My sorry's...and explaining.

[Dakota_edm]

Hello to all on the board.I guess i would like to start by saying that the night this all started i had a sleepover with a couple of girls and we read my review.I liked my review on how it went and noticed i f**ked up when it came to the time issue,I have pm'd notaclue and just so its clear i am not a rip off sp.I have no issue in making up my misstakes.in anycase the girls thought it would lighten the board a bit if we made it not so serious so it was stated already that sineh had said shit happens!! and i put it there because in the way it was put to me in person i agreed.but in my defence it is really hard to show true emotion in typed info. (which makes me nervous of this thread.)So when i state my next couple of comments i do wish they come accross as they are ment too!!

1st...Just because 1 or 2 or 3 clients dont have the greatest time does not mean that an sp is the worst out there.Not everyone will click and it could have a dif.reason. eg) The client has really bad hygene
eg#2) The client had no respect for bounderies
eg#3) the client rushes the sp
and by the way YES it does happen and to my defense i had told the client to come back when he can have full time.

2nd i would like to appoligize to anyone that feels i have not been the best to them.I try to do very well at what i do,But no one here can say that they are perfect and never messed up at work or was exactly what they were suppossed to be like that day.Everyone makes mistakes and i for one am not one to make them and brush it asside.I like what i do and have lots of fun doing it too!!

The only thing i will ask for in this thread is try not to be so harsh and try to restrain from making comments to threads that are so mean when you dont even know what the girl is like.Half the reply's to the thread was from perberts i have never met.As for my comment to mick about challenging him dont worry about it i know you dont like legends and its ok im sure we can live with that.

To all that is out there I am SORRY that this turned into such a stank. That was never my intension as well as it should never be placed on the studio of legends just the girl.

 

[wannabe]

Nuff said!!
now please, everyone let it go!

Dakota you have to try and not take all this chatter personally.

You will have your good and bad days, I hope that now everyone moves forward.



I hope to visit you soon.

 

[JackD69]

Like WANNABE said...

No complaints from my end as well.... Seriously though try not to take ANY rude comment seriously.

See ya very soon as I am returning from my training trip!

 

[littlejonny]

Every crowd is going to have a few anal retentive types who take things way too seriously. Don't let it get you down Dakota honey.

 

[ronnyraygun]

no attack, just a question

Hello to all on the board.I guess i would like to start by saying that the night this all started i had a sleepover with a couple of girls and we read my review.I liked my review on how it went and noticed i f**ked up when it came to the time issue,I have pm'd notaclue and just so its clear i am not a rip off sp.I have no issue in making up my misstakes.in anycase the girls thought it would lighten the board a bit if we made it not so serious so it was stated already that sineh had said shit happens!! and i put it there because in the way it was put to me in person i agreed.but in my defence it is really hard to show true emotion in typed info. (which makes me nervous of this thread.)So when i state my next couple of comments i do wish they come accross as they are ment too!!

1st...Just because 1 or 2 or 3 clients dont have the greatest time does not mean that an sp is the worst out there.Not everyone will click and it could have a dif.reason. eg) The client has really bad hygene
eg#2) The client had no respect for bounderies
eg#3) the client rushes the sp
and by the way YES it does happen and to my defense i had told the client to come back when he can have full time.

2nd i would like to appoligize to anyone that feels i have not been the best to them.I try to do very well at what i do,But no one here can say that they are perfect and never messed up at work or was exactly what they were suppossed to be like that day.Everyone makes mistakes and i for one am not one to make them and brush it asside.I like what i do and have lots of fun doing it too!!

The only thing i will ask for in this thread is try not to be so harsh and try to restrain from making comments to threads that are so mean when you dont even know what the girl is like.Half the reply's to the thread was from perberts i have never met.As for my comment to mick about challenging him dont worry about it i know you dont like legends and its ok im sure we can live with that.

To all that is out there I am SORRY that this turned into such a stank. That was never my intension as well as it should never be placed on the studio of legends just the girl.

nicely done Dakota, just one question about the bolded par:

why does the not clicking HAVE to be the guys fault?

is it not possible that the sp may also be responsible and for many of the same reasons IE:

-some sp's do not shower between clients, only use a babywipe

-the sp is not providing what was asked for/agreed to

-watching the clock/sp rushes the client

-attitude: towards pooners, other sp's etc.

just wondering if not clicking may be a 2-way street

 

[the Reverse]

And sometimes the not clicking has nothing to do with any of that - it is just that the two don't click. I have had nice sessions with girls who I wouldn't see again, simply because there wasn't any chemistry between us. For example, I have great sessions with Vienna, but with Lauren, it was fine, but we just didn't click, so I didn't repeat. That is part of life. Sometimes, nothing goes wrong, but you just don't click with someone else.

