I'm, uh, not real sexually experienced, and I want to visit a lady in Vancouver to help give me some confidnece that I'll know what I'm doing when I'm not paying for it. Are escorts going to be weirded out by a guy in his 20s that's only had sex once, or will they help me out and take the lead if I ask them to?
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guyincognito said:
dude, theres nothing special about getting sium luving.
my suggestion.
do a search for several sps.. one that fits your criteria for hot sex.
next, go to your local adult store and rent several vhs ( unless u aint a bum like me, and got a dvd player! ).. watch hardcore, unedited, porn for several hours .. pay attention specially to the pumping motion done by the dudes, you will be expected to do the same to the sp... also listen to the moans , so you know , how to moan when you are dishing out $$$$ outta your wallet for hot sex....
finally, when your balls turns blue... go and make that call from the pay phone. you are done!
this is the easy way out and will remain the easy way out for the rest of your life ... rather than concentrating on women solely as sexual objects for your selfish gratifications, why not look at them as human beings and get to know a few ... you would be surprised how nice many of them can be ... and how happy they are to help you with your current inexperience.guyincognito said:
wait until you are 40, bitter, angry and sexually frustrated before going to the pros ... you will appreciate it much more than you will now.
and watching porn to learn about sex is like watching daytona to learn how to drive ... fast and boring!
if you never connect with another human being on an intimate level you're going to be more fucked up than most of us! is this what you want for your future?
go out and meet women, go on dates, learn to deal with the rejection in a mature and positive manner and then if you turn out to be a 40 year old loser you can join us here again ...
have a nice life.
LG
Hehe, I'm not that far gone yet. I manage to meet a fair number of women and I'm pretty good at chatting 'em up. Thing is, I have basically no confidence in the bedroom, so I avoid it...I mean what kind of male makes excuses to not have sex when the girl he's dating is begging for it. I dunno, it's just psychological, so I'm thinking that if I can see an escort and basically just be a sexually naive gentleman, it might help me.LonelyGhost said:
Hello guyincognito!guyincognito said:
This is where a sex surrogate can come in handy. I'm actually having a conversation with a doctor in the US who is kind of a Mr. Boss Man Big in surrogacy in the US. In Canada, it's not as accessible... but it looks like I could be working towards becoming one. Lots of training involved, but oh, so worth it.
Ask around, have conversations with some local gals. See if there are any you develop a nice rapport with and be very up front with what you are looking for. You'll need someone who is open, honest, compassionate and willing to teach. You already sound like you're open to listening, but do make sure you're mentally prepared to hear anything you could be told; it's difficult sometimes to hear that maybe something you're doing could be improved, especially when it comes to something as personal as sex. The right woman will make sure it's done in a very supportive way.
Do realize, however, that it won't be done in one session; learning, prefecting and working through issues/hang ups can be a long process, and if done properly, you might not even have sex the first time you meet the right woman to teach you. I know that seems counter-productive... but honestly, if you *really* want to learn, sometimes you have to remove intercourse from the equation. At least at the beginning.
I wish I had suggestions of someone to see in Vancouver, but I don't personally know anyone, nor are there any members of any surrogacy networks that I have seen in the area. Maybe they are just hiding
At any rate, if you want to talk, feel free to PM me.
Hey buddy...Anne took the words right out of my mouth. I was going to also suggest to start conversations with ladies because if they will give the time in a conversation, you know they will when you pay them for their time. If a lady won't bother with you here, she will probably make you feel rushed in the room as well. Maybe not but almost guaranteed the ones who won't brush you off here, won't brush you off in the room.SoftHandsAnne said:
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When I first read this post earlier today I was going to suggest VV as a cruel joke. But in "hind" site I don't think he could go far wrong.Very Veronica said:
hmmmmm.... VV ..... I had seen her barking many times .... but I don't think she would bite ..... unless you would ask for it
some people do like to play with a dynamite... and as for me .... incense gives me a headachereddog said:
