Need advice guys!

[EggMcMuffin]

I am a long term lurker, and am a 27 year old virgin. I know this sounds lame, but I really have had terrible luck with women and always fail to go further in any relationships that I've started.
I was thinking of just going to a SP and getting it over with, and thought that having "done it" I might have better confidence with women.
Anyone have any suggestions on how this might be good or bad? Thanx!

 

[aznboi9]

It can be both good and bad, depending on the SP. I feel for you as I was a similar situation. But there are a lot of nice SP's whom you can find reviews of on the board. And I think the benefit of knowing that you don't have to impress anyone or give a great performance would take a lot of the pressure off. Once you find an SP that you like, I would suggest explaining your situation before your session with her. I think that you would find that the majority of SP's would be very understanding and accomodating. I haven't seen her (yet?), but from what I've read it seems that Julia would be a very good choice. I believe another perbert (batman?) had lost his virginity to her.

Best of luck.

 

[aznboi9]

call julia @604 781 3440 she takes care of you.


ELIZA.

Oops. Beat me to the punch.

 

[Hedonist7]

Does this reminds any one else of the movie "Risky Business" or what?

Then again - it was the hottest "sex in a train" scene ever...

My 2 bits: if it is that much on your mind and you think it is affecting your ability to meet Mrs right: go for it. Just remember - once you've had a "pro" (if it is a good one) - the regular Jane will always taste "bland"...

Maybe you should just set a "date" with the worst SP this review board has... this way you'll get the "wirgeen" thing out of your mind - but won't spoil it for the future Mrs Muffin...

 

[Valium]

What's the matter Avarice? Can't afford to pay for advertising?

Did someone say catfight?

My money's on Julia.

 

[Fudd]

Yup, if you decide to see an SP about this "problem" then I can recommend Julia she's a reputable SP.

 

[jonesee]

I am a long term lurker, and am a 27 year old virgin. I know this sounds lame, but I really have had terrible luck with women and always fail to go further in any relationships that I've started.
I was thinking of just going to a SP and getting it over with, and thought that having "done it" I might have better confidence with women.
Anyone have any suggestions on how this might be good or bad? Thanx!

We are essentially same age and I "lost it" a bit over 10 years ago and I am VERY glad it was NOT with a SP. In fact, my first 20 or so experiences were not with a SP. I think that you want to have the awkwardness with this person you really like as I bet she really appreciates your keeping this special thing for someone like her. Your confidence doesn't improve just because you have paid for more sex.

 

[maverick73]

Thanks guys!


What's the matter Avarice? Can't afford to pay for advertising?

OOOUUCCH.... aaarrrrrr

Ava is cool with me, but Julia gets my vote for the virgins. EggMcMuffin... you can say you lost your virginity to the "Energizer Bunny." If it really means keeping it, just have oral with Julia and save vaginal for your first love.

If you're gonna lost it, might as well lose it to a Taurus like Julia!!!

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On a side note Julia, not sure if you read my other threads, but I've been building a dream team to go into battle... it is like a 6 person hockey team... center, 2 wingers, 2 dmen, and a goalie.

I think I want you on my team.

 

[AsianWay]

first time, or first time with a SP?

Best not to mix them up. You will remember them separately, so plan them separately?

First time with a provider might be difficult if it's also first time, because your expectations will be mixed up/messed up. What if she's PERFECT? No non-pro human will ever live up to that (will you be disappointed?). If she's cold and impersonal (a.k.a. professional) how will you feel afterwards?

Here's my suggestion if there's no hope for working it out with a friend or acquaintence: find a lady (maybe a provider) who will take you out to get you laid. Offer a bounty if need be. The ladies know how to find the willing/able ladies, and it might even take the possibility of a threeway to get it started. You lose your vinity, get all the craziness associated with a "first time" and it was real. You can always pay a provider afterwards to be your "second" or your "first time for money".

Just an idea. My better idea was to go find a needy older woman in your nieghborhood but then the emotional baggage is probably much more dangerous than the three-way hookup lol.

 

[maverick73]

Also.. yes Avarice can afford to pay advertising and I assume she is. She asked me a few days ago how to become one and methods of payment and told me weeks ago she really wanted to just go ahead and pay it for the rights to advertising. I know you couldn't have known that, Julia, because her name is not highlighted and you want to make sure that someone else cannot advertise with the same rules we can when we have paid and they have not, but maybe take that up in PM and if that fails, flame away baby

I've always enjoyed a good friendly flame war. How shall we settle this one? Mixed pillow fight? Julia and Maverick vs. Ava and Lisagigglez?

PS Don't worry Julia. Keira will understand... just keep it on the low... ssssshhh.

 

[Valium]

Valium, Don't put your money on that bet. Spend it more wisely.
I've ALWAYS had a thing for virgins since I was like 16.

Ava, I just noticed your website. I had only seen your pics from LadyMorgaine.com, which really didn’t do it for me. But looking at some of your other pics (especially May 05) I have to say you’re HOT! On second thought I think I’ll be saving my money for you. BTW, I’m a virgin...

I am a long term lurker, and am a 27 year old virgin. I know this sounds lame, but I really have had terrible luck with women and always fail to go further in any relationships that I've started.
I was thinking of just going to a SP and getting it over with, and thought that having "done it" I might have better confidence with women.
Anyone have any suggestions on how this might be good or bad? Thanx!

Well, that’s a tricky situation, you really have to take a look at your life and try to determine why your relationships never reach that level. If you think there is a possibility of losing your virginity in a “real” relationship then I say wait, as it will have much more meaning. But if you have exhausted all other options and don’t see anything new happening in the distant future then go for it (with a SP). If you decide to go with a SP then be sure to choose carefully. Only you can choose which SP is right for you, so check all the reviews here and see if there is anyone who appeals to you. For the first time you should be more concerned with personality than looks, as you will need someone who is patient and understanding.
Good luck!

 

[maverick73]

now thats one thing I wouldn't mind.... pillow fight in lingerie with 2 yummy ladies....
sorry maverick my fantasy, while involving a dick, might be fullfilled with Julia wearing a strap on and you being absent.. then we could just fuck the rage out of us.. cause its really obvious how much rage was in my post...
J/k
Lighten up everyone!

Ok I'll film from the closet... like Ricky Fitts in American Beauty.

"I'm not ordinary..."

 

[jakey_edwards]

Love your suggestion AsianWay

Here's my suggestion if there's no hope for working it out with a friend or acquaintence: find a lady (maybe a provider) who will take you out to get you laid. Offer a bounty if need be. The ladies know how to find the willing/able ladies, and it might even take the possibility of a threeway to get it started. You lose your vinity, get all the craziness associated with a "first time" and it was real. You can always pay a provider afterwards to be your "second" or your "first time for money".

I like it.

JE

 

[luv-em-n-lv-em]

Avarice is a tiger. Julia is a house cat.

In any "battle" between Julia and Avarice, Julia wouldn't have a chance. Avarice's "fighting style" is not handicapped by nearly as many restrictions.

Not that I am complaining.