I’m going to start off with I’m sorry I’ve never hired an escort before and I don’t know where to start. I don’t know anyone that’s into the hobby so I don’t have a mentor lol. I’m a quiet person and kinda nervous most of the time. Is there anywhere I can go to get a massage with a happy ending or should I hire an escort off this website? Thanks for any input
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I’ve been in the hobby for a long time now but I still remember how hard it is to get started. I started out by going to the massage places and would recommend it to anyone starting out...especially today with all the fake ads and scary stories of getting robbed etc. The place I started isn’t around anymore but the 2nd place I went was time out/Executive Bath on Ellice ave. I haven’t been there for years but still hear some good things and is a good place to get started. There is also Diamonds which sounds like a good option with pretty good reviews but I personally haven’t been. By going to these places you know it’s safe and you will have a choice between different types of ladies depending on what your looking for. I also asked a bunch of questions and got lucky early on by finding some great girls that were willing to give some good info. IMO the best way to get started. Other than that I’d just suggest reading lots of reviews and definitely sticking with well reviewed ladies from guys who’ve been on here for a long time and that maybe you share the same taste in ladies.
Good luck
FYI you probably do know some people who are already in the hobby...
Good luck
FYI you probably do know some people who are already in the hobby...
Thank you for your input. I’m nervous about the legality of it. I would loose a lot if something happened.Do you think an escort would take the time of day to explain it to a newbie like me haha. Also I’m concerned about catching something, I assume all girls use protection and have safe practices? I’m-worried about a possible break then bring something home lol
Stick to women who advertise here, or at least women who have a number of reviews on the site along with things like a website or an active twitter account. The women who are more serious about their business in general are also the ones who provide better, safer, more discreet services so that should alleviate most of your concerns. Be a good client and follow any instructions the woman you want to see has about contact/booking an appointment/screening so that you make things easier for everyone and set a good tone for the appointment. You can ask providers some questions but try to find answers elsewhere first because sending emails/texts with a bunch of questions is a great way to get yourself labelled as a time waster.
A couple other points as you sound like a married man?
If you decide to take that big step, get a burner phone, never bring it home, hide it well. Have a separate bank account from your significant other, never use a charge card for any hobby activities, always use cash even if you book a hotel.
Get tested regularly
Don’t bring your guilt home, your significant other will get suspicious.
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1) Legality - it's still not legal. But it's also not being enforced.
2) No escort will take the time to explain this to you
3) Catching something? STD is the least of your problems. COVID is your enemy right now.
4) You sound married. If you're not happy, that's probably your #1 priority right now. You can't beat your way out of an unhappy home. If you get COVID and bring it home, think, is that a risk you're willing to take? The answer is entirely up to you.
2) No escort will take the time to explain this to you
3) Catching something? STD is the least of your problems. COVID is your enemy right now.
4) You sound married. If you're not happy, that's probably your #1 priority right now. You can't beat your way out of an unhappy home. If you get COVID and bring it home, think, is that a risk you're willing to take? The answer is entirely up to you.
204man,
1) It is indeed still illegal to purchase sex, being under the Nordic Model. However like mentioned previously, it's not being enforced. If you are still worried about cops, I would suggest seing only reputable providers (reviews, active online presence like Twitter and Instagram and a website). Law enforcement wouldn't put that much effort into arresting clients.
2) In terms of massage vs escort, it's quite a different experience, but both can be very enjoyable! It all depends what kind of services you want, what you are willing to do and what you are comfortable doing. Maybe newbies start with a massage and happy ending and work their way to seeing a full service provider.
3) There is this myth (coming from stigma mostly) that escorts are disease-riddled. It couldn't be further from the truth. Our bodies and reputations are our livelihoods. We don't get to show up and give diseases to people or soon the word will spread and we won't have a job anymore. Most sex workers I know get tested at least every three months, sometimes more frequently. Nobody is the civilian world could say the same, of course they don't have the same amount of partners, but anyone who is remotely sexually active should get tested AT LEAST every 6 months. However, the only way to truly avoid STIs is abstinence. The moment you choose to have sex, regardless of protection, there is a risk. The risks increase with the services you choose to purchase (kissing has its risks, bareback blowjobs have their risk, DATY and DATO do too). All this to say, think about what's your tolerance regarding those risks. As a client, you need to get tested frequently as well in order to keep yourself, your SO and the community safe. It's a teamwork between providers and clients to be responsible of their sexual health.
4) As for COVID, there is indeed a risk there. Sex workers have to work to provide for them and their families. We don't have the same status as any other workers due to the legal aspect of our job and the stigma. If you are vulnerable or live with vulnerable people, then perhaps it is indeed best to not see anyone for the time being.
Hope this helps!
1) It is indeed still illegal to purchase sex, being under the Nordic Model. However like mentioned previously, it's not being enforced. If you are still worried about cops, I would suggest seing only reputable providers (reviews, active online presence like Twitter and Instagram and a website). Law enforcement wouldn't put that much effort into arresting clients.
2) In terms of massage vs escort, it's quite a different experience, but both can be very enjoyable! It all depends what kind of services you want, what you are willing to do and what you are comfortable doing. Maybe newbies start with a massage and happy ending and work their way to seeing a full service provider.
3) There is this myth (coming from stigma mostly) that escorts are disease-riddled. It couldn't be further from the truth. Our bodies and reputations are our livelihoods. We don't get to show up and give diseases to people or soon the word will spread and we won't have a job anymore. Most sex workers I know get tested at least every three months, sometimes more frequently. Nobody is the civilian world could say the same, of course they don't have the same amount of partners, but anyone who is remotely sexually active should get tested AT LEAST every 6 months. However, the only way to truly avoid STIs is abstinence. The moment you choose to have sex, regardless of protection, there is a risk. The risks increase with the services you choose to purchase (kissing has its risks, bareback blowjobs have their risk, DATY and DATO do too). All this to say, think about what's your tolerance regarding those risks. As a client, you need to get tested frequently as well in order to keep yourself, your SO and the community safe. It's a teamwork between providers and clients to be responsible of their sexual health.
4) As for COVID, there is indeed a risk there. Sex workers have to work to provide for them and their families. We don't have the same status as any other workers due to the legal aspect of our job and the stigma. If you are vulnerable or live with vulnerable people, then perhaps it is indeed best to not see anyone for the time being.
Hope this helps!
Perfect reply from Rose. Everyone has to evaluate their own risk. COVID has kept me from seeing anyone for the time being.
