My spidey senses???

[bigguy]

I have perused BP and ERslist for several months now. BP seems to have an abundance of ultra-attractive young hotties. Because outcall is still my preferred bag, a significant percentage of these BP advts. trumpet outcall ONLY, so my attention she is got. And then, any time (possibly EVERY time) I have been tempted with one of these advts., my search on PERB shows not one single review> My antennae vibrates . . . negatively!!!! Am I the problem, or have other PERBites reacted this way??

ER, on the other hand has lesser outcall ONLY advts., equally attractive photos (I know, the pics mean fuck all in reality), but reviews are reasonably available and advts. are mostly incall. My spidey sense reaction is the outcall ONLY BP advts. are guilty of the following pooners' crimes: phoney pics., restrictive service and most probable upsell after getting thru your door. (Almost comparable to the old Homer Street stroll with scrumptious eye candy to suck-in a horny client and work over his wallet). Am I off-kilter here? Have I become "jaded" in my attitude? I solicit reactions to my comments.

bigguy

 

[Caramel]

I think it's because active perb reviewers designate of a very small portion of the local client population, and the ratio of SPs to perb users is also really low. I've also noticed that the majority of perbites generally seem to have this one thing in common - they prefer incall. Keep in mind that BP requires payment for all escort advertising, whereas ERS allows completely free postings with cell phone verification. However, ERS has a photo ID verification process which is also free, and BP doesn't verify anything...so your abundance of "young hotties" may just be some lonely old ladies with a pipe. Maybe you should develop a system of picking and verifying your outcall dates. Also remember that outcalls tend to cost more for an SP because of travel (ie, money that isn't profit - driver/cab fee, gas), so an outcall will generally be more than an incall rate, even if they only prefer outcall.

There are always a few diamonds in the rough, but if saying NO and rejecting a woman to her face is too much for you...then you just have to deal with it, that's the business, and that's life, nothing is perfect.

 

[storm rider]

To put it simply I would say you are thinking with the right head

SR

 

[Edward Lei]

Outcalls are a crapshoot at best and like RC already mentioned, favors the SP. At least at an incall, you have a much easier time walking with little to no drama. It would not be in her or her pimp's interest to cause a scene because of the nearby neighbors. The tables will have turned in an outcall setting - telling an SP to leave when she's dragged her ass out to YOUR home puts you in an uncomfortable spot if she makes a scene (and she most probably will because who likes to be stiffed with a driver or cab fare?). So, at minimum, turning away an outcall will cost you a driver fee EVEN if she's not your cup of tea and/or offers pathetic service.

 

[bigguy]

To all respondees to date:

Thank you for your unsolicited advice re my preference for outcall.

My commencing this thread was seeking individual experiences of PERBites and their comments regarding ERlist as compared to BP. I hope this thread gets back on track as I would like responses to my original question before my thread was hijacked.

bigguy

 

[YoungGun25]

You've probably been doing this hobby long enough to have the bad experiences along with the great ones.

That being said, listening to your 'spidey sense' is probably a normal response to reading some of the advts out there.

I've done a few outcalls when traveling and I've been duped once, and as a result I'm much more reluctant when I see advts that trigger my 'spidey sense' (incall or outcall).

Happy pooning