Well this girl is far from Stupid, she realized it wasnt something she had to do. You might be shocked how many ladies would choose a fine rather than be with the boss. Makes for a uncomfortable working environment. They get away with these fines and asking girl to do this because in the end they get a freebie or they get to keep the credit card transactions.IceG said:1. I know you are angry that you heard this but I HAVE only HEARD THIS in the following context:
I go for session. Have my fun. Have sp tell me that she is going to QUIT because of the fact owner wants a freebie. Sp tells me where she is considering moving to and tells me I am her favourite client and she doesn't want me to lose touch with her when she quits.
2. I HAVE NO IDEA IF THE ALLEGATION IS TRUE.
3. If a "new" sp is so NAIVE (that is being euphematic as some would substitute STUPID) TO stay there under those conditions, then THAT IS HER CHOICE. Any "BLAME" should be shouldered on the other SPs (ie. more experienced ones) working there who are CHOOSING TO STAY there and NOT tell any new girls they don't have to put up with his alleged bullshit.
4. I have only been there 5 times in the past 1 year. I highly doubt my $250.00 (assuming he gets the room fee as i have no ACTUAL knowledge of how much he is taking from the sps) is making or breaking the scumbag's income.
5. NO ONE IS FORCING the sps to stay there. If the sps DON'T stand up for themselves, YOUR answer is to blame the customers? (again i only HEARD this from a sp who was quitting, i told her to quit and assured her she could easily find employment elsewhere - which she did).
GO YELL AT THE SPS who WERE working alongside your new friend and give them shit for not helping Ms. NAIVE (or Stupid, depending on your perspective). Again, we are dealing with a grown adult woman deciding to become a sp, not a developmentally delayed 12 year old.
This isnt walmart were dealing with, some of the older girls may get perks and thats why they stay. They might have drug issues and choose to keep their jobs cause it supports there habits. New girls might be scared of getting beat down instead just grin and bare it until something better pops up. From my understanding its clients that usually convince ladies to go to other places.
Many of the ladies from there called or emailed to say thank-you. Also I have had many PM's asking me where this place is. Your 250 a couple times a year does make a difference if there is enough ppl who think there 250 makes a difference.
I own a agency and no matter if ya call 2 times a year or 2 times a week, your making a difference to all of us. Those 2 extra calls a year is someone's week pay.
Im shocked with a board this big that ladies are not using it to better the biz for themselves, not only should this be a review place but I would like to see someplace where women only yak amongst each other so they can post and stand strong. Bad dates, beauty tips, bad owners. It all starts with one person standing up for themselves. Some can't help it there not as strong as others.
I have been in the BIZ awhile. I escorted for a short time and jumped into the ownership part of things because I seen how ppl were treated and I knew there are good girls who are in bad situations. I know I didnt want to go to work knowing my co-worker was poking needles in her arm and then expected to do doubles with her. Your turning a blind eye to things sometimes seems easier but if ya question and hear from enough ppl that things like this are going on then why be a part of it. Just cause were hoe's doesnt mean we need a break or need help every once and awhile.
I did this post because this lady was nice enough to tell me what was going on and I thought if it saves one lady from having to loose her money from not sleeping with management than its helped. I also did this post in hopes that maybe the owner would see it and stop doing what he is doing.
Girls in this Biz are suckered in all the time. Crasy fines in lots of the places OR places that take 50% of what they make. Its not right. It gives people like me a bad name and leaves the girl with no self respect.
Sometimes I wonder if the street isnt safer than some of these places who incourage girls to do drugs, threaten girls with telling there families. Right now I dont hear girls saying they fear there clients harming them, latley I have been hearing the girls fearing each other or the places that they work because either they been slow and girls get catty or their scared of loosing a job and told they wont be able to work anyplace else.
Something in Edmonton isnt right, I know I have had over 30 girls from there apply just last week. Give a girl the chance to be a lady and be respected and you would be shocked how they will do. Get the odd one in that wont help herself but they always wish they could have when they look back.