My Old Dog

[littlejimbigher]

I lost my old dog this weekend. At age 15, she passed away early Sunday.
Even tho I knew it was only a matter of time ,especially with her age it still comes to a complete shock. One day she's happy, demanding her little walks and lots of treats and the next she is gone.

I was a basket case yesterday morning. Crying more than I have in years.
Funny thing was that she was more my ex-wifes dog than mine. Even tho I fed and walked her she loved my ex better.Then 3 years ago when the ex left the dog got left behind to me and we bonded so much that if the ex came over to visit her my dog would just ignore her.

Typing this out just seems to help a little bit.

 

[ZeroX]

I lost my old dog this weekend. At age 15, she passed away early Sunday.
Even tho I knew it was only a matter of time ,especially with her age it still comes to a complete shock. One day she's happy, demanding her little walks and lots of treats and the next she is gone.

I was a basket case yesterday morning. Crying more than I have in years.
Funny thing was that she was more my ex-wifes dog than mine. Even tho I fed and walked her she loved my ex better.Then 3 years ago when the ex left the dog got left behind to me and we bonded so much that if the ex came over to visit her my dog would just ignore her.

Typing this out just seems to help a little bit.

 

[Trav]

My Old dog

Sorry for your loss .. Liitle Jim... I know exactly how you feel as I feel the same. I had to Euthanize my old dog on May 31st. She was 15 1/2. She was diagnosed with cancer last june and given 3mths but we managed to coax another year for her before it became inevitable. But it is sure quiet around our place as she was my shadow. Trav

 

[CaraClementine]

Big hugs for you, Jim ... and for Trav

 

[littlejimbigher]

Sorry for your loss .. Liitle Jim... I know exactly how you feel as I feel the same. I had to Euthanize my old dog on May 31st. She was 15 1/2. She was diagnosed with cancer last june and given 3mths but we managed to coax another year for her before it became inevitable. But it is sure quiet around our place as she was my shadow. Trav

Yeah. My other dog died of cancer 5 years ago. One year after my cancer.
You never forget them tho.

 

[COLONEL ANGUS]

Monday Pet Loss Candle Ceremony

I can certainly empathize with what you are going thru.
I lost my furbaby a year ago last wednesday.
I visit this website every monday www.petloss.com.
It has helped me deal with the loss of a loved one.

 

[Irresistible Isabelle]

So Sad

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It's devastating to lose a pet. I was inconsolable when my family's dogs, that I grew up with, had to be euthanized when their health issues became too painful for them to live comfortably. I get teary just contemplating the loss of my own dog. He's been a constant source of unconditional love and silent support through some really hard times.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Jim my heart goes out to you! I know exactly how you must be feeling. I lost my dog almost two years ago and was heart broken for a long time over it. It does get easier and maybe getting another 4 legged friend will help......I know it worked for me although I had sworn to never get another pet till the day I die.

 

[triplegun]

best friends

ya i know how you feel too. my ex GF had a dog and just as we broke up we had found a lump and they did some tests but as that was happened we had broken up i went to see Lexie and my ex wouldnt let me see Lexie and the dog had jumped off a story high up just to see me... that is the last time i got to see Lexie she had to be put down a bit later it was cancer and still she never let me see lexie before she had to put her down

 

[littlejimbigher]

ya i know how you feel too. my ex GF had a dog and just as we broke up we had found a lump and they did some tests but as that was happened we had broken up i went to see Lexie and my ex wouldnt let me see Lexie and the dog had jumped off a story high up just to see me... that is the last time i got to see Lexie she had to be put down a bit later it was cancer and still she never let me see lexie before she had to put her down

Not to let someone see their animal really is cruel. My ex was always welcome to come and visit her. I called her yesterday to let her know about Angel passing away.
I probably won't get another dog for sometime. My social life this last 3 years has mostly been getting home to stay with her, except when I sneak away to visit the ladies. I need some time just to get out and now do things.

Thank You everyone for your well wishes and kind thoughts.

 

[WHOA]

My thoughts are with you.

Saddest moment in my life so far was driving with my oldest to the vet for the last time. She had an enlarged heart which pressed on her trachea. Holding her in the blanket on my lap as I drove knowing she wouldn't be there on the way back.

