Never seen an SP & don't know where to start?

Bde

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I have a specific type fantasy I want to experience and because of my inexperience I don't know if I should see a SP or a MP?

I really just want to be stroked and edged for an hour, then finished off on her breasts/body. Preferably this would happen while porn is streaming in the background. This seems a little too vanilla for a SP but I have a gut feeling this is "more" than what an MP does? Idk... Suppose I don't know where to start.

Edit: Don't know if it matters but I'm in Duncan
 
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Welcome to the board!! Try going through Leolist to find a body type you’re craving. Any massage provider I’ve seen( with the exception of a few who don’t rely on the porn)would be able to accommodate this. But it’s probably better to open the door to the idea of a Full service gal. The selection is expediently bigger!! It’s almost ? that they could fulfil this and probably up the experience.
 

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Not to mention that the best edging experiences are ones where you’ve build some rapport with the provider.
 

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@Joe36blow thanks for the advice. I suppose the issue I've had with LL is the ads themselves are vague. That and I'm not sure exactly what is offered or even how to ask.
On the MP side I sorta imagined it is basically a massage avoiding the fun bits with a quick clinical distanced handy tossed in at the end, lol.
 

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@dawgthanks for this. Part of my issue is that I am so freaking shy when it comes to expressing (or asking for) my wants/needs, I'll completely freeze. Add in not knowing the general client/provider expectations or the ins and outs of the culture makes it difficult to know even how to start. I guess I've just been feeling nervous about not only looking like an idiot but also unintentionally offending the woman I contact.
 

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CCE. Used to have porn mags and / or porn on tv you can watch . I am not sure if they stlll do. If not , youncan bring a iPad and bring your own porn. As for your wants and needs , it may be easier to request it in a non fave to face manner. Phone a agency and tell them what you want and ask the, to suggest a girl and get them to pass the request to the SP. That way you have animonity and won’t freeze up in person. Finally write out you desires on a piece of paper as a backup and give them to the sp if the phone girl “ forgot “ to tell them you wants and needs. Again , that way you won’t stutter/freeze and clearly express you desires.
 
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I will add texting with an agency can be a good way to deal Being shy and asking for your wants
also boa Nanaimo mentions adult channels for there suite, although I have not tried it.
 
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BOA has porn on the tv and the receptionists answering the phones or texts are very friendly and could make sure you get a good match. Rowan would be good if she was available
 
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MP /SP in Victoria who is likely to do this (not sure about TV setup for porn — so iPad or computer is a good idea) Chloe Blossom (who does massage and FS). She only works Wednesdays, so it would take some planning. But I highly recommend. She never disappoints.
 

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... or likely Miss Fiona in N. Saanich. A short ride across the ferry.
I do love watching other girls fucking each other . Or sharing a cock when we take a moment to breathe in the back ground .. ?always been very visual , hardly would say ladies who play porn “rely” in it in this day and age to get you “there .

Probably for me it started years ago when I owned a loveshop , I got very into having a little background “visuals “ while at work . ?
Few jobs allow for that , I found them !

Sometimes it’s helped open up some very interesting conversations with gentlemen allowing them to share their kinks . Or just how absolutely silly some porn is and sets unreal expectations.

Some gentlemen have asked me to turn it off over the years because in their words “why bother when you are with the real deal “ I get that too ..too much stimulation-can be overwhelming to some .

I find sometimes it breaks the ice ; allow you to relax and feel comfy telling me what turns you on , seeing that I’m a perv too ! ?????

Angela White fan girl all day baby ??
 

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Sometimes it’s helped open up some very interesting conversations with gentlemen allowing them to share their kinks
That's kinda it for me I think. The thought of being able to, at least just once, express my sexuality without the fear of judgement or ridicule has to be at least part of the fantasy.

Aaaand so, for the record - lol so nobody gets the wrong idea - I'm def 100% not into poop porn or like anything illegal.
 
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I don't think anyone would think you were into illegal stuff or got the wrong idea about you. But ....poop porn is illegal? Being of curious mind, i researched that just for the sake of knowing after your post. The results were scarce at best. But I will take your word for it.
 

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I would think you have already taken the first step, by going to PERB, and reading about it..... Try the search function.....
 
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I do love watching other girls fucking each other . Or sharing a cock when we take a moment to breathe in the back ground .. ?always been very visual , hardly would say ladies who play porn “rely” in it in this day and age to get you “there .

Probably for me it started years ago when I owned a loveshop , I got very into having a little background “visuals “ while at work . ?
Few jobs allow for that , I found them !

Sometimes it’s helped open up some very interesting conversations with gentlemen allowing them to share their kinks . Or just how absolutely silly some porn is and sets unreal expectations.

Some gentlemen have asked me to turn it off over the years because in their words “why bother when you are with the real deal “ I get that too ..too much stimulation-can be overwhelming to some .

I find sometimes it breaks the ice ; allow you to relax and feel comfy telling me what turns you on , seeing that I’m a perv too ! ?????

Angela White fan girl all day baby ??
I think I need to drive to Sydney and see you.
 
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