Hi! I wrote this thread a while ago about "sp addiction" https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=116370
Really I think for me "addiction" was too much of a strong word. I think I liked the idea, the transgression, but I never liked the experience... But every time the transgression feeling was strong enough to let me forget than the actual doing it was not really worth..
So... I think there are other people that feel the same... expecially boys with wifes or girlfriends or so... for those I`d say, if you want to have some trasgressive stuff you can do, in random order:
- get excited with some good stuff and masturbate... at the beginning seems like a bad idea, but at the end you won`t feel like fucking
- flirt... it`s 100 times more exciting than paying someone, even if you don`t have sex (actually I never had sex when I picked up girls... if I had a GF already, but picking up is fun and exciting). If you`re not an abomination of nature, you can go out and pick up girls. Read `the game`. Use internet. It`s fun.
- if you do want to use a SP, but you already have a GF, at least make sure you will enjoy it. When reading reviews on perb... people are really giving funny ratings sometimes. Don`t consider reviews by people that wrote less that 3. Take the minimum ratings of a reviewer, and consider those the 0 for that one... Then accept the bet only if the "normalized" review score exceeds 6 (wher 6 should be... your GF)
- talk to your GF/wife. don`t put things in your perspective only, ask what she wants first, you might be surprised... buy toys, get some spice back in your relationship...
Really I think for me "addiction" was too much of a strong word. I think I liked the idea, the transgression, but I never liked the experience... But every time the transgression feeling was strong enough to let me forget than the actual doing it was not really worth..
So... I think there are other people that feel the same... expecially boys with wifes or girlfriends or so... for those I`d say, if you want to have some trasgressive stuff you can do, in random order:
- get excited with some good stuff and masturbate... at the beginning seems like a bad idea, but at the end you won`t feel like fucking
- flirt... it`s 100 times more exciting than paying someone, even if you don`t have sex (actually I never had sex when I picked up girls... if I had a GF already, but picking up is fun and exciting). If you`re not an abomination of nature, you can go out and pick up girls. Read `the game`. Use internet. It`s fun.
- if you do want to use a SP, but you already have a GF, at least make sure you will enjoy it. When reading reviews on perb... people are really giving funny ratings sometimes. Don`t consider reviews by people that wrote less that 3. Take the minimum ratings of a reviewer, and consider those the 0 for that one... Then accept the bet only if the "normalized" review score exceeds 6 (wher 6 should be... your GF)
- talk to your GF/wife. don`t put things in your perspective only, ask what she wants first, you might be surprised... buy toys, get some spice back in your relationship...
