First off, no offense is ever taken 33edmguy, this is the internet. There's nothing substantial about the opinions posted here, they're simply words.
And who we are in REAL life, for the most part, has little relevance here as well. Nobody is posting here with his or her real names. We're all able to carve out new identities.
But why we're all here, well that's a question we all answer differently.
I'm simply here for the info, so whether the SPs want to post or not, really has little relevance to me. That's not to say I don't appreciate their input and insight. I view this forum as an electronic lockeroom, as it were. A place where guys exchange information, nothing more, nothing less. So that's why the argument about driving the SPs away from this board doesn't hold any water with me.
Secondly, as for the risks associated with the hobby, I appreciate the scenarios you have laid out, they're ones that have crossed my mind from time to time. But again, those are RISKS I, all of us, assume when we enter an establishment. For example, the Deja Vu location. Many times I've been nervous entering it simply because it's such a public place. But again, it's a RISK I take. And I'm not even talking about the other risks (disease, etc) that, whether we believe it or, exist. And since I assumed the risks, there's no one to blame but myself if I end up suffering consequences.
As to the woman who had her photos posted, I do feel bad for her. But again there has to be some personal responsibility. I wouldn't have posted them, most of us wouldn't have. That said, someone did, and it's a good reminder to all of us to keep ourselves secure.
Thirdly, people do post how much they pay. Read the reviews, the numbers are thinly veiled with jargon, but they are there.
Finally, I think we're all old enough to realize that this whole industry isn't going anywhere, whether or not we "stick together to protect our interests". As long as there's demand, there will be supply.
Anyways, thanks for the opportunity to disagree 33edmguy. Life without discussion and disagreement is boring. And have a good long weekend.