go alone :)

Thank you.
get your SO to come for the fun
 
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saltywetguy

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Yes, a cheap burner phone with a pre-paid sim is the way to go. A lot of girls don't like getting calls or text from texting apps and will ignore them.
That being said, you can always get a texting app on your burner phone just in case as well, since those are free as a back up feature or something.
 

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Some SPs accept other methods of communication.

For example, you can contact us via Snapchat. That's as anonymous and secure as it gets.
 

Foggy

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Try following a few SPs on twitter and you’ll get a sense of what they are looking for. Typically they just want to make sure you’re clean and not going to be abusive towards them. Those that are really picky may ask for a reference from another provider (something you won’t be able to offer), or maybe a deposit (ONLY do this for a reputable SP, which you may have discovered how to spot by now).

Best way is to tell them you’re a first timer and be as open and honest as you feel comfortable and they’ll usually find ways to accommodate your situation. Most providers need nothing from you. Typically the elite escorts ask for more info to help ensure their safety. If you don’t feel comfortable, move on to option #2. Lots of fish in the sea.

Edit: I don’t use a burner, but have a fingerprint lock. I also don’t piss people off, so I’m not worried about someone trying to ruin me. Play nice in the world and you have fewer enemies. For full protection from a SO, definitely go with a burner though. You can get text only plans very cheap and then just shut off the phone when not on the prowl.
 

dickiedick50

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For full protection from a SO, definitely go with a burner though. You can get text only plans very cheap and then just shut off the phone when not on the prowl.
You might want to have a voice plan on the burner phone as well. Some SPs, especially on a first visit, want to talk to you first so that they can get a sense of who you are by voice. I also see one lady that will take appointments by text, but she does not check her phone all that often. To get ahold of her and book say in the next hour or two, the only guarantee is voice call. I think that her work phone is forwarded to her personal phone for voice calls. After having been in the hobby, sometimes when you are horny and those balls need draining, you don't want to wait for 6 hours to confirm an appointment.

If you have a SO, the one issue is where do you keep the burner phone? If they find the burner phone there will be lots of questions as to why you have a second phone. Lots of peoples jobs mandate using a company phone so if you have a job where that is a possiblity, then that would be the best excuse. However, if you don't have that kind of job, where do you keep that phone? Had mine in the tire well of my vehicle which seemed the safest place.
 

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Thanks for the tips! Took @fudjikle 's advice with the text app and it works! And as @foggy said, lots of fish in the sea. If 1st option doesn't work, move to option #2. Better to be safe than have a phone fly off the tire well :nono:
I also like Asian Fever's method of communication. Definitely going to try soon.
 

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Yeah burner phone is the way to go. There was one sp that sent mass message to solicit for business. No need to worry about that kind of things with a burner phone.

With a text/voice app, it is no good if your SO finds out that on your either.
 

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Yeah burner phone is the way to go. There was one sp that sent mass message to solicit for business. No need to worry about that kind of things with a burner phone.

With a text/voice app, it is no good if your SO finds out that on your either.
If your SO finds it you can always claim you cook crack and go by the name of Walter Hiezenberg!
 

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Screening processes vary by individual. Only provide as much detail as you are comfortable with.

Yes get a burner phone. A cheap phone and SIM card from 7 eleven have served my purposes for years. Remember to delete all call history, texts and other info after every use if s/o finding phone is a concern.
Agree 100% get a burner phone. The 711 phones airtime can be bought for fairly cheap. Good for texting. Just pay cash when you buy minutes. In this day and age all these tech companies like Instagram, Facebook, Twitter are all mining data. Those apps will search for email addresses and phone numbers on your smart phone. They then start connections between the people associated with those numbers or emails. Next thing you know you’re getting friend suggestions recommending a SP as a friend.
 

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Burner phones are important in this day and age. A reputable SP today may not be reputable tomorrow, so keep things at a first name basis and don't do etransfer where you first and last name may become fully known. Just don't use anything to offer much info about yourself. I have comes across the personal pages of certain SP's on facebook , mostly ones that I have never (and would likely never) see. , and I blocked them so that they can't find me. Lasst thing you need is an SP creeping your social media and knowing where you work, who are you seeing/married to, or the announcement of your first kid's birth..etc

You don't have to see the SP's who require such screening. Plenty of reputable gals who don't require that. A level of trust is made when two strangers meet at the other stranger's place of business. Both parties are taking a risk. I don't need to know an SP's information on wherever else she works, her family life, or her actual full legal name. Similarly an SP doesn't need to know any of that about me either.
 

