my sp is messing with me or im going insane.

[sevenofnine]

It has happened several times now.
Me and my sp, usually have a quiet moment, or several during a session, at the end, pillow talk,
are things ok, are we good, etc etc,

It is very quiet subdued ushed.

And several times now she I or have heard her say things, Its two personal not going to repeat it,
but I swear I have heard her say it.
But next session, I will mention it or ask her about it,
and she wonders what the hell Im talking about and denies saying anything,

There is only two explanations she is seriously messing with me,
or Im going nuts.
and if im going nuts its not a far trip I tell you,

 

[uncleg]

I vote............going insane.

 

[Ride My Mustache]

Never forget you're buying a service only. You pay her to do and say whatever she thinks it is you want, nothing more. After seeing maybe a few hundred other guys before she sees you again, she can't really be expected to remember exactly what it was she thought you wanted to hear the last time you guys were together. The only way she could do that would be to keep detailed records of you and your visits with her like a doctor or shrink would do. But then we would be vilifying her for keeping those records, wouldn't we? Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's the norm with SPs.

 

[InnocentBoy]

She already has you spelling too two

 

[Hoops]

I think she's having trouble keeping her lies in order.

 

[newatit]

I will go with hoops, but then if we knew what she was saying, you might get some better advice. why not pm me.

 

[sevenofnine]

+1
Also I'm pretty sure he's got a long lost twin who's handle here is Humper1

Sorry but I don't have a problem with you thinking me nuts.

But I don't have an alter ego, if that is what your implying.
I have never had a problem putting it all on the line, good or bad,
you can think of me what ever you wish,
but there is only one of me,
and I don't hide behind anything.

 

[Ripped]

Seriously bud, her job is to provide you with an hour (or whatever time) of service.
Be that straight up, or shouting profanity, while spraying you with whipped cream.

If doing a good job, and playing the part well, gets you to come back for more, then she did her job. If she enjoys herself, then good on her.

If you find what she says bothersome, tell her to stop, or stop going.

When the hour is up, you leave and she serves another client.

As long as she's not calling you up after the deed and asking you for money, or something else, then get over it.


Her job is to provide a good service, keep you happy, and coming back. Obviously she is doing that, with whatever role play you two have in mind.
Like I said, if it's "messing with you" then either stop going or tell her not to say that.

If you want a GF then get one. Then it won't mess with you.

 

[Elmore]

If you want a GF then get one. Then it won't mess with you.

Some guys on here suggest that is the last thing they want...yet they find themselves getting attached to an escort. :doh:

The line between GF and GFE gets blurred for some people.

 

[sevenofnine]

Interesting,
I don't want a girl friend Im married and don't need the complications.
But I believe people should be treated a certain way.
As in nice.
At work I have had two women stalking me over the years, I was just being polite and respectful, they thought it was more,
Im having sex with the lady, I don;'t know any other way to treat a women Im having sex with except the best I possible can. Its just me. And we end up friends.

And friendship with an sp, is not a problem, Its a lot of fun in some ways. It makes life interesting.Sometimes it doesn't last, I mean its hard to be friends and still keep having sessions some times. But oh well.

I don't think at all she has trouble keeping her lies, straight. Im a regular she is low volume now. We see each other on and off the clock. Once a week, I see her, whether its on the clock or not.
I don't believe she is lying to me,

The more likely thing is she is saying something at a weak moment, but latter over coffee the next day, she doesn't feel that weak.

Or it is possible I am hearing things. The mind is a funny thing, you want to believe something bad enough and the mind can play tricks on you.
Or I really am having some sort of mental break.
Which did any one take seriously I could have a brain tumor causing some hallicunations
I am Bill Gates right.

 

[sevenofnine]

Let me guess.....you think she said I Love You ...I know, I'm that damn smart! :nod:

Sorry but you ain't that smart. No offense, but not what I thought I heard.

 

[uncleg]

Let me guess.....you think she said I Love You ...I know, I'm that damn smart! :nod:

Sorry but you ain't that smart. No offense, but not what I thought I heard.

My turn....

She asked, "did you fart"?
You heard, "sweetheart."

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

After reading the thread by basic question is what difference does it make what she said. If you're married and not planning on taking this relationship any further than it is, whatever endearing comments she may have said on serve to complicate things. So why stress out about it, just relax have fun and forget about what you may or may not have heard. The simpler you keep this relationship the better and the longer it will last. Trust me on that, you really, really don't want a whole lot of emotions to creep into it.

All that aside, Uncleg's response was much better than mine. ound:

 

[DavidMR]

I have to say I am a bit mystified by some of the replies here. If I was a regular customer and a SP confided things in me, then claimed not to know anything about it a few weeks later, I'd be wondering too.

 

[groundhog9]

She is or your fking with your own head. Ide see a different sp. Then you wont care what the first one said.

 

[blazejowski]

I have to say I am a bit mystified by some of the replies here. If I was a regular customer and a SP confided things in me, then claimed not to know anything about it a few weeks later, I'd be wondering too.

I do agree people are being a little obtuse, but then again, this is a sevenofnine thread, and he's been known to be a bit of a drama queen at times....