Need Some Advice from other SP's on dating

[gigolojake]

Great overview...

...of the male SP business by Rob (Inamorato).

I wouldn't add much to that. Clientele are reflective of their genders. Women want to be wined and dined, seduced and made love to. Consequently, an average amount of time I spend with a client is 3 to 5 hours.

Forgetting totally about the pressure of performing sexually, I think the reason that most men who try this fail is that they forget to perform in all those other ways.

I like to say I have "mini-love affairs" with my clients.

What drives me to perhaps finding a date now and again is that this is always a one way street for me. All my energy is devoted to them and it is seldom reciprocated. Certainly not to the level one gets in a relationship. I'm not looking to be selfish, but a more equal balance would be cool.

Thanks for jumping in Rob. Nice to electronically meet you!

Cheers,

 

[naughtygirl]

Thank you both for the insight into male escorting. There are things that you mentioned I wouldn't have thought of. Like the pressure to perform sexually, as a female SP that really doesn't come into the equation (unless your hole is sewn shut) lol I can see how that alone could be nerve racking, and we women do require extra attention at times.

Jake it bet you any odds that the right girl will show herself to you when you least expect. I understand it can be frustrating when you give and give and just really want to receive some of the same attention back. Escorting can never fill what a relationship or friendship could offer.

Anyways, thank you both again

 

[gigolojake]

Jake it bet you any odds that the right girl will show herself to you when you least expect.

Thanks Naughtygirl! I'm an optimist and a very happy person. I'm driven to finding someone to hang out with, but not desperate about it. I'm more than willing to wait ;-)

 

[Inamorato]

Thanks for jumping in Rob. Nice to electronically meet you!

I'm sure we'll cross paths at one of the SP parties...and swap some stories.


And, on the original topic... I think theres a huge gender difference when it comes to dating. Many guys would think it's cool to date an SP, at least in the short-term. However, the women that i've dated and told about my Career Choice have not exactly been excited about the idea. Now I find myself in a position where I will date someone casually, but before things get serious I tend to find a reason to torpedo the relationship.
Shitty thing is, I've met some great Ladies lately, definitely relationship material, but I can't get too close, so I may have missed out on some great opportunities...It's a sacrifice that I made when I decided to be SP, and ultimately I'm content with my decision, but, sometimes it is hard not to wonder "what if".

 

[gigolojake]

I'm sure we'll cross paths at one of the SP parties...and swap some stories.


And, on the original topic... I think theres a huge gender difference when it comes to dating. Many guys would think it's cool to date an SP, at least in the short-term. However, the women that i've dated and told about my Career Choice have not exactly been excited about the idea. Now I find myself in a position where I will date someone casually, but before things get serious I tend to find a reason to torpedo the relationship.
Shitty thing is, I've met some great Ladies lately, definitely relationship material, but I can't get too close, so I may have missed out on some great opportunities...It's a sacrifice that I made when I decided to be SP, and ultimately I'm content with my decision, but, sometimes it is hard not to wonder "what if".

I think you and I have a lot in common. I haven't decided whether that is good or bad though....LOL!!!!!

Cheers!