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Burner phones are important in this day and age. A reputable SP today may not be reputable tomorrow, so keep things at a first name basis and don't do etransfer where you first and last name may become fully known. Just don't use anything to offer much info about yourself. I have comes across the personal pages of certain SP's on facebook , mostly ones that I have never (and would likely never) see. , and I blocked them so that they can't find me. Lasst thing you need is an SP creeping your social media and knowing where you work, who are you seeing/married to, or the announcement of your first kid's birth..etc

You don't have to see the SP's who require such screening. Plenty of reputable gals who don't require that. A level of trust is made when two strangers meet at the other stranger's place of business. Both parties are taking a risk. I don't need to know an SP's information on wherever else she works, her family life, or her actual full legal name. Similarly an SP doesn't need to know any of that about me either.
That’s what so many don’t understand

Yes, they are reputable TODAY. Can they guarantee me they will never lose their phone, get hacked, fall in with the wrong crowd, have a pimp down the road that has access to all their media?

To give an SP your personal info is to trust her with it FOREVER. Could be 5 years down the road when a screenshot of a booking or a record of an eTransfer comes to light with a very seedy individual on the other end. Stuff like this can ruin your life, long, long into the future

I’m all for giving a PERB handle, or providing a reference from another SP, or some sort of anonymous deposit so you can be sure I’m not a flake? But personal info? No way.... I’ll find someone else
 

saltywetguy

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Thanks for the tips! Took @fudjikle 's advice with the text app and it works! And as @foggy said, lots of fish in the sea. If 1st option doesn't work, move to option #2. Better to be safe than have a phone fly off the tire well :nono:
I also like Asian Fever's method of communication. Definitely going to try soon.
This is how I do things because the better/higher end independent SP's and/or their handler DO NOT accept texting apps. If you read my post #7, I use both a texting app and a burner phone with a pre-paid sim card. Here's an example, I use the free call/texting app to scout out ladies I want to try and see what time slots are available. After I get to the top 3 choices, I use the burner phone to make the appointment.

Why? Because if you use your burner phone for making the appointment, you become known to the sp/handler after a few test drives of the girls they provide. I was using a shop for a while and for some reason, on my 10th visit or 11th, they gave me a discount without me asking, they know i'm a regular of their shop! Another reason is, the texting apps telephone numbers expire after not using it for a month.

In fact, I am a regular of a few shops and they text me whenever they have new cars for test drives. Especially nowadays when the season is a bit on the low end, it's not a busy season. I don't give any info away, I just tell them i'm interested in booking ABC or XYZ and if they are available, or what the best time is for me to bonk them.

TLDR: Use both call/texting app to scout for the girl of your choice & use the pre-paid sim on the burner phone to make bookings. I use the regular apps such as WhatsApp/WeChat, etc to review the girls info/pix too, they all use the same number as my pre-paid sim. Independent SP's and/or their handlers know me by that number and nothing else.
 

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I am pretty new to this as well. A while back, I was rejected by a sp due to lack of references. I really don't like the idea of having to show id, or e-transfer a deposit.

I kinda still want to see her though, so I am thinking of asking if she would accept $50 or something for a short meet and greet instead of references, and she can decide for herself if she wants to see me for a session.

What do you guys think of this idea? Anyone ever done this before?
 

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I am pretty new to this as well. A while back, I was rejected by a sp due to lack of references. I really don't like the idea of having to show id, or e-transfer a deposit.

I kinda still want to see her though, so I am thinking of asking if she would accept $50 or something for a short meet and greet instead of references, and she can decide for herself if she wants to see me for a session.

What do you guys think of this idea? Anyone ever done this before?
Come over here, we can give you a reference. Might as well make it worthwhile. ;)
 

all night long

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I doubt $50 is going to change this requirement as anybody can put on an act in public and be a different person in private. To me it also comes off as a bit desperate which may be a red flag to a provider.

If you have any reviews maybe point those out to the lady in question. I would rather they knew my screen name then any personal details, though some may have had negative experiences with Perb Reviews before so that may not help you out either.

If you acknowledge your recognition of her concerns and point out that you don’t know her either and restate your interest in a respectful way while being clear you can’t provide a reference maybe she will change her mind. Or she might block you.

Good luck, I hope you get to see the lady you want to see. But if you don’t remember there are other options that will soon catch your attention.
 
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