Need Advice

[Don Draper]

Hello,

Lurker for several months now and new to the hobby. Seen several SP's now; some mediocre experiences and some great. I'm holding off on posting reviews until a later time.

Anyways I seek advice from experienced pooners. There's a regular SP I see, I'm fairly certian she has a handler. After our most recent session she suggested an overnight session off the books. Either she is legitimately serious for what ever reason as I'm fairly humble and don't believe its my charm or skills. Worst case senario I'm thinking it maybe some sort of trick? For example the handler could call or come unexpectly and I would be expected to compensate for the time? What do you people think? What would Don Draper do?

Thanks for advance for your input, I'm going to have a drink and a smoke

- Don Draper

 

[badbadboy]

Or maybe she likes you or maybe she is going around the handler?

If she is someone you like and the price is right, go for it I say.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

go for it... but keep a cod billy under the bed!

 

[felixthecat]

There is no profit for either SP or handler to lose a regular over an overnight donation. Therefore it's not a scam.

Or should I say this fictional situation does not look like a scam.

 

[Lurker 123]

, doubt you'll wake up in a bathtub missing a kidney.

Good point! This might be a case in Mainland China....!

 

[rick hunter]

Hello,

Lurker for several months now and new to the hobby. Seen several SP's now; some mediocre experiences and some great. I'm holding off on posting reviews until a later time.

Anyways I seek advice from experienced pooners. There's a regular SP I see, I'm fairly certian she has a handler. After our most recent session she suggested an overnight session off the books. Either she is legitimately serious for what ever reason as I'm fairly humble and don't believe its my charm or skills. Worst case senario I'm thinking it maybe some sort of trick? For example the handler could call or come unexpectly and I would be expected to compensate for the time? What do you people think? What would Don Draper do?

Thanks for advance for your input, I'm going to have a drink and a smoke

- Don Draper

It's not a trick, if it's off the books then she gets to keep all the money for herself and not have to share it with her handler. Simple as that.

I was offered outcall from this sp even though the agency is incall only. It was our first session and I was surprised by the offer, she told me I seemed like a trustworthy and nice person so was offering it to me. I never took her up on her offer.

 

[newatit]

I would go for this as soon as possible. Was this a freebie? I agree with the others. She trusts you and likes you and wants it for herself too

 

[Don Draper]

Thanks for all the input. I intentionally was a little vague in my intial post. When the overnight was offered for next time, I did ask for a quote. She responded that it would be "our secret" and I would be contacted first. Hence why I seeking advice; freebie sounds too good to be true.

 

[Don Draper]

@Badger

I sense some hostility. No I'm not a troll, it was a legitimate question. There was no intent to brag. I am genuinely new to all this. Point on regarding discretion. Obviously I wouldn't out a SP, I'm not here to fuck with their livelihood. Thanks for the wise words anyways.

I'll take her up on the offer and have funds should any issues arise. Also to a couple responses, I do enjoy her company. If she doesn't want or accept compensation for her time, I'll just leave it anyways as a surprise or something.

 

[wilde]

Is the overnight pay for play or "free"?

 

[Don Draper]

@wilde

I'm not going to quote verbatim the entire conversation to avoid exposing mannerisms. The context led me to believe it was the latter.

 

[bcneil]

@wilde

I'm not going to quote verbatim the entire conversation to avoid exposing mannerisms. The context led me to believe it was the latter.

Not sure the point of starting a thread asking for advice, then acting like that.

 

[wilde]

@wilde

I'm not going to quote verbatim the entire conversation to avoid exposing mannerisms. The context led me to believe it was the latter.

If that's the case, I'd say why not? But I might consider doing it in neutral territory such as an upscale hotel and do take Miss Melody's advice to make sure you're both on the same page. I have been on a couple of non-pay dates (a hockey game, a rave and a concert) with SPs and getting the pay or not part out of the way early ensured that we both had a really good time.