 

[Trav]

My thoughts are with you.

Saddest moment in my life so far was driving with my oldest to the vet for the last time. She had an enlarged heart which pressed on her trachea. Holding her in the blanket on my lap as I drove knowing she wouldn't be there on the way back.

I was really Lucky when my Dog had to be euthanized my vet was kind enough to come to my house.She had been looking after her for her whole 15 1/2 years and I think was just of fond of her as I was. It sure made it a lot easier. Trav

 

[festealth]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, the death of a pet can be just as, if not more, devastating as the death of a person. I still can get choked up about pets that died years ago.
I hope you do decide to get another dog qhen you're ready. They really help when it comes to dealing with grief. I used to worry it would be like 'replacing' my pet but animals have such distinct personalities, you don't feel that way once you have the new animal.
I'm sending good energy your way xo

It's because pets are "without sin". They don't purposefully do thing wrong or stay mad at you, they're always there by your side, always being loving and faithful.

My condolences to Littlejimbigher. I can't even imagine losing my dog and I've only had him for 2 years.... but you being with your dog for more than 15! That's like being 105 in human years
Best to also look at the bright side of things.... she had a long life and went out quietly.

Might be a bit too soon to mention it.... but for myself, when my dog eventually dies, I'll have him cremeted and placed in an urn on the exact spot his likes to sit and stare out the window at. Maybe you might want to do something similar. Also, if/when you decide to pick up another 4-legged friend to "be your wingman", there are many at the SPCA

 

[westcoast555]

You gave it a good life

I lost my old dog this weekend. At age 15, she passed away early Sunday.
Even tho I knew it was only a matter of time ,especially with her age it still comes to a complete shock. One day she's happy, demanding her little walks and lots of treats and the next she is gone.

I was a basket case yesterday morning. Crying more than I have in years.
Funny thing was that she was more my ex-wifes dog than mine. Even tho I fed and walked her she loved my ex better.Then 3 years ago when the ex left the dog got left behind to me and we bonded so much that if the ex came over to visit her my dog would just ignore her.

Typing this out just seems to help a little bit.

It's sad that we outlive our pets. But we take care of them, make sure they never suffer and what more could an animal ask for? To be loved, cared for, and ushered out gently at the end by a caring hand?

Those of us who have pets know how painful it is to lose them but it's worth it for what they bring us.

 

[blazejowski]

Having to put down a pet is a very hard thing to do. Even harder when you have to be in the same room when it's being done...

 

[Fillup]

I couldn't read all of the posts in this thread, they are too sad. I lost a very young cat a while ago. Although it seems a bit quick we replaced her immediatly. My motive for this is that as much as I love my pets there are many that also deserve to be loved at the SPCA, Petcetra or any of a number of shelters.

I currently have a cat and a dog and will live out my life with at least one of each.

I feel bad about everyone who has lost a pet. Why not go to the shelter and pick up a new best friend today. You will always have the memory of your lost friend but a new friend will make it easier to accept.

 

[Fillup]

Those are cute shots for sure. There are lots of older dogs who need homes too.
I don't know littlejimbigher but I guarantee they would love him/her/whatever.

 

[littlejimbigher]

My thoughts are with you.

Saddest moment in my life so far was driving with my oldest to the vet for the last time. She had an enlarged heart which pressed on her trachea. Holding her in the blanket on my lap as I drove knowing she wouldn't be there on the way back.

That's what happened with another dog. She knew she wasn't coming back with me and understood that it was for the best with her.

Best to also look at the bright side of things.... she had a long life and went out quietly.

Might be a bit too soon to mention it.... but for myself, when my dog eventually dies, I'll have him cremeted and placed in an urn on the exact spot his likes to sit and stare out the window at. Maybe you might want to do something similar. Also, if/when you decide to pick up another 4-legged friend to "be your wingman", there are many at the SPCA

I get to pick up the ashes today.
Mind you almost $300 for cremation.

This will make littlejim feel better:

Those pics are cute and got a BIG SMILE on my face.

 

[Kevin101]

What stands on four legs or has wings will always be a friend. What stands up on two legs will be an enemy.