Nephew's birthday.

[Jethro Bodine]

Today is my nephew's birthday. He is officially 18 and my sister has a big party planned.
I wouldn't do this because my sister would cut my balls off if she found out but I'd love to get him an SP for his Birthday.
He's a great kid. He's very helpful to his mom, whose a single mom, with the house chores and his little brother and sister. Intelligent (all A's in highschool), polite, good looking, over 6' tall and well built (he works out alot as his stress release). Unfortunately he's very socially awkward due to the fact he has a mild form of Asperger's Syndrome. You'd never know it to meet him but he is not very comfortable in social settings. Thus, despite having a few really close friends, he's never had a GF or even a date. I don't even know how much he thinks about the opposite sex or getting laid because when I've tried to talk to him about girls he changes the subject.
Maybe I'm wrong and it isn't a big deal or on his mind but I'd love to get him laid. I'd love to get him a couple of hours with an experienced SP who would make him comfortable and at ease and then rock his world.
Like I said earlier, I wouldn't becasue my sister would kill me but I'd love to.

Has anyone out there ever done given a friend or relative a session with an SP as a present?

 

[laurel love]

I have a nephew just like that and the same thought had crossed my mind. Miracle of miracles he found his own girl at the age of 22 and apparently is quite happy She is high functioning asperger's, too.

I found out through this biz that the first time creates a lasting impression on a young man. Guys can get 'stuck' trying to relive the thrill of the first time, especially, if it is a bit kinky, or, bizarre. That can interfere with later sexual relationships in life.

And what if he's gay?

 

[joho]

It really depends on your nephew. My cousin was having a hard time for a girl to lose his virginity so I made a special arrangement to see a really cute SP. Since then, I am his favorite cousin!

 

[shyboy123]

Ha I would have loved that when I was a younger lad - best uncle ever! Valid points above though, it could backfire horribly. I would suggest taking him out for a night of fun, that includes a nice session at the end, but don't get the room next door with another girl or wait for him to get the details after, that would be awkward. Book him a session at a agency or get him a room somewhere then make sure he has his own wheels or a cab after. Most important of all, make sure the lady is cool with it too! If it turns out he is not into it, then just call the lady and tell her good news she gets the "almost" best uncle ever instead...

 

[laurel love]

But, what if he is gay?

I know a fellow whose dad took him to see a prostitute to make sure he lost his virginity. Italian family. Scarred the fellow for life. He is a neat freak and fussy about smells and stuff. He thinks sex is dirty. Obviously his taste in women differed from his father's.

I agree that the concept is good in theory. There was this certain escort on here a while back( who used to post pictures of the galaxy etc). and her specialty was breaking in the lads. She seemed to have a great following among the newly recruited.

You would have to be sure you pick a girl with her heart in the right place!

 

[Jethro Bodine]

All good point and food for thought. Thanks!
As for him being gay? How would I know? "So Jimmy what do you like better cock or pussy?" Just kidding.
He's got a couple of posters in his room of hot models and I've overheard him and his friends talking about girls or commenting on a girl in a video but really how would I know?
As I said, I wouldn't do it because I don't think his mom would be too cool with the idea when (not if) she found out.
I was more just thinking "What if?" and wonderring if any of you guys had ever done this or if any of you ladies had been the one to pop the guy's cherry.

Thanks again for the feedback.

 

[badbadboy]

I have a very good friend whose son also has a mild case of Asperger's Syndrome. He can be at times very social and other times not so much. Any interaction I have had with him left me wondering how it may end up; good or bad.

I think your intentions are good but personally, I think you ought to let the nephew find his own way sexually. Unless you know of a SP who will take the time and can assertively handle anything that may go off the rails in the situation.

Props to you though for trying to help him do the deed with a SP.

 

[Holly Taylor]

It might not be a bad idea, but I agree with some of the other posters that he is fairly young, and may still figure this out on his own within the next 5 years.

A good male friend of mine lost his virginity when he was 23 and he has a very happy and normal sex life now (in his 30s). Sometimes people just take a little longer than average - who are we to judge what's right for an individual?

I understand that you think his Asperger's may interfere with his opportunities, though. Therefore, I think a good alternative idea would be to find a younger, pretty companion to give him a nice all over (non-sexual) massage while wearing sexy lingerie. That way, he can get comfortable being touched and being around a woman one-on-one, but there's no rushing into anything directly sexual. He has time for that later in life

 

[jnewton]

Ok, maybe I'm way out in left field on this but here goes.

First off, I agree, probably not a good idea but IF he was my nephew and I was going to do this, I would do it something like this. Fill in any needed details on your own.

Find a younger but very stable savvy SP. Set it up with her beforehand that she would be in the same bar, pretending to be a college girl out on the prowl. Have her flirt him up mercilessly and drag him back to her place for a one night stand. He never knows she's an SP, he just thinks she's a college girl looking for some serious no strings stress relief. He has a great time and it's a heck of an ego boost for him.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Therefore, I think a good alternative idea would be to find a younger, pretty companion to give him a nice all over (non-sexual) massage while wearing sexy lingerie. That way, he can get comfortable being touched and being around a woman one-on-one, but there's no rushing into anything directly sexual. He has time for that later in life

Too bad we're not in the same town Holly. You'd fit the bill perfectly.

 

[emilioa4]

i think its nice that you would try and give the guy a good time. wish i had someone like this. however, just be careful of how and who you choose to go in with this. my one concern, would be that he may say fuck it this is how im gonna get laid from now on.....just like the rest of us perbbers. he's still young, and for all you know he may be getting some and you just dont know it. i did the same thing, getting my first sp at 17 (i looked older) and that was the start of my wild times! sure i got lots of regular girls but calling an sp at anytime really blew the doors open for my wild times. just be careful is all im saying, young guys can easily be swayed into the wrong lifestyle very quickly.