Newbie Question(s) ....

[Andy S]

Please bear with me for some naive questions...

- Typically, how truthful are the "donations"? should I expect at the "heat of the moment" to be "talked up" for more ?
- Security - Should I expect to deal with her "security team/guard" for the transaction?
- Security - carrying around a wade of cash like that invites a setup or whack over the head? any tricks ? obviously screening the reviews on here is one....
- Is a appointment immediate? or do you contact and arrange something for like "next weekend" ?
- STDs ... for some reason, I assume younger SP = more likely to BS about it, any tips ?

Thanks A-S

 

[all night long]

I'm not the most active member here so others may have different advice

-Donations are usually the minimum for services. There are times when there are upsells and certain requests may also carry higher fees. Most providers I have dealt with have not looked for more than advertised. As in any service industry position, tipping is a good idea - especially if you plan to repeat with the provider. The good ones remember and it can improve future experiences.
-Have never had to deal with a security team - would probably just walk - an advantage of incall appointments is that the provider is probably not going to make a big scene to prevent your departure.
-Never thought of 300-500 as a wad of cash. Don't walk down the street waving $20 bills in your hand. Get larger bills to reduce the bulk. I usually use a bank deposit envelope or even a regular envelope to put donation in. Don't bring huge amounts of extra money unless you have a plan to request additional services. I don't carry my wallet, just 1 piece of id and the donation in one pocket and my tip or request money in another. Or get a seperate billfold for these times.
-You can make advance appointments with some providers. Most of the LL/BP ads are more of a later today or tomorrow set up in my experience.
-Use common sense and experience. If things don't look or feel right it might be best to walk away. A couple of hundred bucks is a small inconvenience but an STD is a tatally different matter (in my opinion).

Have realistic expectations. Some experiences will be great, others not so, some will be bad. Use your intelligence and common sense to avoid the latter as much as possible, I don't know if it (the bad) can be totally avoided but it can be limited.
Share your experiences both good and bad with the rest of us.

Good luck, happy pooning.
ANL

 

[frost60]

for your first, try some well reviewed providers, don't go fishing in the sea for a gem which is my advice. I'm still a newbie as well, until your comfortable to step out and play the game, stick with whats good.