 

[freakychef]

Wow how many of these posts...............

...........do we have to see on here. A guy(pooner) is unhappy with a gal(legends girl). They air their disagreement on here for the world to know. I mean this is getting outa hand. Dakota I have never met you and by the way your pics look amazing. You have the right to respond or not respond on here to coments about you or your service. As well I guess the pooner/pooners will also have the right to critique said service. However it always ends up with he said she said. Sheesh not all pooners and sp's will click for a multitude of reasons lets leave it at that. I think the sp's (Legends) sorry girls but majority are from there. Need to have a thicker skin and be a little more reserved when it comes to jumping into defend themselves. Also the guy's are just doing what the board is intended for reviewing said girls. However guy's lets not forget that we should try not to denegrate the woman. I guess any negative comments about the sp will result in loss of buissnes so I see where they feel justified to defend every little thing. I have been to Legends a few times and had great sessions and not so great sessions thats life. Still a top notch studio with beautifull girls. Just like Supreme or 50th. IMO

 

[wolverine]

Chin up, Dakota, and keep giggling!

I agree with the freaky one. The daily Legends-bashing is getting a bit old. If it's not that, there was the earlier hype. Enough already!

Can this forum start posting about other MPs now?

 

[Mick Shagher]

As for my comment to mick about challenging him dont worry about it i know you dont like legends and its ok im sure we can live with that.
(

You never know. One day I just might get the whim to pay you a surprise visit.
I must admit that the littleguy was getting quite excited while looking at your new pictures. Pretty sexy.

 

[freakychef]

You know its odd..............

............For me unless a sp is reviewed as being bad or a rush artist, etc whatever by a majority of pooners I form my own choice. Okay there are mixed reviews about Dakota however I have often thought about seeing her based soley on her pics as she is very very hot looking. I factor alot of things into choosing who I see??? Sometimes but not too often I TOFTT. I have been very very fortunate with whom I have seen lately!!!

 

[ruffus]

I am a PERB pig

I think that anyone who takes pride in their work and is pleased with doing the best job possible would naturally be defensive about criticism. That applies to SPs, welders, accountants, computer geeks and anyone else.

Personally I am glad that a board such as PERB does not exist for my profession and clients. I like feedback from my clients, but anonymous criticisms in a (naturally harsh) written environment would be really hard to deal with for me.

on the lighter side, Winston Churchill once said that he liked pigs. Dogs look up to us and cats look down on us but pigs treat us like equals.

I hope that I am a PERB pig.

 

[Dark_Knight]

I remember a review board before perb that was quite handy. I don't think any of the SP's went on there or if they did they hid in anonymity. Reviews there were just that, a review. You didn't have the self appointed mods chastising SP's for unpaid advertising, you never got the sp's wading into debates with the clients over things, you just had simple honest reviews. I almost think we would be better off if that is what we stuck to on this board, well at least this part of it. Leave the review section for writing reviews. whether they be good bad or indifferent.

 

[trawler]

Dark_Knight that Board was known as CanBest...

you must have been on it for a short period. There were several members continually creating drama and the month the Board went to a fee for service operating mode, it was doomed to failure. PERB has been far superior.

The SP's being on this Board has made it more fun in my view and it has been very useful in finding the best providers. The real problem rests with members who focus on useless banter instead of reviews and have Hidden Agendas.

My 2 cents

 

[freakychef]

Ya hidden agendas are not good.............

...................Too many people wanting to cause trouble throught gossip, rumour and inuendo. INO

 

[Dark_Knight]

you know, if I could collect all the two cents that get thrown around this board, I could probably enjoy this hobby far more often!

 

[rescue911]

agree

i agree with trawler. having the ladies here just adds spice to the postings and gives us insight into their personalities and attitudes. and sometimes the banter is not informative....it's just plain fun to have all the types here that we do.

even those with hidden agendas, obvious as they are..hmmm then are they hidden???...add something to the mix. what a great hobby this is.

 

[unlucky]

gone cross eyed

After reading all the bickering and crap hit fans . i have gone completly cross eyed and green to the face . This makes me wanna go back to my ex g/f less drama and she tried several times to run me over.


god what are junior high school kids again.

 

[notaclue]

Dakota makes good

Since it was my review that sparked all of this, I just thought that I would post to let you all know that both Dakota and the management at Legends have been in touch with me, and have made offers to amend the situation that is more than satisfactory. To any who misunderstood, I thought that Dakota was a great session, just cut too short by circumstances.